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TIME aint credible now??
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Great...2 editorials (from a minister, of all people), and one study that gives half-hearted support of hitting children.please find a report from a reliable source that state the vast pros of physically disciplining your child. we'll wait.http://time.com/3387226/spanking-can-be-an-appropriate-form-of-child-discipline/Look...either give me a solid argument on how spanking is a healthy way to discipline your child or stop posting.
While you're at it, find me a link correlating corporal punishment/spanking to any positive finding. I mean...you can find ANY study to support any position, right?
Because as far as I can tell, your reasoning is "I can't control my kid sometimes and I can't think of a better way to discipline them, so I spank them....and spanking works because spanking works."
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/hea...ore-successful-later-in-life-study-finds.html
http://time.com/3387226/spanking-can-be-an-appropriate-form-of-child-discipline/
NT purest at their finest i see.
Stop assuming everyone uses the tool one way.
We ain't out here AP'n ****.
I don't use belts or switches or anything but my hand.
I don't use all my force and I'm never angry when I do it.
It's a very useful tool when used properly.
Do you understand the difference between a study and the opinion of a minister?TIME aint credible now??
Great...2 editorials (from a minister, of all people), and one study that gives half-hearted support of hitting children.
The fact of the matter is that reality still isn't on your side. There's a 93% agreement of studies regarding spanking--and the consensus states that it's harmful to children overall.
Whether someone has kids or not, we all have the ability to distinguish what's right and wrong when it comes to raising a child. We were all children and we all have memories that stick with us from the past.
Hell...one of the reasons this resonates with me so much is because my mom hit me as a kid. I can say with confidence that I didn't gain anything from it. The only thing it made me do was hide things or lie out of fear of the punishment. The few times she was truly disappointed and didn't hit me had a far greater impact on my desire to do better and change my ways. Her hitting me only made me resent her and distance myself even further.
You still haven't provided one argument as to how spanking is a constructive form of punishment.Great...2 editorials (from a minister, of all people), and one study that gives half-hearted support of hitting children.
The fact of the matter is that reality still isn't on your side. There's a 93% agreement of studies regarding spanking--and the consensus states that it's harmful to children overall.
Whether someone has kids or not, we all have the ability to distinguish what's right and wrong when it comes to raising a child. We were all children and we all have memories that stick with us from the past.
Hell...one of the reasons this resonates with me so much is because my mom hit me as a kid. I can say with confidence that I didn't gain anything from it. The only thing it made me do was hide things or lie out of fear of the punishment. The few times she was truly disappointed and didn't hit me had a far greater impact on my desire to do better and change my ways. Her hitting me only made me resent her and distance myself even further.your mom did it wrong.
Holding resentment towards the dukes?!
Not over here, sorry.
Like I said it's a very thin line between discipline and abuse but hey I rely on family and experience for parental guidance.
Good luck with your studies
I had a professor in college say something similar about father/daughter relationship and it's killing me I can't remember his quote.75% of girls you get your rocks off to online have been either sexually abused or treated like crap by their parents. I'm talking from experience I have met many of these girls before they have gotten on camera and trust me it's not pretty. All I gotta say to parents out there NO MATTER HOW BAD YOUR KIDS GET ESPECIALLY DAUGHTERS NEVER CUT THEM OFF FINANCIALLY. Even if they gotta live with you when their 30 on welfare. If you don't want your kid selling poon in the streets or on the big screen take care of them as much as you can financially until you die. Srsly
she just kept at him until he broke. she would walk away for a minute and tell him to think and then come back and talk to him about how milk costs money and the differences between clean and dirty and asking him if it was a good choice to throw his milk. the whole time she kept asking if it was a good choice he would say yes and laugh but after all that lecturing he finally, in a voice of utter defeat, he said nooo and then he said sorry mommy then she made him wipe down everything two times we have not had a problem with him getting silly with his milk at dinner since thenHow are you gonna lecture a 2 1/2 year old for 20 minutes, bruh?
from when my son was a little over 1, he could reach the knobs on the stove. my wife and i both repeatedly told him from that age that it was dangerous and the stove is HOT/OUCH. if he even touched any part of the stove/oven, one of us would pull him to the side and reiterate why he shouldn't do that. repeatedly. he doesn't mess with it and he also knows that if the light is off in the kitchen, he is not to go in there. would it be easier to slap him and tell him not to do it? probably. i'm not confident in the long-term ramifications of modeling behaviors by use of fear though so we don't do any of that. my son also doesn't watch tv nor does he use the phone or tablet. subsequently, we engage in plenty of dialog and reading and he seems to be responding really well so we'll just keep it like that for now.To those against spanking:
Say there is an energetic 1.5 yr old whose new joy is trying to turn the stove on. How would you set and instill this boundary?
To those against spanking:
Say there is an energetic 1.5 yr old whose new joy is trying to turn the stove on. How would you set and instill this boundary?
thisEasy...talk to them and figure out a way to block off the kitchen.To those against spanking:
Say there is an energetic 1.5 yr old whose new joy is trying to turn the stove on. How would you set and instill this boundary?
I'm tellin' you...the more you have conversations with your child from early on, the more they'll understand right from wrong.