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go ghost. if she is interested, she will reach out.
if not, you had no chance to begin with. at least you saved yourself some time
The Friendzone vol r/niceguy
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if not, you had no chance to begin with. at least you saved yourself some time
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Guess someone already took "foreverugly", so he had to switch it up.
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theres more
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I wanna see what these dudes look like. Paws. Hard for me to believe that they're as ugly as they think they are. I'd be willing to bet they act weird ss hell around girls.
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so many of them have been self-diagnosed with autism
OBAMA
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Smh step your game up
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dudes could look like welven da great.
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sheesh
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they just keep it coming on that sub. its no wonder a lot of these guys get zero love. some of these dudes are elliot rodgers "disciples"
just some translations for you guys before you read
FA=Forever alone
FU=Forever unwanted
Incel=involuntary celibate
Not sure what PUA means but it might mean pick up artist
just some translations for you guys before you read
FA=Forever alone
FU=Forever unwanted
Incel=involuntary celibate
Not sure what PUA means but it might mean pick up artist
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Pathetic. Has had no one to blame but himself
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Maybe its cause im a "normie" or a "chad" but i just dont get the mindset to just give up and accept yourself as some pathetic being while hating everyone that was born with regular social acumen. I know a lot of guys that strike out with a girl and keep on moving. but the actual friendzone is full of guys like the ones in that sub.
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NT fam is full of chads, so of course they don't consider the "incel/fa/fu" peasants.
@jdfrenchbread23 is low-key enjoying those posts though.
@jdfrenchbread23 is low-key enjoying those posts though.
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They gotta sexy themselves up word to FlyNY
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lmao absolutely.
NT fam is full of chads, so of course they don't consider the "incel/fa/fu" peasants.
@jdfrenchbread23 is low-key enjoying those posts though.
i feel like most normal guys go through phases of being awkward and "unattractive" whether its physically or you just havent come into yourself yet. when i was younger i was never a ladies man and to this day im not although i dont believe you have to be a ladies to get female attention. i was sociable but i was chubby and a geek. had tons of female friends but never anything more than that. never stopped trying though. as i got older i grew into myself and i learned from my experiences. never struck out the same way twice and eventually stopped striking out all together. and after a while you figure out what kind of person youre into and how to appeal to them without pretending to be someone youre not. these dudes are in their 30s striking out the same way they did as teenagers. and then blaming it on the opposite sex. one thing i learned in high school and college is that social skills matter more than looks.
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like i said in my last post, i think in 99.999% of cases where it isnt a 1 night stand/temp situation, social skill matter more than appearance
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Strong co-sign and repped.lmao absolutely.
NT fam is full of chads, so of course they don't consider the "incel/fa/fu" peasants.
@jdfrenchbread23 is low-key enjoying those posts though.
i feel like most normal guys go through phases of being awkward and "unattractive" whether its physically or you just havent come into yourself yet. when i was younger i was never a ladies man and to this day im not although i dont believe you have to be a ladies to get female attention. i was sociable but i was chubby and a geek. had tons of female friends but never anything more than that. never stopped trying though. as i got older i grew into myself and i learned from my experiences. never struck out the same way twice and eventually stopped striking out all together. and after a while you figure out what kind of person youre into and how to appeal to them without pretending to be someone youre not. these dudes are in their 30s striking out the same way they did as teenagers. and then blaming it on the opposite sex. one thing i learned in high school and college is that social skills matter more than looks.
Made the same observation in college. I would honestly place social skills ahead of all other factors.
A lot of dudes on that subreddit seems like they've just given up and grown bitter.... I don't understand how people can't do a basic reflection on themselves for their faults instead of placing the blame on others.
All women are the devil? Lol my ***** what? What common sense is that
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right?
and despite how low they think of themselves they wreak of entitlement. they look down on women because they they apparently settle for "Chad" who treats them badly and uses them only because of looks, and ignore the "nice guy". But that nice guy has zero social aptitude, no common interests with most normal people, usually doesnt care about his physical appearance. But girls are supposed to give him a shot off the simple fact that he's "nice". for them compatability and level of attraction are only allowed to come into play on his end, not the females. mean while there are a ton of busted overweight nerdy girls out there that they wouldnt do what they asking attractive girls to do, for them.
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The game can be discouraging. If a guy strikes out a lot, i can understand how he can get traumatized by rejection. esp if the dude is sensitive and gets his feelings hurt easily. This is usually the type that put women on pedestals and view a woman's perception of him as fact.
you CAN NOT let anyone determine your value. period. easier said than done, but it's the truth.
Just because a few people don't like a ferrari because they think it's too little, ugly, too cramped, doesn't change the fact that it's still an awesome car that many peole desire.
You've just got to get desensitized to rejection.
Most dudes take it with the severity of getting rejected by your dream job, or turned down by a prestigious university. It devastates them, they feel like they've failed at life.
You've got to take it in stride, like a store not having your size in a shoe that you've been looking for. it's slighty annoying, but you'll live because it's not that serious, plus there are many more stores out there.
I find myself being hesitant sometimes, this could be because of a brief moment of questioning myself or it could be other factors.
you CAN NOT let anyone determine your value. period. easier said than done, but it's the truth.
Just because a few people don't like a ferrari because they think it's too little, ugly, too cramped, doesn't change the fact that it's still an awesome car that many peole desire.
You've just got to get desensitized to rejection.
Most dudes take it with the severity of getting rejected by your dream job, or turned down by a prestigious university. It devastates them, they feel like they've failed at life.
You've got to take it in stride, like a store not having your size in a shoe that you've been looking for. it's slighty annoying, but you'll live because it's not that serious, plus there are many more stores out there.
I find myself being hesitant sometimes, this could be because of a brief moment of questioning myself or it could be other factors.
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Chicks are all trying to sleep with the top 20% of men.
They are programmed genetically to want strong healthly offspring and that's not evil.
They weren't programmed over thousands of years to appreciate the dudes that were super sick at sitting around by themselves with nothing to show for it.
Looks and fitness can put you in the top 20%
Money can put you there.
Being tall almost makes it a lock if you are even reasonably fit.
If you have some kind of genetic L like a funny nose or dumbo ears, you cant just let yourself go , you aint leo Dicaprio, you gotta get busy on all fronts.
This is charles darwin stuff here.
Get in the game or get left behind.
They are programmed genetically to want strong healthly offspring and that's not evil.
They weren't programmed over thousands of years to appreciate the dudes that were super sick at sitting around by themselves with nothing to show for it.
Looks and fitness can put you in the top 20%
Money can put you there.
Being tall almost makes it a lock if you are even reasonably fit.
If you have some kind of genetic L like a funny nose or dumbo ears, you cant just let yourself go , you aint leo Dicaprio, you gotta get busy on all fronts.
This is charles darwin stuff here.
Get in the game or get left behind.
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"Nice guys" are beyond worse than "Chads."
Why? Because in most cases, "Chads" are upfront, honest, and give no dambs. "Nice guys" are manipulative because they believe their niceness = girls should give up the yambs. This is dishonesty at its core.
You can't negotiate attraction. Nice guys think they can just by being who they are, which in most cases, is mainly meek, shy, and supplicating.
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Why would you have to desensitize yourself to rejection unless you plan on getting rejected a lot? The sooner dudes start realizing "the game" isn't actually a game the better off they will be. Cats who go after enough girls and get rejected enough to warrant becoming desensitized are 1. Not actually interested in making any real connection with women and 2. Are not learning from their mistakes.
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I was mainly referring to men that let it get to them if a female rejects them, and lets that deter him from future approaches.
For 99.999% of men, if you approach women regularly, rejection is inevitable. I guarantee there's not a man alive that's batting 1.000 when it comes to getting women.
Some take it harder than others. Once you don't give a damn what she says, you can move to the next one seamlessly.
For 99.999% of men, if you approach women regularly, rejection is inevitable. I guarantee there's not a man alive that's batting 1.000 when it comes to getting women.
Some take it harder than others. Once you don't give a damn what she says, you can move to the next one seamlessly.