TAY '16: The Saga Continues

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One of my coworkers as of last week all of a sudden now calls me "Big D!" everytime she sees me and even goes out of her way to come talk to me and make surr we cross paths more so she can say it plus be alll frendly with your boy. The first initial of my first name is in fact a D and I am obese but somehow I think there's more to it
 
Alright so in a conundrum and figure I would reach out the TAY for advice. I have been single for damn near about 5 years. Haven't had much feelings for anyone and been just living the single life. Thing is I am terrible at cutting things off with chicks when they get to invested. Most of the time I just stop responding. What is your main go to for breaking things off. Truthfully I have been hanging out with this broad for a few weeks and just am not feeling it but she is definitely feeling like there is more. I started hanging out with this other chick who for the first time in a long time I feel a connection with so I have to get rid of this other bird. Tell me your ways
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"I'm not feeling it." There's no need to try to fudge the words to make her feel better. She gon be hurt no matter what, at least let her be hurt by something real
WTF am I doing wrong?
I'm getting super comfortable at approaching at bars but I'm just not closing the deal. We'll talk/dance within a span of 15-25 minutes, get her number, and move on.
I'll call them the next day and I try to make the conversations short and to the point. After that I don't ever hear back them ever again. ****'s starting to get super annoying.
Sounds like you are trying to make something happen. Yambs should be falling in ya lap not trying to rope em in. Chill, let the convo flow. I'd say try texting if that's your thing. That way you have time to really relax in each response
My girl got a damn stalker. Dude is friends with her friend so he knows about her through Facebook. He knew I am out of town through her friend. Shows up at her gym then shows up at her job. My girl already told her friend to tell him he's about to get his head bust. Oh well I get back tomorrow.
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She had to have her friend a personal trainer at the gym tell him to go away. Straight creep.
SMH it's the worst when you can't be there. Stay outta jail man lol
Got this cutie from Chicago's number at a job fair. She was a vendor as well. The next two weekends are the worst though, wrestlemania is this weekend and next weekend I'm wrestling. I don't want to push us hanging out two weeks out, but I don't know what to do. Maybe I'll see if she's free tonight for a happy hour. Or maybe brunch on Saturday morning.

I'll try to get pics for yall.
You gon be at WrestleMania in Dallas?
 
Naw, I'm going to stay in Houston, but I don't want to go out on Sunday at all other than church. Traffic crazy because Final Four in town.
Oh okay, I'm not too excited about parking out here for WM. I hate traffic
 
Also anybody ever go to a popular bar by themselves to pick up women?

yep, call it a quickstrike, I drop in to grab a drink, put up a few field goal attempts, try to get a #, and bounce. I'm only there like 20-30 minutes, walk in around 12AM.

don't go to pick up women, go to see the crowd, mingle etc.
Yea me and my bro do the same thing sometimes ...hit the bar/club real quick , go straight to work talking to some chicks get digits n dip ...sometimes u ain't in the mood to be out all night but still need to get some new joints so 30mins - an hour is cool to get some new prospects

Fam i'm mad at my bro who I would that with. In like the less than two years he's moved away my dude got married with two more kids.
 
Question fam...I've been with my girl since high school or whatever and after high school I decided to join the military but left cause I wasn't feeling it and maybe in part cause I missed her a bit as well. So I returned to my hometown and finished school here but I've been wanting to leave home forever and go to a different city. Now that opportunity as presented itself, but I'd have to leave her for a good 5 to 6 months and she's upset/sad that I'm leaving which is rightfully so, but the opportunity is a much better opportunity got myself so I'm going to be excited. My question to you guys is how should I play this?
 
 
Question fam...I've been with my girl since high school or whatever and after high school I decided to join the military but left cause I wasn't feeling it and maybe in part cause I missed her a bit as well. So I returned to my hometown and finished school here but I've been wanting to leave home forever and go to a different city. Now that opportunity as presented itself, but I'd have to leave her for a good 5 to 6 months and she's upset/sad that I'm leaving which is rightfully so, but the opportunity is a much better opportunity got myself so I'm going to be excited. My question to you guys is how should I play this?
You gotta weigh them options pleihboi

What's to gain, what's to lose? How far will y'all be away from each other? A few hours driving or flying?
 
 
You gotta weigh them options pleihboi

What's to gain, what's to lose? How far will y'all be away from each other? A few hours driving or flyina?
A career instead of a job is the gain. And it'll be flying distance but after the training I told her she could come wherever I'm at if she wanted to. I mean iIget where she's coming from but I have to live my life for myself to you know?
 
 
A career instead of a job is the gain. And it'll be flying distance but after the training I told her she could come wherever I'm at if she wanted to. I mean iIget where she's coming from but I have to live my life for myself to you know?
If its gonna benefit you both heavily, Id say do it with or without her. Now this is if it were me, you gotta make the decision.

You are gonna put yourself way above where you are now practically guaranteed within the year (I assume), if she can't get on board with you being able to do more for you both than she not mature
 
I've only been seeing this girl for a month, and its not working out , do i tell her im not interested anymore or do i just stop talking to her/ say im busy when she wants to hang out?
 
I've only been seeing this girl for a month, and its not working out , do i tell her im not interested anymore or do i just stop talking to her/ say im busy when she wants to hang out?
Man up and dump her. Why would you play childish games and dodge her ?
 
:smh: was smashin for a good 10mins changed positions and my d totally went limp this ever happen to yall :stoneface:

first time it happened to me it was hella frustrating :lol:
 
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Worse is when you drunker than a skunk and you know what's gonna eventually happen but you still try to smash anyway.

That's why cognac ftw
 
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