NT Family, Please Help. This Is Really Bothering Me (YAMB related)....

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What's going on guys? How is everybody's day going? Good? Oh that's great. Okay so there's something I feel I have to tell you guys. So theres this girl that works at T Mobile and I go there once a month to pay my phone bill. And usually when I walk in the door she smiles and greets me and walks up to me to help me out. We chat a good bit whenever we can (or when she can). Last Friday I went there to get me a new phone and as per usual, she greeted and smiled at me and all that. This time we talked alot more than usual. She asked me what was I doing (working, going to school, etc.), when did I graduate, how old I was and all of that. She told she was 21 and how she was going to college and working but it wasn't working out so she quit college (like me). Told me she has two jobs and how she doesn't want her kids to have to work while going to college (she doesn't have any kids now, but she said she wants some)... She told me she likes me and said I was cool. Called me by my name too. So anyway yea I went back yesterday to pay my phone bill. She wasn't there yet somebody else was helping me. After about 5 minutes she walks through the door (I guess she came back from lunch). I look towards the door and see her, but I qiuckly look away. I didn't speak or anything. So she comes up to where I was to talk the other person that was helping me. I looked up and she said hey how are you doing and said "hey whats going on". And that was it.


So I'm telling yall about this because I'm thinking I kind of messed up. Everytime I walk through the door she says hi with a genuine smile on her face, gives me compliments, and says have a nice a day whenever I leave. But I didn't do any of things to her yesterday. And it's killing me because I really like her. Not like liker her but I'm very interested in getting to know her more. She's very attractive and very easy to talk to. Idk based on what I told you guys do yall think I messed up by not acknowledging her? Do yall even think shes interested in me at all? Another thing that's killing me is her history. I don't know much about that, other than I went on her Facebook and saw a picture of her and her prom date. It's bothering me too because I don't know if he had sex with her or what? And she's friends with alot of dudes. So IDK if has lingering feeling any dudes or whatever. So yea... I'm truly sorry if this comes of as bothersome or lame or whatever. So yea please tell me what yall think.

Did I mess up? How bad? Is she feeling me at all?
 
Haven't seen one of these threads in a while. OP you never had a girlfriend ? How old are you fam ? Just take shorty to one side of the room act like you interested in a phone so that if her boss or anyone else there, they wont really know your intentions. Ask her for her number and take shorty out. It's not that hard. Stop being soft. You wasting too much time. And stop worrying about shorties past and all of that. You really went through her friends list and counted how many male friends she had and did a ratio to how many female friends she had ? SMH. Don't display that weird side of yourself cause that sounds borderline stalkerish.
 
What's going on guys? How is everybody's day going? Good? Oh that's great. Okay so there's something I feel I have to tell you guys. So theres this girl that works at T Mobile and I go there once a month to pay my phone bill. And usually when I walk in the door she smiles and greets me and walks up to me to help me out. We chat a good bit whenever we can (or when she can). Last Friday I went there to get me a new phone and as per usual, she greeted and smiled at me and all that. This time we talked alot more than usual. She asked me what was I doing (working, going to school, etc.), when did I graduate, how old I was and all of that. She told she was 21 and how she was going to college and working but it wasn't working out so she quit college (like me). Told me she has two jobs and how she doesn't want her kids to have to work while going to college (she doesn't have any kids now, but she said she wants some)... She told me she likes me and said I was cool. Called me by my name too. So anyway yea I went back yesterday to pay my phone bill. She wasn't there yet somebody else was helping me. After about 5 minutes she walks through the door (I guess she came back from lunch). I look towards the door and see her, but I qiuckly look away. I didn't speak or anything. So she comes up to where I was to talk the other person that was helping me. I looked up and she said hey how are you doing and said "hey whats going on". And that was it.


So I'm telling yall about this because I'm thinking I kind of messed up. Everytime I walk through the door she says hi with a genuine smile on her face, gives me compliments, and says have a nice a day whenever I leave. But I didn't do any of things to her yesterday. And it's killing me because I really like her. Not like liker her but I'm very interested in getting to know her more. She's very attractive and very easy to talk to. Idk based on what I told you guys do yall think I messed up by not acknowledging her? Do yall even think shes interested in me at all? Another thing that's killing me is her history. I don't know much about that, other than I went on her Facebook and saw a picture of her and her prom date. It's bothering me too because I don't know if he had sex with her or what? And she's friends with alot of dudes. So IDK if has lingering feeling any dudes or whatever. So yea... I'm truly sorry if this comes of as bothersome or lame or whatever. So yea please tell me what yall think.

Did I mess up? How bad? Is she feeling me at all?
 
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some variation of something like this will get the point across...

but pick a song that conveys that you cannot live without her and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her...

i love seeing this type of stuff happen man, go get your girl OP
 
Your Not Gonna Be Smashing.

But seriously worried bout her prom date? Like bro get a grip on yourself. This is beyond scary tendencies (i.e. Perusing through her social networks.)

You need to relieve all this pent up pressure on yourself also.
 
 
some variation of something like this will get the point across...

but pick a song that conveys that you cannot live without her and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her...

i love seeing this type of stuff happen man, go get your girl OP
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I'll never support other people getting hurt, but a boy doesn't become a man until he goes through heartbreak. Better sooner than later.
 
ask her out to lunch/dinner or coffee

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where ya pops at b?

Boys don't know how to scoop?

Just tell shorty you like her and would like to spend some time getting to know her, it's pretty cut and dry young blood
 
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Why did you quickly look away when you saw her on some female ****? And stop looking through her social media account b. Just go up there and speak to her, all of the extra stuff is not valid. :smh:
 
Haven't seen one of these threads in a while. OP you never had a girlfriend ? How old are you fam ? Just take shorty to one side of the room act like you interested in a phone so that if her boss or anyone else there, they wont really know your intentions. Ask her for her number and take shorty out. It's not that hard. Stop being soft. You wasting too much time. And stop worrying about shorties past and all of that. You really went through her friends list and counted how many male friends she had and did a ratio to how many female friends she had ? SMH. Don't display that weird side of yourself cause that sounds borderline stalkerish.

I had a few girlfriends. I'm no ladies man though. And I'm a virgin (oh my god I just put that). I'm very shy and self conscious. I'm 21.
 
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 YNS ...ever.


 
Hustling just to show out for these ******* you lost
In love but you ain't never got the ***** you off
Head on first night we need to turn that to law
Love at first sight man I don't **** with that at all
******* can't be beefing 'bout no ******, that's law
****** shouldn't beefing over *******, that's soft
 

- Yo Gotti
 
You have to go through pain in order to survive, b. It's her job to be pleasant with you (don't mistake that for her feeling you). You could have made it known you were interested after your lengthy exchange and secured some sort of contact info.  Most women have a past.  Don't stalk her at the gig and get advice from a trusted male figure.
 
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where ya pops at b?

Boys don't know how to scoop?

Just tell shorty you like her and would like to spend some time getting to know her, it's pretty cut and dry young blood

That's not too....blunt???? It's not too early???

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Why did you quickly look away when you saw her on some female ****? And stop looking through her social media account b. Just go up there and speak to her, all of the extra stuff is not valid. :smh:

IDK I always do that. I just looked away. It was spontaneous. I didnt think about it.
 
:lol: son innocent as hell. Don't worry man, she ain't worried why you acting like that more than you are. Keep cool next time you see her, get her number and ask her out already. You acting like this some romance movie, ain't nothing gonna start til you initiate it.
 
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I had a few girlfriends. I'm no ladies man though. And I'm a virgin (oh my god I just put that). I'm very shy and self conscious. I'm 21.
Ain't nothing to be worried about man. Don't let the fact that you're a virgin, scare you from talking to girls. If a girls love you enough she'll stick around with you even if you fumble around on your first time. Just be confident and sure of yourself. Speak up and live for the awkward moments.
 
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