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I mean and its so blatant as to why no women come on here. Dudes just bash women for everything on here.i swear people on this board take every opportunity to slander the opposite gender
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I mean and its so blatant as to why no women come on here. Dudes just bash women for everything on here.i swear people on this board take every opportunity to slander the opposite gender
We now have to work on staying together as a family and not letting the child grow up in a one parent household.
it isnt the fathers these days it is the mothers.... it isnt pretty when dealing with a ignorant baby moms
i swear people on this board take every opportunity to slander the opposite gender
People cant have opinions on a subject?I mean and its so blatant as to why no women come on here. Dudes just bash women for everything on here.
fareal.at thinking a message board especially catered to woman wouldn't have tons of threads bad mouthing men. C'mon guys this is a thread about fatherhood especially amongst black men. Let's stay the course
Its sort of suspect if you ask me.
****** on here advocate hitting women and trash them every chance they get...and only speak favorably of them when they're naked.
Young Thug syndrome has infiltrated NT.
MayorNinjahood is literally the Grinch of NT
fixed.
it isnt the fathers these days it is the mothers.... it isnt pretty when dealing with a ignorant baby moms
At the same time though, I know a lot of people who never had their fathers in their life.
All black. I've never known a white person whose father wasn't in their life (admittedly don't have a close relationship with many white people though). But that's just my observation and I see what you're trying to say.
We're a generation of men who were raised without their fathers. I'm pretty sure we cannot fathom not being father's to our children.
I'm pretty sure some of you may be familiar with the picture of the father combing his daughter's hair in the mirror. He received praise for being there for his kids, and being active in their lives. His response? Why am I receiving praise for being a father?
That's the way it is right now. But I am happy we're working on that perception .
This the **** I deal with man, this **** was early this morning
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Bruh, it isn't just the "ignorant" ones either. I don't want to go on and on about my ex, but she has a bachelor's, credentials and a master's degree. A lot of women make it hard for a father to be around. To the point that I can see how a father might say **** it and hit the road. This is coming from a man that fought hard for joint custody of my two daughters. I actually had my last court case this morning to up my custody percentage and adjust my schedule. I fought for three years and had to deal with all types of bs just to see my kids like I want to.
I've had to deal with:
--set ups to get jumped while out
--set ups to make it look like I was trying to assault my ex (her running and screaming "HELP HE'S CRAZY!!!) in public while dropping my daughters off :x
--her lying to the judge saying I'm a drug addict when I'm clearly not, in fact I don't even drink with exception of the rare social drink and haven't blazed in years
--her just not showing up to bring the kids
--lying to child support about me "abandoning" my kids when I have pics of me with them for the time period she says I was absent
--lying to a judge that she had a restraining order against me (couldn't produce it because it didn't exist)
--lying about her work schedule/wages to get more money out of me
--painting me as a wife beater when she's NEVER had her *** kicked by me no matter how disrespectful she has gotten or her putting hands on me
--and the list goes on...
A lot of women get bitter and angry that they're no longer wanted and will make it HELL for a man and I'm not saying that's every case, but in the cases where a man isn't around, sometimes it's because the mother made it to where the dad wasn't willing to have his life ruined potentially. Now there are definitely cases of dad's just not giving a **** and I'm aware of some of those, but honestly, in A LOT of those cases the mother ain't about **** either. The dudes that I personally know that are no longer with their bm/ex are active in their kids' lives just like OP is talking about.
I can also speak from a unique perspective in that my biological mother wasn't **** and my Pops and step-mom raised me. I know personally, it made me and my brother NEVER want to give up on our children no matter what the mom was on.
Shout out to the NT fathers that are doing the right thing. You don't have to be married or in a relationship with the mom to take care of your kids.
He's only a phone call away but sometimes it's like talking to a stranger because there's been so many things that's happened in my life that he hasn't been around for. It's made me appreciate my mom so much more for taking on the role of 2 parents for me emotionally and has motivated me to want to be a great father to my kids one day.
Start jotting down notes with dates of her harassing you, and ya new girl, save screen shots of texts, take dat concubine to court get full custody of ya child then shmoney dance on your way outMan that's just the tip of the iceberg, baby girl is terrorist straight up. I could deal with it if it was just that but when you yell and carry on like that in my daughters presence it can't help but shift her perspective and view on everything, she only getting older.