Mister Meaner
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While this may not be a perfect example pertaining to OP's question, I'll just leave this little nugget here for thought.
A few months ago, me and my ex started seeing each other again. At that time, we still had a few issues to work passed, but we (or at least, I) thought it could have a happy ending. I aimed to be more attentive and dedicated to the relationship. Anyhoo, she ends up having to go to a funeral. A funeral for someone she hadn't seen in years. At said funeral, she gets reacquainted with another guy she hadn't seen in years.
To make a long story short, shortly after the funeral, she made plans to meet up with the guy (and supposedly another girl that she saw at the funeral). The girl, supposedly couldn't make the outing, so it was just her and the guy. I didn't text her much that evening because I assumed she was just with her friends. And she even told me she'd text me later, not wanting to be rude to "them."
It's a gotdamn good thing I had her email password stored in the cookies on my laptop. She sent one of her friends screen shots describing the deep connection she made last night & the kiss goodnight that was just amazing. But I didn't see that until a couple days later.
This ***** stops by my job the day after her amazing night & gives me a kiss upon greeting me :x.
Fast forward to now, that dude was like a two week fling. I smashed during the summer while she was talking to another dude. And now she has a bf who don't eem know the type of chick she is, but that'll eventually come to light, I'm sure.
So with that said OP, things don't look good when that starts happening. Even sounds like she was trying to have some uninterrupted fun, but you'd be killing the vibe if she has to respond to your texts.
A few months ago, me and my ex started seeing each other again. At that time, we still had a few issues to work passed, but we (or at least, I) thought it could have a happy ending. I aimed to be more attentive and dedicated to the relationship. Anyhoo, she ends up having to go to a funeral. A funeral for someone she hadn't seen in years. At said funeral, she gets reacquainted with another guy she hadn't seen in years.
To make a long story short, shortly after the funeral, she made plans to meet up with the guy (and supposedly another girl that she saw at the funeral). The girl, supposedly couldn't make the outing, so it was just her and the guy. I didn't text her much that evening because I assumed she was just with her friends. And she even told me she'd text me later, not wanting to be rude to "them."
It's a gotdamn good thing I had her email password stored in the cookies on my laptop. She sent one of her friends screen shots describing the deep connection she made last night & the kiss goodnight that was just amazing. But I didn't see that until a couple days later.
This ***** stops by my job the day after her amazing night & gives me a kiss upon greeting me :x.
Fast forward to now, that dude was like a two week fling. I smashed during the summer while she was talking to another dude. And now she has a bf who don't eem know the type of chick she is, but that'll eventually come to light, I'm sure.
So with that said OP, things don't look good when that starts happening. Even sounds like she was trying to have some uninterrupted fun, but you'd be killing the vibe if she has to respond to your texts.
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