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Females 'bagging' dudes?
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What did I say that was confusing?
If a woman comes at me, that means she wanted me so bad that she couldn't wait it out to see if I would make the approach. Whether that means she'sthirsty or not, I would have a psychological advantage over her, because in the back of her mind she's asking herself what would have happened had shewaited? Would I have made the approach? Did I really want her or did I just take the number because she came off as easy? Whether she's confident or not,I'm not gonna give her enough info to know how I feel either way and when I do call it'll be on my terms.
The first time this happened, I lost my virginity. The last time this happened, the girl didn't like being on my terms. Not saying it works out my wayevery time, but that's how I play that situation.
EDIT: That wasn't the last time. The last time, I went weeks between making contact with the girl and when we finally did get together, I showed up late,didn't drop a dime and got my swipe pampered, twice.
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^Nah I got it, just don't agree. But it may be true in your situation since there seems to be a shorter amount of time between seeing the girl and gettingthe number.
I know I don't ever wonder "What if I didn't ask", it's just another day to me
I know I don't ever wonder "What if I didn't ask", it's just another day to me
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Getting the number on the bottom/back of your receipt unexpectedly...
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*Ahem*
NO MALE HAS EVER BAGGED A FEMALE.
NO MALE HAS EVER BAGGED A FEMALE.
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i like it when it's done classy. thirsty, hood chicks yelling "DAMN YOU A CUTE $!% WHITE BOY" while i'm working isn't.
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yea your only the 5th person to say that in this thread, congrats.
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no bagging from me
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what he said.
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hes not the 5th person, its just him saying it over and over.
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Personally, i love that %!++.
Yep, and it shows maturity in a way. The guy doesnt have to do everything...
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it's nice when girls approach you, there's nothing wrong with a girl who knows what she wants.
on the other hand, i'm more traditional where it comes to me having to go up to a girl.
but having her come up to you is more than flattering (guys can get flattered too)
on the other hand, i'm more traditional where it comes to me having to go up to a girl.
but having her come up to you is more than flattering (guys can get flattered too)
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Ditto to picsOriginally Posted by mytmouse76
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Ya know for research n such...
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happened a couple times, i still wonder why this does not happen more often to not only me, but other people too. these cali girls are too good for that Iguess
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Say a girl goes out looking for a good time with her girlfriends, but not neccessarily looking for a guy. There's 10-12 guys in the club that she findsattractive but it's not a big deal. One of the attractive guys goes up to her and buys her a drink. They have a great conversation, he's funny,intelligent, and his swagger is phenomenal. She gives him the digits, and they eventually have sex.
In this situation (which happens all the time), didn't both parties bag each other? What made her bag him, versus it being a mutual thing? Maybe she gavehim eye contact, but wouldn't he have to notice it at first and then act upon it. Wouldn't he have to pick her over the other 10 girls looking at him,many of which might have just been trying to get free drink? Couldn't his personality not be a good fit for her? Or maybe his game is weak, and she justdidn't feel like dealing with a lame dude? There's an infinite amount of variables.
People bag each other, for the most part. Yeah, I've definitely been bagged once or twice by a broad, but for the most part it was definitely a jointeffort. And due to the fact that women aren't the agressors in most situations, I'm going to give credit to the guy for making it happen.
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Used to happen on the regular when I was younger (Im only 21 btw) but it has been rare these days (I only been out a month). I guess I gotta get out and see ifI can still pull em like that
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Originally Posted by kix4kix
dude said beastly though. Man to be honest, I let females know from jump if they looking like farooq I am doing the mark Ingram on em.
But I've been "bagged" by a couple of women. I remember 3 instances that made it feel weird, but I'll tell you 2. The first time a girl tryto bag me was on my homegirl's birthday, in High School. I was just having a blast with this one 1 Chinese chick, and then she started talking about porn,and how she's never seen it. It caught me off guard a bit, but I went to karaoke with her and got my feels on, but I turned her down for Junior prombecause she was so aggressive. Boy, was I slow in high school with girls, that was a guarantee smash.
And the 2nd instance was in the parking lot, at a Safeway grocery store, at 1:00 in the morning. This beautiful Ethiopian chick, with a nice waist in denimjeans busted out, "Hey can I holla at you for a minute?" But she sounded like a dude, not in the sense of her voice, but like her approach. It wassomething a dude would say to a girl outside the club, while drunk. So I said, "What's up?" because she was standing by her friends and inchingcloser. Girl was bold. She walked over to me and grab my arms and wrapped it around her waist. You know I had to slide my hands down a tad bit to see how softshe was. We exchange numbers, and then I went in, to get my groceries, but before I could leave, she just grab a handful of my butt, and gave a me a slickwink. Never in my life, have I ever felt so violated and used.
Overall though, I have no problem with a woman asking for my number. It's actually cute, seeing her beat around the bush, when you know she wants to get toknow you right off the bat.
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x3Originally Posted by Fanatic15
Ditto to picsOriginally Posted by mytmouse76
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Ya know for research n such...
my inbox is open,
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i do this sometimes only to make sure i still have this "skill" anybody i would have any real interest in would have to bag me.
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i think its desperate. but i dont mind
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aslong as u own a v u really dont need skill to just get a dudes number.