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I guess I've had my fair share of girl posts in my NT career. I'd like to think I've slowed down... lol. But you guys are great to vent to, and usually have some humorous and insightful responses that make me feel better.
I posted about this same girl back in June, cliff notes, went to g/fs work party and everyone was passing blunts. I smoked with her work friends and she lost her mind and a huge fight occurred. I said our lease ended in September.
Well we actually semi patched things up for a minute, but like always it was just temporary and we were just some stupid fight away from things being done. That fight happened and we ended the lease, moved out, and have gone our separate ways. We haven't seen each other since and are no longer talking.
After 3 years of being together and 2 years of living together it's still a little hard to process, but I guess I know I'm better off in the long run. Weed has been a problem since early on in our relationship. She knew I smoked the day we met, yet still pursued me with the intent of changing me. That's messed up. So many fights revolved around her being mad that I smoked, or accusing me of smelling or tasting like weed. Even when I legit didn't smoke I would get accusations. It was ALWAYS an issue. Relationships are about compromise, and she always wanted me to do what she wanted but didn't want to have to make any compromises herself.
I know I'm better off, but I'm in that confused/lonely state right now, and can't really see myself dating or getting back out there again anytime soon. I suppose life is better alone than constantly in a fight with someone who's constantly trying to control you, but ehhh I'm feeling ehhh right now.
So I guess the purpose of my post is to vent and wait for the supportive responses as well as the responses that are the opposite lmao. I know how NT goes.
On the bright side, I have a really dope dog that I wouldn't have had it not been for this relationship.
I posted about this same girl back in June, cliff notes, went to g/fs work party and everyone was passing blunts. I smoked with her work friends and she lost her mind and a huge fight occurred. I said our lease ended in September.
Well we actually semi patched things up for a minute, but like always it was just temporary and we were just some stupid fight away from things being done. That fight happened and we ended the lease, moved out, and have gone our separate ways. We haven't seen each other since and are no longer talking.
After 3 years of being together and 2 years of living together it's still a little hard to process, but I guess I know I'm better off in the long run. Weed has been a problem since early on in our relationship. She knew I smoked the day we met, yet still pursued me with the intent of changing me. That's messed up. So many fights revolved around her being mad that I smoked, or accusing me of smelling or tasting like weed. Even when I legit didn't smoke I would get accusations. It was ALWAYS an issue. Relationships are about compromise, and she always wanted me to do what she wanted but didn't want to have to make any compromises herself.
I know I'm better off, but I'm in that confused/lonely state right now, and can't really see myself dating or getting back out there again anytime soon. I suppose life is better alone than constantly in a fight with someone who's constantly trying to control you, but ehhh I'm feeling ehhh right now.
So I guess the purpose of my post is to vent and wait for the supportive responses as well as the responses that are the opposite lmao. I know how NT goes.
On the bright side, I have a really dope dog that I wouldn't have had it not been for this relationship.
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