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I'll try to make this simple..Me, my wife, and our kids are moving next month..We'll be moving into my mother in law's rental house..The previous tenants screwed her over and didn't pay the last 4 months rent, she's not making us pay a security deposit, and we don't have to pay first and last month's rent..
So here's my questions..
1.Should I pay for the locks to be changed or ask her to pay?
2.Should I pay for the carpets to be cleaned (last renters had cats and Im allergic) or ask her to pay?
3.She says we can either sign a lease or not(I think she wants us to not sign one so she can have some say on how we do things in her home)..Not signing one would give us the freedom to move out whenever we want..But if we don't then I feel like she'll come in and out of house whenever she wants, she'll use the garage to store stuff without asking, and she'll hold it over our head that we have no lease so she's doing us the favor of allowing us to live there(We're paying fair market price for rent so it's not like we're mooching off her for free)
So help me out NT..What do you think we should do?..We have to move out of our apartment cause we got robbed and we don't feel safe..My wife's mom's house is in a pretty good place and it's the only house we can afford..But I don't want to offend her by asking for some of the above things to be paid for and I don't want to get screwed by not signing a lease..What would yall do?
So here's my questions..
1.Should I pay for the locks to be changed or ask her to pay?
2.Should I pay for the carpets to be cleaned (last renters had cats and Im allergic) or ask her to pay?
3.She says we can either sign a lease or not(I think she wants us to not sign one so she can have some say on how we do things in her home)..Not signing one would give us the freedom to move out whenever we want..But if we don't then I feel like she'll come in and out of house whenever she wants, she'll use the garage to store stuff without asking, and she'll hold it over our head that we have no lease so she's doing us the favor of allowing us to live there(We're paying fair market price for rent so it's not like we're mooching off her for free)
So help me out NT..What do you think we should do?..We have to move out of our apartment cause we got robbed and we don't feel safe..My wife's mom's house is in a pretty good place and it's the only house we can afford..But I don't want to offend her by asking for some of the above things to be paid for and I don't want to get screwed by not signing a lease..What would yall do?