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Good news OP. I was scared for you when you mentioned that he was bleeding out. I'm not sure if it was **** up by the doctors, but glad they're able to rectify the situation. Keep us updated.
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Your Dad knew y'all was there. I can't explain it, but y'all presence was felt. I hope you're telling your Dad, how much you and your family, truly love him. Honestly, I would've also mentioned *NTers* as "individuals" that he never met, are praying for him to overcome this tragedy.Just visited my dad now and saw him with his eyes open which was great... Not sure if he knew my mom and me were here.
Update?Just trying to stay strong... But Tuesday night and Wednesday morning it was an emotional roller coaster because I didn't know what would happen... And have been drinking every night just to get my mind off things and be able to sleep...just visited my dad now and saw him with his eyes open which was great... Not sure if he knew my mom and me were here...going to hang out at the hospital for a few hours today then go home to NJ for the week for work... Will be back next weekend...but tomorrow should be a big day because they will clean him up and close him... So I'll give an update tomorrow...
Hey bro, if you ever need to vent, my DM is open.Just trying to stay strong... But Tuesday night and Wednesday morning it was an emotional roller coaster because I didn't know what would happen... And have been drinking every night just to get my mind off things and be able to sleep...just visited my dad now and saw him with his eyes open which was great... Not sure if he knew my mom and me were here...going to hang out at the hospital for a few hours today then go home to NJ for the week for work... Will be back next weekend...but tomorrow should be a big day because they will clean him up and close him... So I'll give an update tomorrow...
How's your pops doing? Just found out my mom has lung cancer today and I'm devastated. Feels like a nightmare I want to wake up from.
Best we can do is be there for them throughout their entire journey
Your dad put up a hell of a fight over the past month. That should stand as a testament of his strength.
Welp it looks like today is the end of the road...my dad had the ecmo machine removed this Wednesday so he was on the two life support machines instead of four...I thought he was on the right path... Then my mom talked to the nurse and said there's not much more they can do... Then the Dr told us to go to the hospital ASAP to say goodbye... My sister was already there and me and my mom came a few hours later...they said that he's not responsive and his blood rate is going down slowly and asked my fam what we wanted to do... So my mom said to give him pain medicine so he won't suffer or have pain while he dies... So now we are just saying our goodbyes while the inevitable happens... The priest already came to give their prayers...just wanted to let y'all know everything... I'm trying to stay strong... It was tough for me to say goodbye without being emotional...
sorry to hear brudda,my condolencesMe and my mom were angry that my sister would never visit...she was posting all this stuff on social media and we were like you can do all that and not visit... She was saying she can't see my dad like this... She ended up visiting last Saturday and this Friday... We saw her today and she was an emotional wreck...so now I understood why she was acting like that... But it's all forgotten now... Here in NJ we only have our immediate family so now just me my mom and sister so we have to be supportive of each other at all times...
Everybody copes with these situations in different ways. I’m glad you were able to understand that with your sister and aren’t holding the way she acted against her. It’s good that she’s there now and y’all can be together for your dads final moments.Me and my mom were angry that my sister would never visit...she was posting all this stuff on social media and we were like you can do all that and not visit... She was saying she can't see my dad like this... She ended up visiting last Saturday and this Friday... We saw her today and she was an emotional wreck...so now I understood why she was acting like that... But it's all forgotten now... Here in NJ we only have our immediate family so now just me my mom and sister so we have to be supportive of each other at all times...
bless up. anger is temporary. love is forever... But it's all forgotten now...