NT's take on cheating? vol. ex on her way over

Why set a precedent for your own relationships? Even if your current gf isn't the one you're setting future relationships up for failure.

In the end, you're not posting this thread because you're going to heed NT's advice. You're posting this thread to brag. No one is impressed that you have a "great gf" and your ex gf still wants to sleep with you.
 
Why set a precedent for your own relationships? Even if your current gf isn't the one you're setting future relationships up for failure.

In the end, you're not posting this thread because you're going to heed NT's advice. You're posting this thread to brag. No one is impressed that you have a "great gf" and your ex gf still wants to sleep with you.
Dude smashing is nothing to brag about unless you're a virgin and I'm pretty sure smashing an ex is one of the easiest least brag worthy smashes. I legitimately wanted advice, current chick is everything I've ever wanted yet I still have the desire to cheat... 
 
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Your ex know about your current?
Yea, they actually personally know each other 
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Why set a precedent for your own relationships? Even if your current gf isn't the one you're setting future relationships up for failure.


In the end, you're not posting this thread because you're going to heed NT's advice. You're posting this thread to brag. No one is impressed that you have a "great gf" and your ex gf still wants to sleep with you.
Dude smashing is nothing to brag about unless you're a virgin and I'm pretty sure smashing an ex is one of the easiest least brag worthy smashes. I legitimately wanted advice, current chick is everything I've ever wanted yet I still have the desire to cheat... 

Is your ex better looking and/or better in bed?

Did your ex dump you or you dump her?
 
I say do it cause your current gf is probably get boned by her coworker Jesse
 
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Is your ex better looking and/or better in bed?

Did your ex dump you or you dump her?
About one number down in looks but  that mass 
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Ex left me cause I cheated 
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cuh did you already cheat?

if you want to keep your current girl at all, you did it all wrong

1. current and ex know each other well

2. ex dumped you for cheating, but wants to smash even tho u hurt her AND she knows you have a girl

that just sounds like shes on an ultimate sabotage scheme
 
If you're willing to cheat on a girl (wayyyy different then want to) then You're already wasting your time with her. I don't cheat on girls, I'll just break up and save myself the problems.


You want NT's help but no pics?? where the pics at :nerd:


why not just be single and smash whatever you want?


*insert no pics meme*


Almost 2014 and still no pics
 
Deed is done, mentally at the very least.


Are you wrong? Yeah, but you can make try to give closure through telling your current gf. If she wasn't who you wanted, just don't string her long. We live and learn though.
That's the thing I don't want to tell her, just want to smash and continue like nothing happened. Ex just has that cake, current gf doesn't.

So, your current girl isn't really "amazing in every possible way" like you said.

You know what the Golden Rule is?
 
From my experience, once you open the door to that life, it's over for your relationship. After you get away with it once, you'll never want to put up with any bs your gf throws your way because the escape to a woman that will tolerate anything from you, just to get some D, will always be an option that lingers in the back of your mind. Once the option is there to accept P thrown your way, your dambs will run out slowly until you're in full no damb mode.

But we all have to see it ourselves to believe it.

My opinion: if it's broken and you want to keep it, fix it. If you don't want it anymore, end it. That simple. No point in crushing your gf's heart because you don't care anymore. At least let her leave this relationship with her confidence and self-image in tact.
 
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People that know my previous post would probably say I don't belong in this thread but honestly I have thoughts of cheating but never do it. It's really not worth it, I rather watch porn :lol:
 
and to answer your question, yea I have cheated when I was 17-20. regret it? nah. was it fun? beleedat. am I ready for the consequences? no 
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if you're thinking about cheating just call it off, don't play with peoples hearts.
 
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You already know you wrong... and you came here for reasoning? For NT to talk you in or out of it? .... Seems like you need sometime away from your ex and your girl, to center yourself and find out you really wanna be.
 
In life it's easy to continue doing the wrong thing if you can get away with it. But, every time you do the right thing it gets a little easier as well. It's all a mental game.
 
You already know you wrong... and you came here for reasoning? For NT to talk you in or out of it? .... Seems like you need sometime away from your ex and your girl, to center yourself and find out you really wanna be.
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 best advice in this thread. Haven't been on nt in like 2 years so I don't know how to do that rep nonsense but I would rep you if I knew how.
 
thats wrong OP

if you wanna smash, break up with your current girl. SMH

thats just me though, i have morals. i just cant do that stuff behind someones back
 
Its messed up but you already cheated mentally, you don't have go thru with it but I'm sure you will if not already

Just know what you do comes back to you. That doesn't mean yo girl is gon cheat on you but everyone gets what they deserve, and if it happens it's supposed to....but

who's to say your girl hasn't been smashed by her ex?
 
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