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1) Swipe right anyway
2) Match
3) "So does this make us boyfriend and girlfriend now?"
4) Get number and set up meetup
5) Smash
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1) Swipe right anyway
2) Match
3) "So does this make us boyfriend and girlfriend now?"
4) Get number and set up meetup
5) Smash
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1) Swipe right anyway
2) Match
3) "So does this make us boyfriend and girlfriend now?"
4) Get number and set up meetup
5) Smash
#Facts, and make sure you have good pics, and quality pics over quantity. I only used two full body pics taken out somewhere.
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Read the Art of seduction by Robert Greene. Eye opening book. Bout 15 bucks. It will put a lot in perspective.
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Every human interaction is about psychology, any man with social intelligence is always going to prosper in all aspects of life especially relationships with women.
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cut it off with the middle eastern monster I made...too much scress. but nahh, forreal I couldn't take having a girl do to me, what I usually do to them. I know it's selfish but that's just me.
I'd post the text convo but I went from extremely explicit stuff to a lot of cursing on her end and I don't feel like editing it haha. I'd prefer that this thread stay open, I've learned a lot in here lol. word up tho, think I'm either ready for an exclusive collge relationship or I just need to utilize the rest of this semester for myself and to get some more nuts off.
it's crazy yo. like women are extremely complex creatures...but fr fr I think I'm just gonna put in that work like I did freshman year and start dressing up and spitting the game. challenges are good, keeps you on your feet.
I'd post the text convo but I went from extremely explicit stuff to a lot of cursing on her end and I don't feel like editing it haha. I'd prefer that this thread stay open, I've learned a lot in here lol. word up tho, think I'm either ready for an exclusive collge relationship or I just need to utilize the rest of this semester for myself and to get some more nuts off.
it's crazy yo. like women are extremely complex creatures...but fr fr I think I'm just gonna put in that work like I did freshman year and start dressing up and spitting the game. challenges are good, keeps you on your feet.
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So it turned out that bump was a staph infection
Do you think if I that girl that added me then deleted me will believe me if I add her and tell her the reason I didn't message her was because I had a life threatening infection?
Do you think if I that girl that added me then deleted me will believe me if I add her and tell her the reason I didn't message her was because I had a life threatening infection?
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stay single in college
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This is the only answer. No reason for a man to be in a relationship in college. Scared money don't make no money.
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MANIPULATION VS MASTERY
When you're the type of man who cannot be easily manipulated via sex or other effective means of coercion, you become a threat in the eyes of the manipulative woman.
Partly intrigued by your genuine ability to withstand her feminine wiles, and partly insulted that she can't break you, she'll do everything in her power to keep your influence with other men minimal at best.
The manipulative woman knows: if men of wisdom and higher standards come together and start comparing notes, they'll spell out in clear detail all the tactics used to entrap and conquer men. This will effectively end the manipulation game.
And that would leave the manipulative woman powerless in an ever-changing world.
This is why men MUST have higher standards. We must live for something beyond sexual gratification. I noticed that it's usually men who lack a clear purpose or higher goals in life who turn to sex as a form of sport or entertainment.
Any man who's a slave to his desire for women is a slave to the women he desires. And a slave has no value once they're done being used. Let that one sink in for a minute...
The danger of porn is that it teaches men to be sex tools for women. Once porn addiction sets in, simpishness is sure to follow.
And it's men like this who become easy targets for women to manipulate and control. They use a man's lust to pull his strings and control his actions. It's therefore imperative and all important that you learn how to master your desire for big butts, nice hips and firm breasts.
If you don't master your desire for the booty, the desire for the booty has already mastered YOU! And that makes you worthless as a man, until you can gain back some self-control.
I'm tired of watching guys wreck their lives in pursuit of poontang. I almost wrecked mine that way. Which is why I speak so strongly on it now.
When you're busy creating something like a business, writing a book, studying for a diploma or degree, creating inspiring music...sex becomes an after-thought. It takes a backseat to higher soul-lifting pursuits. I'll leave you with this:
The thing that actually weakened Adam in the Garden of Eden wasn't Satan's temptation to eat the fruit. It was Eve's body. Eve appealed to Adam's sexual nature. She was, after all, created from his own flesh and bone.
When he listened to Eve's voice over listening to the voice of God within him, he was having the same struggle all men deal with today: listening to one's fleshly desire over one's higher spiritual nature.
Listening to his flesh led to the fall of man, and effectively knocked Adam off the throne. He was never the same again after that.
I'll have to touch on that one some more in the near future.
When you're the type of man who cannot be easily manipulated via sex or other effective means of coercion, you become a threat in the eyes of the manipulative woman.
Partly intrigued by your genuine ability to withstand her feminine wiles, and partly insulted that she can't break you, she'll do everything in her power to keep your influence with other men minimal at best.
The manipulative woman knows: if men of wisdom and higher standards come together and start comparing notes, they'll spell out in clear detail all the tactics used to entrap and conquer men. This will effectively end the manipulation game.
And that would leave the manipulative woman powerless in an ever-changing world.
This is why men MUST have higher standards. We must live for something beyond sexual gratification. I noticed that it's usually men who lack a clear purpose or higher goals in life who turn to sex as a form of sport or entertainment.
Any man who's a slave to his desire for women is a slave to the women he desires. And a slave has no value once they're done being used. Let that one sink in for a minute...
The danger of porn is that it teaches men to be sex tools for women. Once porn addiction sets in, simpishness is sure to follow.
And it's men like this who become easy targets for women to manipulate and control. They use a man's lust to pull his strings and control his actions. It's therefore imperative and all important that you learn how to master your desire for big butts, nice hips and firm breasts.
If you don't master your desire for the booty, the desire for the booty has already mastered YOU! And that makes you worthless as a man, until you can gain back some self-control.
I'm tired of watching guys wreck their lives in pursuit of poontang. I almost wrecked mine that way. Which is why I speak so strongly on it now.
When you're busy creating something like a business, writing a book, studying for a diploma or degree, creating inspiring music...sex becomes an after-thought. It takes a backseat to higher soul-lifting pursuits. I'll leave you with this:
The thing that actually weakened Adam in the Garden of Eden wasn't Satan's temptation to eat the fruit. It was Eve's body. Eve appealed to Adam's sexual nature. She was, after all, created from his own flesh and bone.
When he listened to Eve's voice over listening to the voice of God within him, he was having the same struggle all men deal with today: listening to one's fleshly desire over one's higher spiritual nature.
Listening to his flesh led to the fall of man, and effectively knocked Adam off the throne. He was never the same again after that.
I'll have to touch on that one some more in the near future.
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MIND *** A CHICKS BRAIN
phrase: "A horse is like a female, they can tell when a boy is riding them"? That **** is true. God has blessed females with this immaculate "gift" that can blow the ******* mind of the average cat,(the uninitiated) but a skilled true to the GAME BOSS, uses this "gift" to his advantage and at his leisure. We'll get back to the "gift" later. But first and foremost, this post is not for the weak at heart (The Simp). If you are weak at heart, I suggest you go to the hospital and get all of your blood drained out and tell the doctor to replace your warm blood with some COLD BLOOD. This post is about mind *****ing a *****, and you have to be a cold-blooded mutha*****a to do this ****. In the film The Mack, the blind cat gave Goldie some golden game when he said: "Anybody can control a *****'s body,but the key is to control her mind". Now in order to control a *****'s mind, you first must know where the ***** is located mentally, and more often than not, the ***** can be located in one place: HER EMOTIONS (the gift).
See most cats try to implement their logic on a female to convince and persuade a female, which is incorrect (to me anyway). The reason its incorrect because when you ask a ***** to be logical, what you are really doing is telling the ***** to THINK. You see a true to the GAME BOSS does'nt want his ***** to THINK, he wants his ***** to EMOTE, his job (THE BOSS) is TO THINK FOR HER!!!! Yeah logic does have its place ....in your head and not the *****'s.
Back in the early 2ks, fellow Chicagoan and hip hop artist Twista, had a single called: "Emotions", and the hook of the song was: " Let Me Play With Your Emotions", and the ******* loved that ****. Here is a guy who was rapping about what ******* NEEDED AND WANTED on a subconscious level. A ***** has to be on a emotional roller coaster at all times, I mean ALL TIMES. A ***** must feel a plethora of emotions from you on a regular. Emotions such as: Anger, Jealousy, Rejection, Excitement, Fear, Danger, Embarassment, Humiliation, Happiness, Saddness, and Love.
You see the more you allow a ***** to experience a barrage of emotions, the more the ***** gravitates towards you. Here is a perfect example of a ***** puttin his ***** on a emotional roller coaster (mind *****ery).....Jim Jones of the Chrissy and Mr. Jones show.
This ***** be having that *****'s head spinning. One day Chrissy's in love, the next minute she hates him, the next minute she's certain, the next minute she's unsure, the next minute she's surprised, and the next minute she's disappointed and so forth and so on. And mind you, the ***** proposed to him.....mind *****ery at it's best. S/O to Jim Jones.
Back in the 80's, tv shows (soap operas) such as: All My Children, General Hospital, Young and The Restless, One Life To Live had a large female following. Why? Because soap operas took the females of america on an emotional roller coaster (mind *****ery) daily.
Everyday ******* would tune in to get their mind *****ery fix. Thats why ******* love gossip, because when a ***** hears some juicy gossip that she's never heard it creates an element of shock and surprise which are emotions. So if a ***** aint getting her emotional roller coaster fix from her guy, she will most certainly get that **** from her girlfriends via gossip.
Another place ******* seek that wild emotional roller coaster ride (mind *****ery) is ........you guessed it: THE CHURCH !!!!!!! No one is better at mind *****ing a ***** than the BLACK PREACHER. The Black Preacher makes a ***** feel emotional a 1,000 times in a matter of seconds and they are Bosses at this ****, I got much love for the Black Preacher, I respect Boss Pimping on all levels. But this is how the Black Preacher sends that ***** on an emotional roller coaster(mind *****ery) ,he will say something like this: "Daughter you dont have any business going to a club on saturday night and you hopping your **** sucking *** in the choir on sunday morning", singing God's praises with the same mouth you sucked that **** with". The emotion in that example was (guilt). Then he may say: "God may not come when want him, but when he comes he's always on time". The emotion in that example was (hope). Or he may say: "How many of yawl need a blessing?" The emotion in that example was (Excitement). Much love to the Black Preachers I feel your Game.
Mind *****ery on a ***** takes skill. The uninitiated mutha *****a may look at this concept as "being an *******" or being mean. That's why I said in the beginning of this post, that you gotta be a COLD-BLOODED/COLD-HEARTED cat with some steel in your balls to do this ****. To the majority of mutha *****as this post is like a 2 year old (SIMPS,LAMES,SQUARES) who sees a balloon(GAME) drift to the ceiling, but he (SIMPS,LAMES,SQUARES) cant grasp it because the balloon (GAME) is waaaaaaaaaaaaaay over his head.
Baptizing you cats in the name of GAME.
Delta
phrase: "A horse is like a female, they can tell when a boy is riding them"? That **** is true. God has blessed females with this immaculate "gift" that can blow the ******* mind of the average cat,(the uninitiated) but a skilled true to the GAME BOSS, uses this "gift" to his advantage and at his leisure. We'll get back to the "gift" later. But first and foremost, this post is not for the weak at heart (The Simp). If you are weak at heart, I suggest you go to the hospital and get all of your blood drained out and tell the doctor to replace your warm blood with some COLD BLOOD. This post is about mind *****ing a *****, and you have to be a cold-blooded mutha*****a to do this ****. In the film The Mack, the blind cat gave Goldie some golden game when he said: "Anybody can control a *****'s body,but the key is to control her mind". Now in order to control a *****'s mind, you first must know where the ***** is located mentally, and more often than not, the ***** can be located in one place: HER EMOTIONS (the gift).
See most cats try to implement their logic on a female to convince and persuade a female, which is incorrect (to me anyway). The reason its incorrect because when you ask a ***** to be logical, what you are really doing is telling the ***** to THINK. You see a true to the GAME BOSS does'nt want his ***** to THINK, he wants his ***** to EMOTE, his job (THE BOSS) is TO THINK FOR HER!!!! Yeah logic does have its place ....in your head and not the *****'s.
Back in the early 2ks, fellow Chicagoan and hip hop artist Twista, had a single called: "Emotions", and the hook of the song was: " Let Me Play With Your Emotions", and the ******* loved that ****. Here is a guy who was rapping about what ******* NEEDED AND WANTED on a subconscious level. A ***** has to be on a emotional roller coaster at all times, I mean ALL TIMES. A ***** must feel a plethora of emotions from you on a regular. Emotions such as: Anger, Jealousy, Rejection, Excitement, Fear, Danger, Embarassment, Humiliation, Happiness, Saddness, and Love.
You see the more you allow a ***** to experience a barrage of emotions, the more the ***** gravitates towards you. Here is a perfect example of a ***** puttin his ***** on a emotional roller coaster (mind *****ery).....Jim Jones of the Chrissy and Mr. Jones show.
This ***** be having that *****'s head spinning. One day Chrissy's in love, the next minute she hates him, the next minute she's certain, the next minute she's unsure, the next minute she's surprised, and the next minute she's disappointed and so forth and so on. And mind you, the ***** proposed to him.....mind *****ery at it's best. S/O to Jim Jones.
Back in the 80's, tv shows (soap operas) such as: All My Children, General Hospital, Young and The Restless, One Life To Live had a large female following. Why? Because soap operas took the females of america on an emotional roller coaster (mind *****ery) daily.
Everyday ******* would tune in to get their mind *****ery fix. Thats why ******* love gossip, because when a ***** hears some juicy gossip that she's never heard it creates an element of shock and surprise which are emotions. So if a ***** aint getting her emotional roller coaster fix from her guy, she will most certainly get that **** from her girlfriends via gossip.
Another place ******* seek that wild emotional roller coaster ride (mind *****ery) is ........you guessed it: THE CHURCH !!!!!!! No one is better at mind *****ing a ***** than the BLACK PREACHER. The Black Preacher makes a ***** feel emotional a 1,000 times in a matter of seconds and they are Bosses at this ****, I got much love for the Black Preacher, I respect Boss Pimping on all levels. But this is how the Black Preacher sends that ***** on an emotional roller coaster(mind *****ery) ,he will say something like this: "Daughter you dont have any business going to a club on saturday night and you hopping your **** sucking *** in the choir on sunday morning", singing God's praises with the same mouth you sucked that **** with". The emotion in that example was (guilt). Then he may say: "God may not come when want him, but when he comes he's always on time". The emotion in that example was (hope). Or he may say: "How many of yawl need a blessing?" The emotion in that example was (Excitement). Much love to the Black Preachers I feel your Game.
Mind *****ery on a ***** takes skill. The uninitiated mutha *****a may look at this concept as "being an *******" or being mean. That's why I said in the beginning of this post, that you gotta be a COLD-BLOODED/COLD-HEARTED cat with some steel in your balls to do this ****. To the majority of mutha *****as this post is like a 2 year old (SIMPS,LAMES,SQUARES) who sees a balloon(GAME) drift to the ceiling, but he (SIMPS,LAMES,SQUARES) cant grasp it because the balloon (GAME) is waaaaaaaaaaaaaay over his head.
Baptizing you cats in the name of GAME.
Delta
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Yeah DEFINITELY stay single through college.
joepac12
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A gf in college isn't needed. I hooked up with a senior the first day of freshmen orientation. Yambs all over and I went to a ****** school in western md before I transferred somewhere else.
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Freshman year was dope. Had an open semi ldr thin going on cuz this girl pretty much just pampered me when we both visited back home, but other than that I got to fully enjoy my freshman year with it's crazy nights out and drunken encounters. I kinda want an open thing/a girl to fall back on I guess. That's prolly better than saying a relationship.
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Yeah gotta make sure u have bench warmers in college. Dont put all your eggs in one basket
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If you feel she is worth kicking the actual-factuals to then proceed with the truth. Nothing wrong explaining your situation if you feel she is worth it and will actually not try to clown you. If you feel she is a bop and is about that embarrassing a brotha life , then leave her in the bushes and proceed to meet other ladies. Don't stress what you can't change or people that don't understand.
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Are you a pimp? You say b_ quite a lot.
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Not a pimp la player yes lol just my way of expressing them on here
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ehh prob better on moving on I guess I was just gonna try and smash
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Yambinos,
I know its been covered a few times in this thread about approaching strategies, but just want to get a few suggestions. I'm a bus driver on campus (little extra money and got my CDL through the school) and there is this chick that rides my bus thats a straight dime. Really pretty with a whole bunch of mass. Anything you guys suggest would be greatly appreciated. How to go about talking to this chick. I mean I usually only got a few minutes to make that impression be causes I'm on route. Let me know. Thanks.
I know its been covered a few times in this thread about approaching strategies, but just want to get a few suggestions. I'm a bus driver on campus (little extra money and got my CDL through the school) and there is this chick that rides my bus thats a straight dime. Really pretty with a whole bunch of mass. Anything you guys suggest would be greatly appreciated. How to go about talking to this chick. I mean I usually only got a few minutes to make that impression be causes I'm on route. Let me know. Thanks.
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Tell her to seat next to you in that first seat and just talk with her until she get to her destination.
joepac12
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Yeah just have a normal convo with her. Then at the end say I know we rarely get a chance to talk. How about we exchange numbers and you txt me. Pressure free. Guaranteed success
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Is it wrong to say that I would feel 100x more secure in my LDR if I had options/knew I could easily walk up and talk to a girl?
I really need to kick this social anxiety.
I really need to kick this social anxiety.
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It sucks when you trying to make it work with one chick, and you have another one that you really should be with.
Trying to make it work with my children's mother, but all signs point to letting that go. My day one girl ALWAYS held me down in time of need. It's all messed up smh.
Trying to make it work with my children's mother, but all signs point to letting that go. My day one girl ALWAYS held me down in time of need. It's all messed up smh.
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Why can't u don
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I worry too much about my weaknesses and it gets in my head so I get stuck...that and my resting face makes it look like I hate the world.
Its annoying cuz usually after a girl gets to know me they usually say something along the lines of.."wow you're so quiet but actually really nice/chill/cool. you seem/look like youre angry all the time/hate everyone."
I know I have a great personality its just that I'm insecure about my physique (its actually a work in progress and going well tho), my clothing. It's also that I can't make an approach out of nothing. If I'm in class I can open with something school/class related. But if we have nothing else in common besides we are both in the same location...I find I can't do it.
Sigh..I overthink but I don't know how to stop.
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