What's your take on a woman pumping gas when she's w/ a man

My wife doesn't even know how to turn my gas grill on, let alone get my kamados going. That's my domain, and she knows and respects that.
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Kind of OT, but I remember being at a party years ago, and the house had a wooded, long, steep, windy driveway.  So I see this dude leaving with his wife when its dark out, and hes trying to back his four door wrangler down and just cant get it.  After like 5 minutes of trying, his wife tells him to get out the car and let her do it.  She backed that thing down while he walked down the drive way guiding her. I thought at the time, is there anything more emasculating than that?  And it wasn't like it was a f-350 or some big truck, it was just a 4 door wrangler. The dude was a ******* lame though, so it was funny to see. 
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Something kinda similar happened to me. I pulled up to a party and saw two girls with the hood popped. They were pouring water and seemed to know what they were doing, so I just chilled in the car. Dude I knew pulled up and sprinted over there like it was an emergency, only to pour in the rest of the water. Dude that was with him was laughing when he spoke to me, kinda implying that I should've helped them.

It just boils down to women being spoiled during certain eras (due to them being seen as weak and helpless) and they grew accustomed to it. They don't want to be seen as weak anymore, but they still don't feel like doing certain things because 'that's just the way it is'. Basically they just want to have their cake and eat it .
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Kinda off topic, but this reminds me of a few situations I've had in the past. One girl arrived to a door before I did and legit stood there until I opened it
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I was like 'are you serious?'
Another similar occurrence with a different girl, we arrived at the movies and I was waiting for her to get out of the car, after a few moments go by, I see that she's inside doing absolutely nothing
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she was just waiting on me to open her car door. One we got to the stairs, I began walking up and realize she didn't follow suit, she wanted me to basically escort her up the stairs
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I was like 'this is a casual date, not the prom'.
Girl at my college told me after I opened the door for her that she can open her own door and that she appreciated it but she didn't need me to open the door for her. I was so confused
What kinda of homegirl you got that she's checking oil?? Chick probably goes to the barber shop to get a cut and doesn't have her nails painted.
Wifey keep her nails poppin' and can check oil, pump her own gas, do hair and make-up. She like a Jane of all trades
 
whoever's driving pumps.

if my moms driving though i'll pump for her
This should have been the end of the discussion. 
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However when I'm with my mom I drive %99 of the time. On top of that I don't even remember the last time we road somewhere together. If she needs errands run and I'm home visiting. I just do them myself.
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I wish everywhere was like NJ/NY as far as pumping gas for you
Agree.  Every time im in NJ I make sure to fill up.

Some weird dudes on NT, talking about pumping gas for your mom but not your girl/wife.  What kind of **** is that?  I hope most of you with this mentality are younger kids who just have not unlatched from moms tit yet.
 
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Few years have passed and I'm just curious if the temperature of this topic has changed since feminism has somewhat of a louder voice nowadays.
 
She chose to date or sleep with the dude who's sitting in her car. She only has her self to blame, if she's dealing with a sorry dude.
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Also, as a man... YOU need to drive the whip the majority of the time.

Whether its her car or yours... You gotta be the boss of the boat, they should call you Skipper.

I don't even let my mama drive anymore, even of we're going somewhere in her car.
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Yeah that second quote is wild lol

This topic is just one of those things where it's a case by case basis. Some women people feel like the man should always do it. Some people feel like women are more than capable of pumping gas, changing a tire, changing the oil etc. Hard to know who's who.
 
Yea, that is why you have a conversation.

SOME women get insulted when a man attempts to do things for them as they would like to be able to decide when they need help. (Understandable).

So it is best to always ask first because you might think you are being a gentleman/chivalrous but she takes it as you thinking she needs you/your help.
 
One chick rolled her eyes at me The other day cause I didn’t press the elevator buttons for her
Mind you she was directly in front of the buttons and I’m on the opposite side.

I just came from the gym and im a sweaty mess. I was trying to be as far on the other side of the elevator as possible. I think she felt some type of way because she was all dolled up and was probably feeling herself. I’m married I don’t give a **** how you look. Leave it for the the thirsty overly chivalrous cats
 
Yea, that is why you have a conversation.

SOME women get insulted when a man attempts to do things for them as they would like to be able to decide when they need help. (Understandable).

So it is best to always ask first because you might think you are being a gentleman/chivalrous but she takes it as you thinking she needs you/your help.
I agree but another layer to it is the women that say "I can do it myself" but secretly want you to do it lol smh similar to "you don't have to get me anything for my birthday".
 
Well Yea, I can't be held responsible for what doesn't come out of your mouth.

If you say one thing and mean another, that is on you.

Grow up.
I remember being at a Valero in Virginia once in line. This woman infront of me was huffing and puffing about the line taking forever. She says "i cant stand in this line" and proceeds to step to the side, out of line.

So i moved up. Cool, one less person infront of me. She begins to throw a fit, oh you really gonna cut me in line?

Cut you in line how? You LEFT the line :lol:
 
I was at the dmv yesterday. Big line, you gotta ask to leave the line and get your spot back AHEAD of time.

some lady did that to me but asked me to hold her spot, cool idc.
 
I remember being at a Valero in Virginia once in line. This woman infront of me was huffing and puffing about the line taking forever. She says "i cant stand in this line" and proceeds to step to the side, out of line.

So i moved up. Cool, one less person infront of me. She begins to throw a fit, oh you really gonna cut me in line?

Cut you in line how? You LEFT the line :lol:

She was loud/vocal so either way YOU were the jerk in the court of public opinion. :lol:
 
I swear I think some women just want to get offended. They'll get offended if you pump the gas... Offended if you don't pump the gas. Kinda like checking them out I'm public: some get annoyed when you do and the same one will get annoyed if you don't.
 
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