After relationship arguments

[Soleserious]

the things that are said, are they out of emotional anger orthat's the other persons truthful thoughts during their time in therelationship that didn't say because they felt it would hurt your feelings?lets discuss what yall think, i personally think its their truthful thoughtthat they didn't want to say.

 

[Soleserious]

the things that are said, are they out of emotional anger orthat's the other persons truthful thoughts during their time in therelationship that didn't say because they felt it would hurt your feelings?lets discuss what yall think, i personally think its their truthful thoughtthat they didn't want to say.

 

[crazy dav0]

Originally Posted by tvanterpool


the things that are said, are they out of emotional anger orthat's the other persons truthful thoughts during their time in therelationship that didn't say because they felt it would hurt your feelings?lets discuss what yall think, i personally think its their truthful thoughtthat they didn't want to say.

damn ... i just went thru this ... damn NT and all these relationship threads today ... not helping at all

anyways ... i would have gotten back with my ex until i found out how grimey she was but before i knew that we got into an argument and she said some foul *%@@ ... she refused to apologize and then only apologized later after she realized how OD what she said was and how serious i was about what i said ...

if any of yall want to get back w/ ur ex's ... just take space ... and set the ground rules for how you would get back w/ that person (i.e. if u sleep w/ anyone don't even bother talking to me) ... u need the space because emotions are def. running high ...

shorty said she said what she said in august based on something she was still steaming from since June ... she didn't think at all ... and now she can spend the rest of her life saying what if ... b/c she now knows that i'll never forgive her for what she said ... i may say hbd to her in 3 weeks ... thas about it ... she was so afraid to say hbd to me last week that she went through one of my friends to relay the message ...

oh and i think she meant what she was saying 100% ... she was just so angry she couldn't think about the consequences when she said it ... and certain things you can't take back ... never get into an argument when heated ... just don't do it

 

[crazy dav0]

Originally Posted by tvanterpool


the things that are said, are they out of emotional anger orthat's the other persons truthful thoughts during their time in therelationship that didn't say because they felt it would hurt your feelings?lets discuss what yall think, i personally think its their truthful thoughtthat they didn't want to say.

damn ... i just went thru this ... damn NT and all these relationship threads today ... not helping at all

anyways ... i would have gotten back with my ex until i found out how grimey she was but before i knew that we got into an argument and she said some foul *%@@ ... she refused to apologize and then only apologized later after she realized how OD what she said was and how serious i was about what i said ...

if any of yall want to get back w/ ur ex's ... just take space ... and set the ground rules for how you would get back w/ that person (i.e. if u sleep w/ anyone don't even bother talking to me) ... u need the space because emotions are def. running high ...

shorty said she said what she said in august based on something she was still steaming from since June ... she didn't think at all ... and now she can spend the rest of her life saying what if ... b/c she now knows that i'll never forgive her for what she said ... i may say hbd to her in 3 weeks ... thas about it ... she was so afraid to say hbd to me last week that she went through one of my friends to relay the message ...

oh and i think she meant what she was saying 100% ... she was just so angry she couldn't think about the consequences when she said it ... and certain things you can't take back ... never get into an argument when heated ... just don't do it

 

[the natural mystic]

Originally Posted by cRazy dav0

Originally Posted by tvanterpool




the things that are said, are they out of emotional anger or
that's the other persons truthful thoughts during their time in the
relationship that didn't say because they felt it would hurt your feelings?
lets discuss what yall think, i personally think its their truthful thought
that they didn't want to say.

damn ... i just went thru this ... damn NT and all these relationship threads today ... not helping at all

anyways ... i would have gotten back with my ex until i found out how grimey she was but before i knew that we got into an argument and she said some foul $%!+ ... she refused to apologize and then only apologized later after she realized how OD what she said was and how serious i was about what i said ...

if any of yall want to get back w/ ur ex's ... just take space ... and set the ground rules for how you would get back w/ that person (i.e. if u sleep w/ anyone don't even bother talking to me) ... u need the space because emotions are def. running high ...

shorty said she said what she said in august based on something she was still steaming from since June ... she didn't think at all ... and now she can spend the rest of her life saying what if ... b/c she now knows that i'll never forgive her for what she said ... i may say hbd to her in 3 weeks ... thas about it ... she was so afraid to say hbd to me last week that she went through one of my friends to relay the message ...

oh and i think she meant what she was saying 100% ... she was just so angry she couldn't think about the consequences when she said it ... and certain things you can't take back ... never get into an argument when heated ... just don't do it

Son! You can't say all that and not say what she said.

 

[the natural mystic]

Originally Posted by cRazy dav0

Originally Posted by tvanterpool




the things that are said, are they out of emotional anger or
that's the other persons truthful thoughts during their time in the
relationship that didn't say because they felt it would hurt your feelings?
lets discuss what yall think, i personally think its their truthful thought
that they didn't want to say.

damn ... i just went thru this ... damn NT and all these relationship threads today ... not helping at all

anyways ... i would have gotten back with my ex until i found out how grimey she was but before i knew that we got into an argument and she said some foul $%!+ ... she refused to apologize and then only apologized later after she realized how OD what she said was and how serious i was about what i said ...

if any of yall want to get back w/ ur ex's ... just take space ... and set the ground rules for how you would get back w/ that person (i.e. if u sleep w/ anyone don't even bother talking to me) ... u need the space because emotions are def. running high ...

shorty said she said what she said in august based on something she was still steaming from since June ... she didn't think at all ... and now she can spend the rest of her life saying what if ... b/c she now knows that i'll never forgive her for what she said ... i may say hbd to her in 3 weeks ... thas about it ... she was so afraid to say hbd to me last week that she went through one of my friends to relay the message ...

oh and i think she meant what she was saying 100% ... she was just so angry she couldn't think about the consequences when she said it ... and certain things you can't take back ... never get into an argument when heated ... just don't do it

Son! You can't say all that and not say what she said.

 

[kbweezy24]

ive gotta say that ive said some *$$+ just out of anger...not that i always meant ya know...
a lot can come out when youre heated...

cant really help if you dont tell us what she said

use your past with her to figure out whether what she said was true, or just emotional bs

 

[kbweezy24]

ive gotta say that ive said some *$$+ just out of anger...not that i always meant ya know...
a lot can come out when youre heated...

cant really help if you dont tell us what she said

use your past with her to figure out whether what she said was true, or just emotional bs

 

[crazy dav0]

... i know what she meant what she said ... she even went as far to say i'm sorry the statement hurt you instead of saying i'm sorry i said that ... so she meant it! So while i still am in love w/ the girl @%@% her at the same time ...

she wants a friendship and said who knows about the future ... she would have to get on her hands and knees begging for me to even utter a word to her again ... i have way too much pride to ever let it go ... my fault yall but it def. eats @ me so i don't feel like repeating it ... i've made it much bigger than it prolly is but it was something a girl should never say to a guy ... just mad disrespectful ... she young though ... she'll learn ... i gave her her stuff back and got back my keys ...

 

[crazy dav0]

... i know what she meant what she said ... she even went as far to say i'm sorry the statement hurt you instead of saying i'm sorry i said that ... so she meant it! So while i still am in love w/ the girl @%@% her at the same time ...

she wants a friendship and said who knows about the future ... she would have to get on her hands and knees begging for me to even utter a word to her again ... i have way too much pride to ever let it go ... my fault yall but it def. eats @ me so i don't feel like repeating it ... i've made it much bigger than it prolly is but it was something a girl should never say to a guy ... just mad disrespectful ... she young though ... she'll learn ... i gave her her stuff back and got back my keys ...

 

[washanobotit]

^^ cosign..sometimes you say things just to get a reaction out of her

 

[washanobotit]

^^ cosign..sometimes you say things just to get a reaction out of her

 

[03silverbullet]

i'm over in the sports forum wondering why this thread was posted there first. i saw the title and thought op was going to compare post fight/break up sex to playing a sport. i figured it's always a race to see who finishes first, but then i realized that is not what this thread is about.

 

[03silverbullet]

i'm over in the sports forum wondering why this thread was posted there first. i saw the title and thought op was going to compare post fight/break up sex to playing a sport. i figured it's always a race to see who finishes first, but then i realized that is not what this thread is about.

 

[handullz]

Originally Posted by The Natural Mystic

Originally Posted by cRazy dav0

Originally Posted by tvanterpool




the things that are said, are they out of emotional anger or
that's the other persons truthful thoughts during their time in the
relationship that didn't say because they felt it would hurt your feelings?
lets discuss what yall think, i personally think its their truthful thought
that they didn't want to say.

damn ... i just went thru this ... damn NT and all these relationship threads today ... not helping at all

anyways ... i would have gotten back with my ex until i found out how grimey she was but before i knew that we got into an argument and she said some foul $%!+ ... she refused to apologize and then only apologized later after she realized how OD what she said was and how serious i was about what i said ...

if any of yall want to get back w/ ur ex's ... just take space ... and set the ground rules for how you would get back w/ that person (i.e. if u sleep w/ anyone don't even bother talking to me) ... u need the space because emotions are def. running high ...

shorty said she said what she said in august based on something she was still steaming from since June ... she didn't think at all ... and now she can spend the rest of her life saying what if ... b/c she now knows that i'll never forgive her for what she said ... i may say hbd to her in 3 weeks ... thas about it ... she was so afraid to say hbd to me last week that she went through one of my friends to relay the message ...

oh and i think she meant what she was saying 100% ... she was just so angry she couldn't think about the consequences when she said it ... and certain things you can't take back ... never get into an argument when heated ... just don't do it

Son! You can't say all that and not say what she said.

fa shoooo...

 

[handullz]

Originally Posted by The Natural Mystic

Originally Posted by cRazy dav0

Originally Posted by tvanterpool




the things that are said, are they out of emotional anger or
that's the other persons truthful thoughts during their time in the
relationship that didn't say because they felt it would hurt your feelings?
lets discuss what yall think, i personally think its their truthful thought
that they didn't want to say.

damn ... i just went thru this ... damn NT and all these relationship threads today ... not helping at all

anyways ... i would have gotten back with my ex until i found out how grimey she was but before i knew that we got into an argument and she said some foul $%!+ ... she refused to apologize and then only apologized later after she realized how OD what she said was and how serious i was about what i said ...

if any of yall want to get back w/ ur ex's ... just take space ... and set the ground rules for how you would get back w/ that person (i.e. if u sleep w/ anyone don't even bother talking to me) ... u need the space because emotions are def. running high ...

shorty said she said what she said in august based on something she was still steaming from since June ... she didn't think at all ... and now she can spend the rest of her life saying what if ... b/c she now knows that i'll never forgive her for what she said ... i may say hbd to her in 3 weeks ... thas about it ... she was so afraid to say hbd to me last week that she went through one of my friends to relay the message ...

oh and i think she meant what she was saying 100% ... she was just so angry she couldn't think about the consequences when she said it ... and certain things you can't take back ... never get into an argument when heated ... just don't do it

Son! You can't say all that and not say what she said.

fa shoooo...

 

[mangudai954]

Why is this dude dav0 acting scary right now just say it.

 

[mangudai954]

Why is this dude dav0 acting scary right now just say it.

 

[hella handsome]

I'm saying though, just say that %$*@ son. You can't tell us who the killer is, where the murder took place, and who got killed, but not tell us the killers weapon of choice.


Spill that %$*@

 

[hella handsome]

I'm saying though, just say that %$*@ son. You can't tell us who the killer is, where the murder took place, and who got killed, but not tell us the killers weapon of choice.


Spill that %$*@

 

[rko2004]

Try not to argue when super heated. The worst comes out.

 

[rko2004]

Try not to argue when super heated. The worst comes out.

 

[hizzle]

Originally Posted by cRazy dav0

... i know what she meant what she said ... she even went as far to say i'm sorry the statement hurt you instead of saying i'm sorry i said that ... so she meant it! So while i still am in love w/ the girl @%@% her at the same time ...

she wants a friendship and said who knows about the future ... she would have to get on her hands and knees begging for me to even utter a word to her again ... i have way too much pride to ever let it go ... my fault yall but it def. eats @ me so i don't feel like repeating it ... i've made it much bigger than it prolly is but it was something a girl should never say to a guy ... just mad disrespectful ... she young though ... she'll learn ... i gave her her stuff back and got back my keys ...

Did she tell you that you're not as good in bed as the last guy?

 

[hizzle]

Originally Posted by cRazy dav0

... i know what she meant what she said ... she even went as far to say i'm sorry the statement hurt you instead of saying i'm sorry i said that ... so she meant it! So while i still am in love w/ the girl @%@% her at the same time ...

she wants a friendship and said who knows about the future ... she would have to get on her hands and knees begging for me to even utter a word to her again ... i have way too much pride to ever let it go ... my fault yall but it def. eats @ me so i don't feel like repeating it ... i've made it much bigger than it prolly is but it was something a girl should never say to a guy ... just mad disrespectful ... she young though ... she'll learn ... i gave her her stuff back and got back my keys ...

Did she tell you that you're not as good in bed as the last guy?

 

[snaggykicks]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

Try not to argue when super heated. The worst comes out.