Attractiveness

Discussion in 'General' started by sstelle, Feb 24, 2009.

  1. sstelle

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    I'm incredibly uneasy about my body. I wouldn't go as far as saying I'm fat, but I am definately a bit overweight (just a bit of chub around theedges).

    Any other NT'ers who are a bit overweight but have no trouble with the women?

    I got a bit of game, but I always assume I'm too ugly or something. I got a bit of the baby face (no shaving or any facial hair).

    Maybe my standards are too high, but now that I'm in college, I can't even get any girls. (Highschool doesn't even count[​IMG])

    Maybe it's cause I'm in Canada...
     
  2. carlosdapaperboy

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    It's all about confidence.....I seen plenty of overweight and ugly dudes with smashable chicks.....
     
  3. jpioneer

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    *paging Air Ant*
     
  4. mangudai954

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    Your thinking about it too much, just be yourself.
     
  5. springfieldxd

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    YNS
     
  6. zeen1ne

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    thats werd..i see madddd dudes who you look at em and be like "he not smashin nuttin" then his girl hopp out his whipp like [​IMG]
     
  7. eight2one

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    i suggest you go to Mcnamara/Troy
     
  8. the takeover

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    Just hit the gym man
     
  9. chico dusty

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    Try to accentuate what you already have.

    Or you could focus that energy into school, get your chalupas in order & choose a broad of your liking. Patience.

    Plenty of big dudes w/ attractive women out there.



    Edited for PC.
     
  10. sneakerking757

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    I agree with carlos.

    It's all about confidence.

    And make sure your gear is fresh.

    That's all that most females care about these days.
     
  11. dropkicks

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    Yessir ..
     
  12. freshprince

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    how much chub are we talking about here?

    I know NTer's hate this word, but it's NOT ALL about your weight, but more about your SSWWAAGG.

    Clean cut, don't wear your clothes wrinkled, clean kicks, chin up, etc.

    Works like a charm
     
  13. mc otaku

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    naw just work out and get the chicks you always wanted.
     
  14. lurkin2long

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    I was once like you in my early teen years.

    Then I made a choice to change my lifestyle and I love it.

    how bout forget women and take control of yourself first.

    with a new body will come new found confidence.
     
  15. kickinheadz1010

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    Remember....when in doubt--- Just whip it out.

    Welcome to NT
     
  16. lesfamilia

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    Word, just be yourself...
     
  17. sstelle

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    Alright alright, that's all I ever hear, be yourself and have confidence, but that doesn't seem to fit my personality.

    I will look into hitting the gym cause I'm a lazy bastard who's trying to change that.

    As for a little chub, I'm 6'1 packing 200 pounds, but I'm not particularly strong nor weak, about average.

    Thanks for all ya'll who were positive.
     
  18. lurkin2long

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    thats me basically, a lil more

    but im betting our bodyfat % differ very much.

    at that height and weight youre no biggest loser type fat. with a little more motivation you can feel confident by spring. i kid you not.
     
  19. mangudai954

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    6'1 200 isn't even that bad. Its not your weight, its you.
     
  20. elpablo21

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    My best friend weighs close to 350 and he gets (()) in astounding numbers
     
  21. proper english

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    you sound like a chick. [​IMG]
     
  22. lesfamilia

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    Seriously. I'm an inch taller than you and much skinnier. Just relax and be yourself man.
     
  23. alchemist iq

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    YO.....lmao......rollin
     
  24. geminifly

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    simple as that. If even you cant dress very well or your personality sucks, women will give you a pass based on your physique
    more often than not.
     
  25. usa pride4life

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    pull up to the dorms in a 2009 750li and watch your luck change [​IMG]