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indeed.Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
putting a restriction on ur girl, then checkin up on her like ur Pops is probably a bad way to go about things.
I learned this from my first break-up. So I used it towards my most recent relationship . . . it's true. NEVER restrict someone . . . it willonly encourage them to try "new things" or "spread their wings" which will evidently distant them from you and finally break up.
I'm not saying you were doing this, just saying what I learned from my first break up because I did indeed act like this. I never TOLD her what NOT to dolike I was her father, but I did get angry when she did things instead of calmly talking things through.
Peace