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@ AntBanks21 I feel you but I'm looking around and I'm getting older...not to sound like a lil ***** but it lightweight scares me...half of me feels like being young an free...the other half of me feels like sometimes bein settled would be nice
What if I never find her?
 
The grass is always greener. You'll find a chick, settle down and be like "damn I should've just enjoyed being single. What was I complaining about."

I feel where you're coming from though because I'm in a similar position.
 
nah b

get as many yambs as you can bruh

settling down is 4 betas dawg

dont even get married till you like 35 op once you have a stable job and mad bread

youll find a shorty who gonna love you for you by then

trust
 
Do what you want with your life.
If you want a girl, get one. **** what these virgins are talking about.

If you want to be the single bachelor, do that.

But don't live your life feeling like you got some sort of timetable or deadline.

Then you won't be living life for yourself. You'll be living trying to keep up with those around you.
 
Don't think those thoughts man. Just live your life one day at a time, not on some long-term timetable.
 
You're a guy :lol:. You'll be fine. Its the women that have to worry about this as their stock goes down the older they get(for the most part). If you look decent and have a good job and you out there them women in their 30's will be jumping all over you. Don't mean they'll be quality tho.
 
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Don't go around looking for THE girl for you. She'll come when the time is right; let things happen naturally. In the meantime, like dude said: get $, save $, cop a house, and get as much yambs as possible!
 
buying a house in your 20s good advice?

i mean i can understand if you can find property that will "pay for itself" (i.e. renters covering the mortgage and such or if you found a cheap foreclosed steal) but taking on a mortgage in your 20s just seems like a major headache. than again what do i know
 
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this is a broad generalization... but I think men see women panicking and internalize it...

thinking its something they should worry about. men and women are built differently bro...

just a broad assumption though.
 
Turn 26 in august...single....making decent money....loving life. Go have fun man....its all a mind set don't let anyone tell you nothing. Oh you are about to be 26 you should be in a relationship and settling down....you need to stop partying and traveling....oh stop having fun? No thanks....I will worry about women when im 30ish even then its whatever. Want to make 100k a year before i settle down
 
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Turn 26 in august...single....making decent money....loving life. Go have fun man....its all a mind set don't let anyone tell you nothing. Oh you are about to be 26 you should be in a relationship and settling down....you need to stop partying and traveling....oh stop having fun? No thanks....I will worry about women when im 30ish even then its whatever. Want to make 100k a year before i settle down

I believe life is all about balance.

That guy who makes less than you can just be a happier person period. Some people actually build together and enjoy life together.

If you wanna wait until 30s to start finding a mate....ok cool I guess. Good luck my dude.
 
Turn 26 in august...single....making decent money....loving life. Go have fun man....its all a mind set don't let anyone tell you nothing. Oh you are about to be 26 you should be in a relationship and settling down....you need to stop partying and traveling....oh stop having fun? No thanks....I will worry about women when im 30ish even then its whatever. Want to make 100k a year before i settle down

I believe life is all about balance.

That guy who makes less than you can just be a happier person period. Some people actually build together and enjoy life together.

If you wanna wait until 30s to start finding a mate....ok cool I guess. Good luck my dude.

I think we are on the same wave length. Don't feel pressured to do anything and just enjoy yourself how ever you see fit.
 
It's funny how the term "settling down" is perceived.  Just because you settle down doesn't mean you stop partying, traveling and having fun 
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I got married at 22 (am 25 now) and have not regretted it for one minute, we travel 3-4 times a year and have two beautiful kids 
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Couldn't imagine pushing 30 and still living that single lifestyle
 
28. and single checking in. And yes I get hit with thee ole "Why don't you have a gf/wife?" questions. My grandmother is trying to hook me up. :smh: :rolleyes

Its not that I'm focused on making my 150k salary, or studying every minute of the day, making myself better etc like others here. I just haven't put myself out there.
 
It's funny how the term "settling down" is perceived.  Just because you settle down doesn't mean you stop partying, traveling and having fun 
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I got married at 22 (am 25 now) and have not regretted it for one minute, we travel 3-4 times a year and have two beautiful kids 
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Couldn't imagine pushing 30 and still living that single lifestyle
you are the exception, my g...

trust me.
 
It's funny how the term "settling down" is perceived.  Just because you settle down doesn't mean you stop partying, traveling and having fun 
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I got married at 22 (am 25 now) and have not regretted it for one minute, we travel 3-4 times a year and have two beautiful kids 
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Couldn't imagine pushing 30 and still living that single lifestyle
Im on the same path engaged now at the age of 20. The partying, having fun, and traveling doesn't stop. Maybe if you find someone in your 30s it does. Me personally I think in this day in age if I waited 10 more years to find a girl she would most likely be a h**.If a girl is still single by 30 something is up. Thats just how I feel.

But dont stress on not having a girl/wife by a certain she will come when you least expect it, never LOOK for love.
 
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I cause myself the most stress when i worry about a cookie cutter set of goals based on age or 'point in my life".

Dont over think it. Live this life. if you find somebody that you feel is worth settling down with do it. if not, so what.

keep a solid circle of friends, new or not lol, stay as close with the fam as possible and dont stress over money or broads.

Ill be 27 on the 21st and there are people around me close in age that i am "ahead" of and some i am "behind" for lack of better terms and based on "cookie Cutter goals". at the end of the day you just have to take YOUR journey and see where you end up, you might not like being like the next man, feel me?
 
Honestly man i was in a relationship for 5 years, lived together for 2 and for me the single life is getting boring. Like yeah I can do what I want when I want but it was always cool to have that same one person to talkt to and do things with
 
It's funny how the term "settling down" is perceived.  Just because you settle down doesn't mean you stop partying, traveling and having fun 
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I got married at 22 (am 25 now) and have not regretted it for one minute, we travel 3-4 times a year and have two beautiful kids 
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Couldn't imagine pushing 30 and still living that single lifestyle
Im on the same path engaged now at the age of 20. The partying, having fun, and traveling doesn't stop. Maybe if you find someone in your 30s it does. Me personally I think in this day in age if I waited 10 more years to find a girl she would most likely be a h**.If a girl is still single by 30 something is up. Thats just how I feel.

But dont stress on not having a girl/wife by a certain she will come when you least expect it, never LOOK for love.
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good luck with that, bro... cuz chances are very slim for y'all statistically speaking .
 
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