Dilemma

Originally Posted by NikeTalker23

Ok so I have a dilemma. My girl's cousin who I'm cool with started talking to this one dude. We all started hanging out and I became cool with him and his brother..I assumed they were exclusively talking because they both acted like it when they were together. Keep in mind that his family has money, and there are a lot of perks that come with "talking to him". Anyway so I ended up asking him if they were "talking" and he said that yeah they were (or so he thought). So eventually I find out that she's basically hookin up with dudes behind his back. He's a good dude and has good intentions and I know he's not messin with other girls..I have become pretty cool with him and every time we hang out with him and her I feel bad as hell because she acts like they're "talking" knowing damn well she just has him there because she's taking advantage of the perks. 
The dilemma is, should I tell him he's gettin played? Part of think there's some sort of man code that would require dudes to get eachothers backs when it come to these situations. I know he's a genuinely good guy and I honestly feel bad for him..Like I said, we've become cool and he's invited me over his house and we've chilled.. Would you guys give dude the heads up? 
This is just like the Odyssey.

Your dude is Ulysses. He needs his bow and arrow to get rid of the suitors, away from your girl's cousin (Penelope). You're Athena in this case, help him get the heat, and let him blast those fools.
 
Just tell your homie

if he is your homie

if not then do what you heart tell you
 
Originally Posted by NikeTalker23

Ok so I have a dilemma. My girl's cousin who I'm cool with started talking to this one dude. We all started hanging out and I became cool with him and his brother..I assumed they were exclusively talking because they both acted like it when they were together. Keep in mind that his family has money, and there are a lot of perks that come with "talking to him". Anyway so I ended up asking him if they were "talking" and he said that yeah they were (or so he thought). So eventually I find out that she's basically hookin up with dudes behind his back. He's a good dude and has good intentions and I know he's not messin with other girls..I have become pretty cool with him and every time we hang out with him and her I feel bad as hell because she acts like they're "talking" knowing damn well she just has him there because she's taking advantage of the perks. 
The dilemma is, should I tell him he's gettin played? Part of think there's some sort of man code that would require dudes to get eachothers backs when it come to these situations. I know he's a genuinely good guy and I honestly feel bad for him..Like I said, we've become cool and he's invited me over his house and we've chilled.. Would you guys give dude the heads up? 
This is just like the Odyssey.

Your dude is Ulysses. He needs his bow and arrow to get rid of the suitors, away from your girl's cousin (Penelope). You're Athena in this case, help him get the heat, and let him blast those fools.
 
Originally Posted by KnowledgeTheFoundation

Originally Posted by NikeTalker23

Originally Posted by Fog Raw

The story was kinda hard to follow... What do you mean by "talking"?
Exclusivity. 
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What in the world kind of word is that?
One that's in the dictionary
http://www.merriam-webste...m/dictionary/exclusivity
 
Originally Posted by TurboMan

Originally Posted by NikeTalker23

Ok so I have a dilemma. My girl's cousin who I'm cool with started talking to this one dude. We all started hanging out and I became cool with him and his brother..I assumed they were exclusively talking because they both acted like it when they were together. Keep in mind that his family has money, and there are a lot of perks that come with "talking to him". Anyway so I ended up asking him if they were "talking" and he said that yeah they were (or so he thought). So eventually I find out that she's basically hookin up with dudes behind his back. He's a good dude and has good intentions and I know he's not messin with other girls..I have become pretty cool with him and every time we hang out with him and her I feel bad as hell because she acts like they're "talking" knowing damn well she just has him there because she's taking advantage of the perks. 
The dilemma is, should I tell him he's gettin played? Part of think there's some sort of man code that would require dudes to get eachothers backs when it come to these situations. I know he's a genuinely good guy and I honestly feel bad for him..Like I said, we've become cool and he's invited me over his house and we've chilled.. Would you guys give dude the heads up? 
This is just like the Odyssey.

Your dude is Ulysses. He needs his bow and arrow to get rid of the suitors, away from your girl's cousin (Penelope). You're Athena in this case, help him get the heat, and let him blast those fools.

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such a damn random analogy
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Originally Posted by TurboMan

Originally Posted by NikeTalker23

Ok so I have a dilemma. My girl's cousin who I'm cool with started talking to this one dude. We all started hanging out and I became cool with him and his brother..I assumed they were exclusively talking because they both acted like it when they were together. Keep in mind that his family has money, and there are a lot of perks that come with "talking to him". Anyway so I ended up asking him if they were "talking" and he said that yeah they were (or so he thought). So eventually I find out that she's basically hookin up with dudes behind his back. He's a good dude and has good intentions and I know he's not messin with other girls..I have become pretty cool with him and every time we hang out with him and her I feel bad as hell because she acts like they're "talking" knowing damn well she just has him there because she's taking advantage of the perks. 
The dilemma is, should I tell him he's gettin played? Part of think there's some sort of man code that would require dudes to get eachothers backs when it come to these situations. I know he's a genuinely good guy and I honestly feel bad for him..Like I said, we've become cool and he's invited me over his house and we've chilled.. Would you guys give dude the heads up? 
This is just like the Odyssey.

Your dude is Ulysses. He needs his bow and arrow to get rid of the suitors, away from your girl's cousin (Penelope). You're Athena in this case, help him get the heat, and let him blast those fools.

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such a damn random analogy
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Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Why are people calling you a snitch


i was curious myself.


Anyway of course you should tell him.

She is using him, if you are his friend help him stop getting used.

It's as simple as that.

If you were him would you want your friend to tell you or keep his mouth shut so you could up your chance of face herpes by like 10% daily?

"all that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. Do not allow evil to triumph. Do not do sit by and do nothing."
 
Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Why are people calling you a snitch


i was curious myself.


Anyway of course you should tell him.

She is using him, if you are his friend help him stop getting used.

It's as simple as that.

If you were him would you want your friend to tell you or keep his mouth shut so you could up your chance of face herpes by like 10% daily?

"all that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. Do not allow evil to triumph. Do not do sit by and do nothing."
 
You should tell him, but tell him in a way that gives him in idea..ya know..
The F does you sig mean OP?
 
You should tell him, but tell him in a way that gives him in idea..ya know..
The F does you sig mean OP?
 
Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Why are people calling you a snitch

he dry snitched on the stuff that goes down in the relatively unchecked Music forum a while back
 
Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Why are people calling you a snitch

he dry snitched on the stuff that goes down in the relatively unchecked Music forum a while back
 
Originally Posted by Manglor

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Why are people calling you a snitch


i was curious myself.


Anyway of course you should tell him.

She is using him, if you are his friend help him stop getting used.

It's as simple as that.

If you were him would you want your friend to tell you or keep his mouth shut so you could up your chance of face herpes by like 10% daily?

"all that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. Do not allow evil to triumph. Do not do sit by and do nothing."
laugh.gif
even though I came to post this, if you're cool with dude let him know and if he continues then he's @ fault
 
Originally Posted by Manglor

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Why are people calling you a snitch


i was curious myself.


Anyway of course you should tell him.

She is using him, if you are his friend help him stop getting used.

It's as simple as that.

If you were him would you want your friend to tell you or keep his mouth shut so you could up your chance of face herpes by like 10% daily?

"all that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. Do not allow evil to triumph. Do not do sit by and do nothing."
laugh.gif
even though I came to post this, if you're cool with dude let him know and if he continues then he's @ fault
 
If one of my boys knew something like this and didn't tell me, I'd be deleting two people out of my life the day I found out.

You dig?
 
If one of my boys knew something like this and didn't tell me, I'd be deleting two people out of my life the day I found out.

You dig?
 
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