Dont know what to do guys...

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Hey guys, ive been really struggling lately. Theres this one girl i've been talking with for the past year, shes really interesting and such an awesome person (pics will come in a few). But she got together with this guy that i dont even know like 6 months ago. And everytime i talk with her, its like she HAS to bring him up, and what theyre doing. I think ive even "interrupted" one time. How do i kno she likes me? she has to be feeling something since we ALWAYS talk. So what can i do to make her like me?thanks guys

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please help me out.
 
you're in the friend zone fam. stop talking to her for a while and see how she starts trying to get in contact with you (or not) there are other females out there
 
Originally Posted by demik

Friend ZOWNED.

Yeah. Basically all you have to do is dead her.


Yes.


Dead her.


Make her see that you've got ENOUGH friends and you don't need any more if she won't allow you to be something more in her life. She should know how you feel about her and that she shouldn't come to expect anything more from you. Treat her like she treats you. She probably doesn't answer all the time when you call, or instantly respond to your messages. Think about it, youre probably there every time she wants you. You answer her calls. You respond to her messages. You help her every time she needs it. You need to start respecting yourself. To be real, she might not want to be friends with you and thats the risk of going forward with this but the best thing to do is to put your bid in and treat her like you don't need her. She needs you more than you need her. Make her realize that and you need to go off and do your thing. Make her jealous. Get with someone else. Once she sees that you're off knocking off other chicks or interested in someone else, she will either stop talking to you or come to want you more in her life. If she goes with the former, she didn't want you anyways, if its the latter you may have a chance.

Its gonna hurt to not hear from her or know that youre ignoring her and not soliciting her advances but she has to see that you don't need her and that youre your own man.

Its for the best man. Sometimes you have to go through it to know that this is pretty much the only way to go about it. Don't think admitting your undying love for her will work either. She'll see you as someone that took advantage of her being so close to her. She'll see it as a breach of confidence and security...and it almost makes sense. Do you and she'll respect that or drop you to the side. Its gotta be done homie. Think about it. Every guy you know with LEGITIMATE female friends has his own chicks. These lady friends secretly want him, not the other way around.

Good luck. Stop simping. Learn to respect yourself. No need to lose sleep over a woman that doesn't know what she has. Its all a game homie. Play or be played.
 
What exactly are you trying to do? Be her man? Or just cut?

Furthermore, are you always hitting her up? Or is she hitting you up?

When does her conversing about her man begin? Does she just bring it up randomly, or when you're trying to get on personal topics/hitting on her? Is it bad things about her man that she's mentioning to you?

If she's the cheating type, you would have known it by now.

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Find another girl.

Hope the new girl works out.

You're in the friendzone buddy. If you were a female she'd tell you how good the guy is in bed.
 
Friend zoned in the worst way. Girls like attention. You're supplying it for free. Cut your losses. Reduce contact with her by 95%. Don't completely cut off contact cause at the end of the day you still wanna smash.
 
The only way of getting out of the friendzone is going rogue:
So, you're in love with one of your friends, but she has a boyfriend and probably wouldn't have sex with you anyway.

What you will need: 1 x knife, 1 x ring, access to a sunbed, the ability to grow a beard.

Step One: Place the ring on your wedding finger and avoid contact with your friend for a month.

Step Two: Stop shaving and use the sunbed to gain a tan.

Step Three: After a month when your beard is full and your tan is noticeable, remove the ring from your finger.

Step Four: Remove all your clothes and break into your friend's house.

Step Five: Use the knife to cut your body in various places. Avoid the face. If possible, focus on your back. The more blood the better.

Step Six: Enter your friend's bedroom and lie face down on the floor. Wait for her return.

Step Seven: When she enters the room pretend to be unconscious. Allow her to turn you over and try to wake you for a few seconds before you open your eyes. The injuries to your body will serve as a distraction to your nakedness. She will be more concerned about your wellbeing instead of fearing the naked man in her room.

Step Eight: When she asks you what's happened you should ignore her questions. Instead you must act confused and ask the date. If it's September 15th she will say 'September 15th' to which you must reply 'No, what year is it?'

Step Nine: Upon hearing the year say the words 'It worked.' Pretend to lose consciousness again for a few seconds, implying that whatever it is that has worked took a great effort.

Step Ten: If your friend is a curious person she will probably ask 'What worked?', even if she doesn't ask this question it is important that you now say the words '(Insert Friend's Name), I'm from the future' in your most deadpan voice.

Step Eleven: Pause for ten seconds to allow the incrediblness of the situation to sink in. There will be no reason for her to doubt your claim, because your beard will make you appear many years older and your cuts would add weight to the idea that you've come from a post-apocalyptic future where a war is currently taking place.

Step Twelve: Raise your left hand to your face. All women are very observant, so your friend will immediately notice the tanline on your wedding finger. If she is educated to a decent standard she will realise that you are married and your ring has simply disappeared, because clothing and other items cannot travel through time. Your nudity will support this.

Step Thirteen: Now comes the hard part - The monologue. In your own words you must give a speech in which you mention all of these key points:

a) You are married to each other in the future
b) Her current boyfriend is dead
c) The world is coming to an end. It's up to you to pick a reason, but I would recommend a war against machines. This whole situation will be backed up by the Terminator franchise
d) In the future your relationship is not going well
e) You've come back in time because you can't help but feel that she would have been happier with her current boyfriend if he hadn't been killed
f) Her current boyfriend is going to be hit by a bus on a day six months from her present. She should stop him going to work that day
g) If she does exactly what you say this current version of yourself will be erased and you will never get married. If she questions this flaw in your time travel logic, because you cannot change the past, simply reference Back to the Future

Step Fourteen: Unless your friend is made of stone she will now be overcome by emotion, especially at your selflessness. Get to your feet and go to kiss her goodbye. It is important that you do this with the confidence of a man who has done this to her many times.

Step Fifteen: There is now no possible way that you aren't about to have sex with her. You're naked, kissing her, in her bedroom, agreeing to erase a version of yourself from history to make her happy. And as far as she knows you've had sex many times in a future that will no longer happen, so she thinks to herself that maybe she should have one memory of it.

Step Sixteen: After having the sex, ask to borrow some clothes then leave.

Step Seventeen: Shave off your beard and coat your wedding finger in fake tan. Carry on as if nothing has happened. There will be three possible outcomes:

1) During the sex some feelings that she didn't know existed are awakened and she will leave her boyfriend for you.
2) Life will carry on as normal.
3) You will be filled with guilt because of this moral grey area where you aren't entirely sure if what you've done counts as some kind of low level rape. You will take your own life by hanging, overdose or wrist cutting.
 
Friend Zone, for sure!

You're going to have to do something extreme and out of the ordinary to get the attention 100% back to you. At this point you should just do it cause it's going to happen or not, what do you have to lose? Either way you come out of it with a new friend.
 
You've been talking to her for a year and she got with the guy 6 months ago. That means you let 6 months go by where she was available, but never told her how you felt. Honestly, we've all been there. The lesson for next time is, tell her how you feel or someone else will...and they did.
 
Friend zoned in the worst way. Girls like attention. You're supplying it for free. Cut your losses. Reduce contact with her by 95%. Don't completely cut off contact cause at the end of the day you still wanna smash.
THIS. But dont waste your time waiting.. Jus keep it movin


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