- Apr 28, 2010
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I don't think forgiving and forgetting is good. It's some sentimental crap that's fed to us throughout life. It makes you weak thinking you should forget instances and forget people who put you through these instances. Don't forget, use it to your advantage. I love the pain that I've felt in life (it isn't a lot, but it's there) makes me want to work harder to make myself a better, stronger, more intelligent person. Pain and the hate I have for it is my motivation.
Someone brought up the question to me about giving up and moving on. What's the difference? there is none. In both instances you fail at something. One way is for the weak, the other is for the stronger minded people. Moving on is only a more comforting action, one associated with good images and maturity, the other with images of weakness and self hate with a lack of self worth. The weak soothe themselves with the idea of moving on. It makes them feel better about themselves and the situation or obstacle they weren't able to overcome. Giving up is accepting that failure and never forgetting it. It is up to that strong minded person to use that to their advantage.
Someone brought up the question to me about giving up and moving on. What's the difference? there is none. In both instances you fail at something. One way is for the weak, the other is for the stronger minded people. Moving on is only a more comforting action, one associated with good images and maturity, the other with images of weakness and self hate with a lack of self worth. The weak soothe themselves with the idea of moving on. It makes them feel better about themselves and the situation or obstacle they weren't able to overcome. Giving up is accepting that failure and never forgetting it. It is up to that strong minded person to use that to their advantage.
