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Go to gym and start liftin bruh. Get that estrogen and drake out of your system.
- Nov 11, 2007
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Really appreciate the kind words and personal stories everyone. A lot of you have the blue print to making it work and moving on with situations like these 
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OP not sure how old you are but I went through 2 messy break ups in my early and mid 20s. I don't think there's a single solid plan to get over and rebuild but a lot of the post on here is leading you to the right direction. Its one day at a time.
Me personally, it just took time and maturity process, being alone and really taking the time to fix myself. Enjoy the freedom and learn more about yourself. Think about doing things or setting goals you thought weren't possible and see it through.
Me personally, it just took time and maturity process, being alone and really taking the time to fix myself. Enjoy the freedom and learn more about yourself. Think about doing things or setting goals you thought weren't possible and see it through.
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Oh, booze, yambs, and drugs also helped. Just be smart about it.
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You're doing the right things bruh. Wish there was a better answer to that than time, but that's all it is. Keep doing what you're doing, keep busy, find new things to immerse yourself in. It won't be over in days, It's gonna hurt, it's gonna plague you, ****, cry it out every now and then. Every moment you're not doing something your thoughts are going to belong to her, but just know over time it'll go away. DO NOT reach out to her in this stage.
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- delete here number
- change your number
- hang out with the boys
- hit the gym
the 4yr old had something to do wit it. She needs to raise the kid and take care of him/her. Which leaves less time to hang out with you. Try looking for chicks without kids if you really need that much attention from a woman.
- change your number
- hang out with the boys
- hit the gym
the 4yr old had something to do wit it. She needs to raise the kid and take care of him/her. Which leaves less time to hang out with you. Try looking for chicks without kids if you really need that much attention from a woman.
- Jun 5, 2008
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New ******** will help you get over old ********. If anything just get out and do things. Become more social, meet different women. Like someone posted before me, you don't necessarily have to be smashing everything you meet, but it helps to have some kind of connection with women. The thing is, don't feel sorry for yourself.
Even you said that she had so many things on her plate that she didn't have time for a BF. A chick that want's to be with you will MAKE time to be with you. Why would you want to be in a relationship like that anyway? Just use it as a learning experience. That's what I take out of my break-ups.
Even you said that she had so many things on her plate that she didn't have time for a BF. A chick that want's to be with you will MAKE time to be with you. Why would you want to be in a relationship like that anyway? Just use it as a learning experience. That's what I take out of my break-ups.
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Me I always keep a few girls on the side just in case of emergencies
- Nov 14, 2012
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delete her number, remove her from all texting apps, make facebook not show her updates
go out and do all the things you couldnt do while in a relationship
go out and do all the things you couldnt do while in a relationship
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LOL @ everyone saying hit the gym. Ya'll suppose to be in the gym already. 
***** you wasn't with me shooting in the gym
- Apr 5, 2007
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Lift
no contact (most important one)
play FDB and ******* aint ****
everytime you get reminded of her just think of the disrespectful **** she did
focus on bettering yourself money >>>>>>> *******
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Cut yourself off from her social media completely and just surround yourself with friends and fam and go out an do things. Try not to leave yourself time alone to contemplate and surround yourself with the feels. Its tough right now, but it'll pass over 
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I actually started going to the strip club alot recently for some odd reason
Youll be fine OP, broke up with my girl for literally the same reason, give it some time keep busy i started working out more and it worked fine. Youll be good brethren
joepac12
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All I'm a say is the herb helps everything.
lovehateself
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same advice as my brethren, stay off social media.
if its over, severe all ties. not fair to yourself or her to wonder "well what if, and this time..."
i know every relationship is circumstantial, but we all know what it is and what its gonna be from the get go.
keep yourself distracted. go for a good run and clear your thoughts.
eventually time does heal all... " theres nothing new until theres someone new"
if its over, severe all ties. not fair to yourself or her to wonder "well what if, and this time..."
i know every relationship is circumstantial, but we all know what it is and what its gonna be from the get go.
keep yourself distracted. go for a good run and clear your thoughts.
eventually time does heal all... " theres nothing new until theres someone new"
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From my time on here I've learned that the best thing to do when you have girl troubles is to post a thread on NT. Now get off NT and come back the line for the yeezys
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From my time on here I've learned that the best thing to do when you have girl troubles is to post a thread on NT. Now get off NT and come back the line for the yeezys
Lmaoooo Gase get away from my thread
phen0m
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No offense.. buit you barely knew shortie. You seemd to be more upset now, because youre lonely.. but you were clearly lonely when you were with her. Shes has a busy schedy.. busy yourself as well, and find someone to build with.
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We had a open letter to your ex thread on here a while back. And I swear that was one the of the most rawest, truthful threads I ever came across on here. Dudes let it out
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^^^thread was a classic...
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1) Delete all contacts, try your best not to creep around
2) Get closure from family members, remember, they are the most important ones
3) Hit up the homies, they'll refresh all the fond memory of being a bachelor
4) Obtain some fresh yambs, but do NOT get caught up as feelings are very unstable at this point. But you need this to get your testosterone level up
5) Hit the gym. Nothing like a good pump to get you going
6) Do something you've never done before, or always plan to. Hiking, bungee jumping,....whatever floats your boat
7) Travel. This generally takes your mind off of everything
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9) Stay positive
10) If all fails, let time do its magic
2) Get closure from family members, remember, they are the most important ones
3) Hit up the homies, they'll refresh all the fond memory of being a bachelor
4) Obtain some fresh yambs, but do NOT get caught up as feelings are very unstable at this point. But you need this to get your testosterone level up
5) Hit the gym. Nothing like a good pump to get you going
6) Do something you've never done before, or always plan to. Hiking, bungee jumping,....whatever floats your boat
7) Travel. This generally takes your mind off of everything
8 )
9) Stay positive
10) If all fails, let time do its magic
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LOL @ everyone saying hit the gym. Ya'll suppose to be in the gym already.
***** you wasn't with me shooting in the gym
This man knows
Priority #1: Be productive and focus on yourself.
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gym, pray, it works
