Girl Problem

OP's Girl
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lol if she really loves you and you really love her, you can bring it up gently and she'll be willing to fix herself up. Figure out a way to tell hergently if you really want to be with her.
 
Girl problem threads with no pics will have to have that in the title from now on.
 
if its that serious that your no longer attracted to her then move on.
 
Originally Posted by dunks87

playfully flirt with her and grab her love handles or poke her in areas that have gotten chubby. she may not say anything but as a girl whenever a guy is tickling me or touching me i am very self concious about if my body feels flabby or if something jiggles that didn't used to, it will bother her, at least it should. or next time you talk to her tell her you're thinking about getting in shape and going to the gym or running and ask her if she wants to make it like a fun couple thing. just don't call her fat because it will only cause her to eat more. or it might just be time for you to move on and find someone else.

all that is a bit much cuz they aren't together...if they were together he could play it off but to get with a chick who is fat she'll probably thinkhe' 'the one' cuz he got back with her big behind...he would have to wait until she actually gets back in shape to get with her and who knows howlong that will take...i say you just keep her around and play it by ear...if you are still really feeling her after awhile go for it...if her size stillbothers you keep it movin...


way i see it unless something dramatically changed that caused her to gain weight she isn't gonna lose it cuz she already let herself get that bad if itsas bad as OP makes it sound...while i'm sure she knows she's gained weight she hasn't done much to change it yet has she? nope...
 
Originally Posted by Cubinican

First off I dont have pics so dont ask. Anyways my ex came back into my life about a week ago after a year of seperation. The reason we ended was she moved out of the country and neither of us thought it was wise to do the long distance. Well this past week we talk and our feelings for each other really have come back strong. Tonight we hang out and the problem is she really let herself go. She is fat and has acne everywhere my girl went from halle berry to rasputia so what do I do????
you she has potential to look "halle berry" good... give her time frame to get back like that...if she don't let her go...
 
Originally Posted by AngeLeeLee

lol if she really loves you and you really love her, you can bring it up gently and she'll be willing to fix herself up. Figure out a way to tell her gently if you really want to be with her.
This. But you really need some pics. i don't know how you expect advice regarding looks alone and there's nothing to reference besides youdescribing this girl you supposedly care about as being fat and pimply.
That being said, with you saying this:
my girl went from halle berry to rasputia so what do I do????

Somebody should tell her to forget about you.
 
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