Have you ever let a girl pay for the bill? Vol. I owe you
- Feb 19, 2008
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i let girls pay ALL THE TIME! seriously, get over it. i've had vacations paid for. don't get me wrong, I pay A LOT! but you know what, it's 2009,women are allowed to vote, serve in the military and hold high political chairs, they can drop the $100 bucks for dinner and drinks. f that +@%.
In all honesty, your should feel flattered that she is willing to pay. now you sex her hard, like rottweiler.
In all honesty, your should feel flattered that she is willing to pay. now you sex her hard, like rottweiler.
- Feb 27, 2008
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I just caught this...
- Dec 8, 2008
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You received no L here. Back in the begining my girl and I used to always go back in forth for who gets the bill. If at a restaurant i would always get it butlike a quick bite to eat/fast food spot she would get it most of the time. Now i pay for everything since i have the only income right now since she stays homeand takes care of our daughter and goes to school on the weekends.
- Mar 14, 2006
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Nothin wrong w/ the girl payin if yall coo like that. She obviously thinks "highly" of u to take one for the team. Also, she knows that u def gon getthe next one and what not.
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- Dec 25, 2007
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nothing wrong with havign a girl pay for you. thats just showing ya are a team.
my chick always emphasis this to me, ill be stressing abotu trying to pay and she'll pay. and she'll be like we a team right so i can pay. when i didnthave a job for a month, she was payign for my gas and haircuts and i was feeling like straight $@**. as soon as i got a job and got paid, i got her hair done,nails done, and took her out to dinner. to show appreciation.
my chick always emphasis this to me, ill be stressing abotu trying to pay and she'll pay. and she'll be like we a team right so i can pay. when i didnthave a job for a month, she was payign for my gas and haircuts and i was feeling like straight $@**. as soon as i got a job and got paid, i got her hair done,nails done, and took her out to dinner. to show appreciation.
- Jan 8, 2005
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But yeah she covers her end but I pick up her tab sometimes. When I get my Birthday, Christmas and V-day gifts like I deserve just like I do for her on time orperiod, with no complaining then I'll cover the tab more.
- Feb 15, 2009
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Its not a bad if she pays, doesnt mean you a loser but if you wanted to meetup with her than get the check.
- Jun 4, 2009
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Simps
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- Nov 22, 2008
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Originally Posted by JayPesoz
my girl never really pays for food, but mostly everything else I buy
So basically, she never pays for anything.
- May 21, 2005
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Don't see the big deal with it.
I tend to like to it go back and forth. Last date I went on a couple of months ago, I offered to pay. I also told him it's on me when I took him out forhis birthday this month. So, I guess next time if there is a chance I go out with him, it is on him. It is a reciprocal thing.
- Feb 28, 2006
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co sign
times have changed . Sometimes as males we put presaure on ourselves to met this expectation. I have done it in the past. I will add too if u are really into the person and no one is selfish i think it may eventually get to the point where no keeps tab on who paid last time
There was drama at college early on this year so I had to be straight up with her and told her how I felt.
I personally would never offer to pay the full bill for dinner/drinks if I didn't know where I was going relationship wise with a girl.
I even tried to split the bill.. but to no avail. Why bother arguing any further I said to myslef, lol.
I'm taking things how it goes... She should know that I got it next.
Most girls will strongly agree, will know when someone is after her. Maybe, she paid as a way to neutralize the situation, haha. (Who am I kidding?)
But it was more so the concept and the willingness to pay for that amount (this isnt coffee or McDees) even though I asked her to hangoutafter work that strikes me.
We both in no rush I know that...
Thanks for the 2 cents fam.
- Mar 5, 2005
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Lol. But me and girls tend to go 75/25.
- Aug 25, 2008
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seem like when me and my girl go out i pay almost all time but hey she makes sure i get all the kicks i want
- Feb 9, 2008
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Only if she ask to. I'd rather pay so I be comfortable buying what I want.
- Apr 18, 2008
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my motto is....If I pay once, or even offer to pay once---I'm good on never having pay again; cuz they know I'm cool enough to pay, and I ain'tjust tryna get a free meal. This has never failed me. Guys be like "
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if and when I get in a relationship, I'll treat---especially if it's something that's my idea. Like "hey, let's go to this new sushiplace I heard about...."
if and when I get in a relationship, I'll treat---especially if it's something that's my idea. Like "hey, let's go to this new sushiplace I heard about...."
- Oct 28, 2006
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if shes worth it let her hold sum steak next time uz go out
as for me...i usually pay for anything w/o question unless we been together for a min n she wants to foot the bill i dont argue that
as for me...i usually pay for anything w/o question unless we been together for a min n she wants to foot the bill i dont argue that
- Oct 14, 2008
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I was getting close with my best friend's cousin over the past 2 weeks when she came to visit him and his family. We were at the club on Saturday and wewere dancing. I order a pair of shots and 2 beers for us. Well I reach into my wallet and I have like 20 bucks. I'm like FML, I need to get to an ATMquick because I need money. Well to make a long story short she paid for the drinks. I went to an ATM the next time she went to the bathroom quickly. I feltweird that she had to payed for me. But all went well, the night still ended like I wanted it to end. Too bad that she went back home to Europetoday.
- Jul 6, 2008
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yup on the first date
i asked her to go studying for exams we had coming up. we met up at a mall beside the library and i had my bio and math books with me. i asked her where herschool stuff was and she like, "you were serious?!"
me:
i didnt have much cash on me or any plastic (L) but she convinced me to go eat somewhere. she payed of course
i asked her to go studying for exams we had coming up. we met up at a mall beside the library and i had my bio and math books with me. i asked her where herschool stuff was and she like, "you were serious?!"
me:
i didnt have much cash on me or any plastic (L) but she convinced me to go eat somewhere. she payed of course
- Apr 15, 2008
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me and my ex use to rotate turns...she pays one outing, i pay the next....so on and soo forth.
- Feb 22, 2008
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I do, a lot of times.
- Apr 25, 2007
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If she's just a friend then we can take turns on who got who and or just go dutch.
But if it were my gf, I would pay most of the time but sometimes she would if I forget my money or if she grabs the tab from the waiter
But if it were my gf, I would pay most of the time but sometimes she would if I forget my money or if she grabs the tab from the waiter
