You have to include something in your profile/message that will illicit a response.
Purpose of your prompts and bio is to make it easy for her to talk to you. Make her laugh, or curious and want to know more about you. This is 1 of the prompts I use.
All layups that make it easy for her to message me first, and that only happens 1-10 matches or so. Exhibit A when I logged in after work
Crocs are terrible and I will never own a pair but they’re useful.
Most of the time I message first and when I do I focus on either
1. Something in her profile if it’s unique. Shorty is in dental school so I used it.
2. I talk sh*t. Woman love claiming eccentric personality traits. She said she was “feisty”.
3. And when she has nothing of note in her profile or looks like a easy bust down. I shoot something like this at her.
Rinse and repeat.