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Saw a few tweets lately from two chicks I used to talk to from Bumble a few yrs back. Didn’t even realize we still followed each other since I don’t use Twitter much. One chick is a lawyer, highly argumentative personality and would turn everything into a debate. It was draining so I deaded that pretty quickly. She used to talk about how she wanted to be married by 30, how having a partner/family was important in life, stuff like that.

Now she’s constantly tweeting stuff like “women should focus on having self-sufficient lives and decentralize partnership and children”, and how partnership is overrated and not important.

The other one was the kind of chick that wanted to be a stay-at-home mom/wife and “men should be men” and should pay for everything and be the provider. Now she’s proudly tweeting about how she pays 100% of the rent while her man cooks and cleans the house and how she doesn’t believe in gender roles.

It’s really weird out here.
I notice that with a lot of my friends.

Things they swore by and lived by years ago that they said they'd never compromise on have completely flipped. I look at them as 100% hypocrites :lol

I just hope it don't happen to me :lol Since I've been saying I don't see myself ever getting married.
 
I just hope it don't happen to me :lol: Since I've been saying I don't see myself ever getting married.

IMO saying you don't see yourself getting married then eventually getting married isn't as bad as doing a 180 in the other direction. I don't know these women personally but based on the backstory they seem upset that they didn't get chose (or they choose the wrong ones along the way) so now they use their independence to boost themselves up.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with being single or independent because I know people change. However, being vocal and doing that switch up is funny style to me 🤷‍♂️
 
IMO saying you don't see yourself getting married then eventually getting married isn't as bad as doing a 180 in the other direction. I don't know these women personally but based on the backstory they seem upset that they didn't get chose (or they choose the wrong ones along the way) so now they use their independence to boost themselves up.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with being single or independent because I know people change. However, being vocal and doing that switch up is funny style to me 🤷‍♂️

Yeah that’s exactly it. Also a lot of people (men and women) hop on these apps thinking they’re gonna find someone that’s not even checking for them. My girl knows a bunch of women that are 5’s or 6’s at best that have been on the dating apps for years looking to settle down. In her words, they all think just because a good looking or high earning guy has matched with them and smashed, that one of those same guys is gonna lock them down. They eventually give up on those dreams and either settle for a an average looking, average earning dude or they just embrace being independent. It is what it is.

Kinda similar thing with some guys…if you knock off a few 5’s or 6’s from the apps and start feeling yourself you suddenly start thinking you can get those 8’s, 9’s and 10’s or think you can be a little more picky and it doesn’t happen :lol: Only difference is most dudes are realistic and take what they can get on the apps. You won’t hear a man complain about smashing a 5/10, a McDonald’s worker (no offense) or something. But an average looking woman is definitely gonna swipe past the average looking dude with a blue collar job in most cases.
 
Is it really a lot to ask if you were dating a chick though? Dudes can't do anything without being a simp.

Sounds exactly like a rant one of yall Kevin Samuels/Alpha Male youtube subscribing dudes would give except replace moving with expecting her to drop everything shes doing to come through and please you sexually whenever the feeling hits.
 
Which personality though? Mob ties drake or Marvin’s Room Drake?
West Indian Drake?
African Drake?
Drake from the dirty South?
Drake from Miami?
Drake from Degrassi?

Soooooo she was getting passed around by 3 different dudes who didn't even like her enough to help her move and her broke *** had to call her daddy and this is a W?
 
Is it really a lot to ask if you were dating a chick though?

If you're not exclusively dating or in a relationship yeah.


Sounded like she had moved recently so she probably didn't even know them that long/well. I doubt they all were smashing...if any otherwise at least one would have done it.

Moving somewhere without knowing the lay of the land is what stands out to me the most. Probably had to break her lease. Father failed on multiple levels.
 
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Is it really a lot to ask if you were dating a chick though? Dudes can't do anything without being a simp.
If a chick is proud that she can't do certain things and will cut off a man who won't help her and you see that as a man and are ready to jump in and do it yeah you a simp. I mean that chick already said she's going to rebuild her roster. So you not the only one dating her.

She didn't present the example as if her boyfriend wouldn't help her move. She said the numerous men she ******* wouldn't help so she called her daddy. Then her follow up vid is her again being proud that some simps slid in her DMs.
 
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IMO saying you don't see yourself getting married then eventually getting married isn't as bad as doing a 180 in the other direction. I don't know these women personally but based on the backstory they seem upset that they didn't get chose (or they choose the wrong ones along the way) so now they use their independence to boost themselves up.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with being single or independent because I know people change. However, being vocal and doing that switch up is funny style to me 🤷‍♂️

As most of NT knows - I was of that school of thought. Wasn’t overly vocal, just didn’t think there was anyone that could match my fluid hips.

I found her and wifed her.
 
If a chick is proud that she can't do certain things and will cut off a man who won't help her and you see that as a man and are ready to jump in and do it yeah you a simp. I mean that chick already she's going to rebuild her roster. So you not the only one dating her.

She didn't present the example as if her boyfriend wouldn't help her move. She said the numerous men she ****ing wouldn't help so she called her daddy. Then her follow up vid is her again being proud that some simps slid in her DMs.
Also your parents are not your partner and vice-versa. It's unhealthy to treat either like the other

How would I look telling a woman "If you won't do it, my mommy will! I don't need you, I got a mommy!"

That sounds crazy :lol: Looking to date copies of your parents and replacing people who don't live up is crazy :lol:

One bad morning I almost let someone know just how much I did not give a **** about her father or being like him :lol:
 
Also your parents are not your partner and vice-versa. It's unhealthy to treat either like the other

How would I look telling a woman "If you won't do it, my mommy will! I don't need you, I got a mommy!"

That sounds crazy :lol: Looking to date copies of your parents and replacing people who don't live up is crazy :lol:

One bad morning I almost let someone know just how much I did not give a **** about her father or being like him :lol:
A man doing that would get roasted to ashes :rollin
 
But aren't men physically stronger than women? It's like the only gender norm/role based in biology and not social expectations. Who should she call?
 
But aren't men physically stronger than women? It's like the only gender norm/role based in biology and not social expectations. Who should she call?
She called her daddy and he gave her money so she could hire movers.

She should've hired movers from the jump.
 
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