TheGodFresco
formerly gsdoubleu
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im about to move in with my lady soon, so this thread has good timing
how many of ya'll live with your lady?
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with no further explanation I know what you mean
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with no further explanation I know what you mean
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i love this advice
and co-sign to the moving in before marriage to test the waters
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i love this advice
and co-sign to the moving in before marriage to test the waters
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Did it for a few years with the ex. WOULD NOT RECOMMEND IT UNLESS YOUR MARRIED! ITS GOING TO TAKE ALL THE MAGIC OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP FAST! Outside of easy access for sex its not a good look. It literally ruined our relationship because the last times it was forced and we weren't getting along prior. Say goodbye to privacy,porn,long hours of anything you enjoy, a clean bathroom due to makeup ##+$ everywhere,your boys coming through and having conversations about chicks, constant nagging for attention, spending more money on entertaining and feeding two people............. writing this made me realize how great it is to live alone again..... oh and one more thing living with someone is like no other experience you get to know the little nuances and habits they have and you might not like what you see. Again do not do it till marriage.
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Did it for a few years with the ex. WOULD NOT RECOMMEND IT UNLESS YOUR MARRIED! ITS GOING TO TAKE ALL THE MAGIC OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP FAST! Outside of easy access for sex its not a good look. It literally ruined our relationship because the last times it was forced and we weren't getting along prior. Say goodbye to privacy,porn,long hours of anything you enjoy, a clean bathroom due to makeup ##+$ everywhere,your boys coming through and having conversations about chicks, constant nagging for attention, spending more money on entertaining and feeding two people............. writing this made me realize how great it is to live alone again..... oh and one more thing living with someone is like no other experience you get to know the little nuances and habits they have and you might not like what you see. Again do not do it till marriage.
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It fine for me, we have our ups and downs from time to time but I enjoy it..
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It fine for me, we have our ups and downs from time to time but I enjoy it..
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Originally Posted by IHeartBoost
I did it for 2 month, I left
Pros:
Cons:
- Food
- Sex
I mean pretty much everything you guys have said. I've heard stories, didn't want to listen, now that I've done it, I can't take it no more. Too much fighting, the constant Im doing %*%@ behind her back. Whenever my new Tweet tone goes off on my phone it's always "what ho is tweeting you now" nonsense. The fact is, if I left the room, she would come right after me on some psycho %*%@. She was never at fault and we could be laying right next to each other for hours and not say a word, !++@, I felt like her roommate more than 90% of the time. This life aint or me right now, so I left, actually 2 days ago and she cried, cried and more cried.
- Nagging
- Fighting
- Twitter / Facebook
- The girl on my desktop
- Phone
- Shoes
aren't you engaged?
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Originally Posted by IHeartBoost
I did it for 2 month, I left
Pros:
Cons:
- Food
- Sex
I mean pretty much everything you guys have said. I've heard stories, didn't want to listen, now that I've done it, I can't take it no more. Too much fighting, the constant Im doing %*%@ behind her back. Whenever my new Tweet tone goes off on my phone it's always "what ho is tweeting you now" nonsense. The fact is, if I left the room, she would come right after me on some psycho %*%@. She was never at fault and we could be laying right next to each other for hours and not say a word, !++@, I felt like her roommate more than 90% of the time. This life aint or me right now, so I left, actually 2 days ago and she cried, cried and more cried.
- Nagging
- Fighting
- Twitter / Facebook
- The girl on my desktop
- Phone
- Shoes
aren't you engaged?
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I live with my lady. Honestly, there's only one con. We had kids a little too early. No regrets at all. We just dont get much quality time.
Pros:
-complete trust(no nagging, checking my phone, or asking where im going)
-sex(she wants it more than I do
)
-she cooks and clean(I help out here and there)
-never complains
-she can roll blunts(she'll hit it once or twice here and there)
-when the time of the month comes she pleases in other ways
-the things she wears around the house
-she accepts everything about me
-were 50/50 on everything
Pros:
-complete trust(no nagging, checking my phone, or asking where im going)
-sex(she wants it more than I do
-she cooks and clean(I help out here and there)
-never complains
-she can roll blunts(she'll hit it once or twice here and there)
-when the time of the month comes she pleases in other ways
-the things she wears around the house
-she accepts everything about me
-were 50/50 on everything
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I live with my lady. Honestly, there's only one con. We had kids a little too early. No regrets at all. We just dont get much quality time.
Pros:
-complete trust(no nagging, checking my phone, or asking where im going)
-sex(she wants it more than I do
)
-she cooks and clean(I help out here and there)
-never complains
-she can roll blunts(she'll hit it once or twice here and there)
-when the time of the month comes she pleases in other ways
-the things she wears around the house
-she accepts everything about me
-were 50/50 on everything
Pros:
-complete trust(no nagging, checking my phone, or asking where im going)
-sex(she wants it more than I do
-she cooks and clean(I help out here and there)
-never complains
-she can roll blunts(she'll hit it once or twice here and there)
-when the time of the month comes she pleases in other ways
-the things she wears around the house
-she accepts everything about me
-were 50/50 on everything
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Your avy!
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Your avy!
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Originally Posted by Phen0m
omfg do you know how much I hear this $!%%!! SHE'LL COME AND ASK ME QUESTIONS WHEN IM DEAD-TIRED AND TRYING TO NAP AFTER WORKING FROM 6AM TO 6PM /end rant. Then it's.. ya know.. you shouldnt drink/eat/look at so much "insert random non-vegan dish". It's hilarity personified, because its like a fresh attempt daily.. like we JUST met lol.Originally Posted by Stockholm Patriot
Last 12 years ...I'm 28 now
But I'm SINGLE now ...don't know if I'm gonna miss the amenities compared to the disparities, separated once in 2008 lost 60 pounds, got a six pack, any woman I wanted
FREEDOM to watch what I want, have a who ever I want as my desktop picture. Sleep when I want, BS all day, play ball without nagging.
Eat what I want, Go sleep right after school and work...Got back together summer of 2009, DIVORCING and I was granted full custody.
Yeah man, it noting to jump for joy over after the initial high wears off...women are vampiric creatures in every aspect of a man's life
I WONT MISS IT. AT ALL...
I live with my girl now. We stayed together then seprated went home to the rents and now back at the apt.
Its legit I always say. WALLS ARE NEEDED THO!
It is a battle and if mastered both of you will be good. Taking the Cosby Kids to the swimming pool at home was legit now is not even relaxing. Food wise is always a struggle seeing as lately we been buying since I normally cook. (mom's a chef so I know my way around a kitchen.)
All in All worth it for everything, even the shared showers
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Originally Posted by Phen0m
omfg do you know how much I hear this $!%%!! SHE'LL COME AND ASK ME QUESTIONS WHEN IM DEAD-TIRED AND TRYING TO NAP AFTER WORKING FROM 6AM TO 6PM /end rant. Then it's.. ya know.. you shouldnt drink/eat/look at so much "insert random non-vegan dish". It's hilarity personified, because its like a fresh attempt daily.. like we JUST met lol.Originally Posted by Stockholm Patriot
Last 12 years ...I'm 28 now
But I'm SINGLE now ...don't know if I'm gonna miss the amenities compared to the disparities, separated once in 2008 lost 60 pounds, got a six pack, any woman I wanted
FREEDOM to watch what I want, have a who ever I want as my desktop picture. Sleep when I want, BS all day, play ball without nagging.
Eat what I want, Go sleep right after school and work...Got back together summer of 2009, DIVORCING and I was granted full custody.
Yeah man, it noting to jump for joy over after the initial high wears off...women are vampiric creatures in every aspect of a man's life
I WONT MISS IT. AT ALL...
I live with my girl now. We stayed together then seprated went home to the rents and now back at the apt.
Its legit I always say. WALLS ARE NEEDED THO!
It is a battle and if mastered both of you will be good. Taking the Cosby Kids to the swimming pool at home was legit now is not even relaxing. Food wise is always a struggle seeing as lately we been buying since I normally cook. (mom's a chef so I know my way around a kitchen.)
All in All worth it for everything, even the shared showers
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Have been living with my girl for 7 years. No plans of marriage nor kids. Life is good!
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Have been living with my girl for 7 years. No plans of marriage nor kids. Life is good!
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Originally Posted by DJ bana
Girls don't poop or fart, what are you talking about...
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Originally Posted by DJ bana
Girls don't poop or fart, what are you talking about...
