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Same thing I was thinking now
What about the "Bench"
How to do the Jump-off thing....... tutor me
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What about the "Bench"
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depends on your personal schedule, game and patience.
differs for everyone
differs for everyone
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ahh because just about every chick will just smash on the first date...
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As of right now, I have 4 JOs in rotation...1 freshman, 1 sophomore, 1 junior, and 1 senior..I'm in college btw...then what I do is researchthem on Facebook and make sure they arent friends with each other...then again, I've smashed chicks that were friends, so whatever works best for yourenvironment...and as other people have mentioned, be real with em..Real talk though, one of my closest friends tells chicks that he loves them and wants towife them..and to this day, it has worked..but the end result is bad when he just smashes and dashes then you have a risk of being known as a male*@!+*...Originally Posted by Kicktionair
Same thing I was thinking now
What about the "Bench"
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Jump offs ARE: girls that are flirtatious and partiers. Always on the "scene". Drink or smoke or both. Have a lengthy "history". Also seem"DTF". Dress accordingly as well.
Jump offs ARE NOT: girls that are cool and seem like you would date. girls that are clingy, and only have boy friends. girls that ask you to events and"hang-outs". girls you have to compliment = not jump off. girls you have to wine & dine = NOT JUMP OFF!
its tricky, but you got to sort them out, pin point, and attack. jump offs are indigenous to clubs, natural habitats are parties, and are highly attracted toflashy behavior/status; like moth to light
Jump offs ARE NOT: girls that are cool and seem like you would date. girls that are clingy, and only have boy friends. girls that ask you to events and"hang-outs". girls you have to compliment = not jump off. girls you have to wine & dine = NOT JUMP OFF!
its tricky, but you got to sort them out, pin point, and attack. jump offs are indigenous to clubs, natural habitats are parties, and are highly attracted toflashy behavior/status; like moth to light
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wait, if a brother that is on his grind and focused on his career. do you guys think its better to have JO's or have a single relationship? i can the prosand cons for both situations..
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depends on you but from my POV...i dont like to be tied down. I do come off as BF material being that I'm mature, fun to be around supportive etc but Itell chicks straight up i'm not looking for a relationship and you know how that goes...they see you got options and they wanna be "the one"....
also....be selective in your JOs I've dated chicks who've seen my potential and tried to hustle me. it's part of the game...but dont trust a chickfurther than you can throw her. Just like you want a JO just for sex, they may want you just for your wallet
also....be selective in your JOs I've dated chicks who've seen my potential and tried to hustle me. it's part of the game...but dont trust a chickfurther than you can throw her. Just like you want a JO just for sex, they may want you just for your wallet
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Co-sign
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she lived across town...what did you want me to do?Originally Posted by nelly28
took u 3 times of chilling with the chic to smash? ur not qualified to speak on the matter
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if you live in cali practice with this chick
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=4145167
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=4145167
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OP what race are you?
just curious..no racist
just curious..no racist
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^^cosign
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you just have to find someone or more that are on the same level. If you smoke, get a buddy that will roll up and then get down. And when you talk to chicks,just be upfront and tell them what you want and don't want.
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A jump-off is a girl you promise commitment with, but the commitment never comes.
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I wish I had friends with benefits.
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Damn I feel left out in this thread! I've never had a jumpoff so far in my 18 yers of living! Lol. Maybe just a quickybuddy but that took time..nevr hadthat 123 easy chick. So ntRs I need some advice on how to bag JO's!
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never go out...always chill at her house or yours...
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Now apply what I said to a place like Washington Heights or some larger context, city...See what I'm saying...Originally Posted by SuperAntigen
Ohh nahh, it wasn't specifically directed at you--i just quoted your post because it pretty much captured the "double standard" as you put, that I was tryna convey...Originally Posted by ericberry14
im going 2 assume that your lil rant isnt directed towards me.Originally Posted by SuperAntigen
Isn't this a tad bit unfortunate and hypocritical.
I mean, one thing I always seem to read in threads like these (this included) is the fact that 99% of women are #!!*@@ and don't deserve to get wifed; and yet, y'all over here talking about how to convert and turn women into J.O's...like REALLY...
It seems like the goal is to bang as many chicks as possible before you settle down. But in order to bang all these aforementioned chicks, they must be easy and on the JO treatment. So now, how are most of you gonna bash modern day chicks for being #!!*@@ and lacking in morals when y'all actively make them the way they are.
I hope I'm not the only dude seeing this double standard, and quite frankly, being saddened by it.
You demonize 99% of women because you claim they are #!!*@@, and yet the reason why these women are the way they are is because you, in some form or fashion, made them the way they are...
Am I correct or am I correct...
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but yea its a complete double standard... guys want girls to be +%!$#* but in the same breath also want a good wholesome girl. its a conundrum, its pretty simple to solve really tho. Guys just want a girl who is a good wholesome girl, but then is also extra freaky & all that good stuff
You say it's easy to solve, but that's a facile statement in of itself because you're honestly bypassing the complexities of the whole situation and the point I'm bringing up.
This is how I'm thinking of it:
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i can tell you one of them dudes that can't keep a JO on the side. You hittin every day....doing what you wana do,spend the night when you feel like it,but you can't give the %%! 50 bucks on a bill?
It ain't trickin if she's doing something for you. You paying for the %%! when you put gas in your car to go see the %%!. Fall back young inexperiencedmale.
Pimpin at it's finest.
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not all jump offs want a relationship.most do. i usually have jump off's that are in relationships because they gone stay in there place cuz they gotsomething to lose! but i wouldnt advise a noob to try these type of things
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so true!!!! never go out with a jump off unless your in a a city where no one knows you! and even then stay modest as possible. Jump off's catch feelingsif you doin your job right!
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