If you love someone tonight, hold on to them tight.

Originally Posted by rice boy 45

you didn't break NFN, did you

That's really what's on your mind huh?

Lil Cao wrote:
My girl is sleepin in my arms as i type. Thanks for the advice op.
Make sure shes the one man
4wrestling wrote:
Originally Posted by pip777

What happened?

Henzo ignored his late night texts
No he didn't, matter fact hes the main person that's helped me through this
 
should've never been a simp...

You treat a girl like *@$%, they'll stick to you like doo-doo crumbs. you gotta show these women no affection. they wanna be controlled. women are stupid, but thats the way it is dunny
 
hotboy wrote:
should've never been a simp...

You treat a girl like *@$%, they'll stick to you like doo-doo crumbs. you gotta show these women no affection. they wanna be controlled. women are stupid, but thats the way it is dunny

You must be a teenager to think that is true. One he didnt simp the guy was in love let it be....And two that methodology is true in the teenage years, then females grow up.

OP man keep your head up man...
  
 
Originally Posted by hotboy

should've never been a simp...

You treat a girl like *@$%, they'll stick to you like doo-doo crumbs. you gotta show these women no affection. they wanna be controlled. women are stupid, but thats the way it is dunny

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Strong irony is strong.
 
Originally Posted by jhobson5

hotboy wrote:
should've never been a simp...

You treat a girl like *@$%, they'll stick to you like doo-doo crumbs. you gotta show these women no affection. they wanna be controlled. women are stupid, but thats the way it is dunny

You must be a teenager to think that is true. One he didnt simp the guy was in love let it be....And two that methodology is true in the teenage years, then females grow up.

OP man keep your head up man...
  

Only a simp would think treating a girl like crap would make her stay with you. Says a lot about the people you associate yourself with.
Anyways, back on topic...

 
 
I have learned painfully from past relationships, it doesn't matter how much in love you are with any said female... nothing lasts forever that's why you should always and I mean always have a backup female.

Plus the least you invest emotionally to one female, the better you are. I jump into relationships all the time, but in my mind I always prepare myself mentally for the end. Some dudes jump in head first without a damb, me? I jump in looking at all angles.

Wise up Gents.
 
Originally Posted by megatron

I did all the right things and things ended so abruptly.


son what you need to do is find a random skeezer to temporarily ease the pain fam. +%!% gon be +%!%, so you cant blame your girl...  
 
Originally Posted by balloonoboy

If only making love stay was that easy.
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@ this dude hotboy giving terrible advice



I know that feel OP. Its been a month of single life for me. Its gets better with time, trust me
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Originally Posted by SunDOOBIE

I have learned painfully from past relationships, it doesn't matter how much in love you are with any said female... nothing lasts forever that's why you should always and I mean always have a backup female.

Plus the least you invest emotionally to one female, the better you are. I jump into relationships all the time, but in my mind I always prepare myself mentally for the end. Some dudes jump in head first without a damb, me? I jump in looking at all angles.

Wise up Gents.
I 100% disagree.

That is a selfish and cowardly move, and way of thinking. "Oh I don't want to get my feewings hurt so I'll just cheat, and not invest into a relationship" REALLY? and you really expect any of your relationship to go anywhere with that mentality? You wonder why you keep getting left or cheated on LOL?

ME, I jump in looking at all angles and even if some are bad, if I truly care about said female I still invest in her because you're being honest with yourself, and that is the ONLY true way to find out if you're compatible. How you ever gonna find out if someone loves you for you without being honest about your feelings, and giving them all of you? Worried about getting used or getting your heart broken? Crap happens, grow a pair, and be a man about it. Enjoy the experiences and move on to a more worthy female.

And, mofos wonder why relationships don't workout. LOL
 
Originally Posted by megatron

I did all the right things and things ended so abruptly.

You looking at it the wrong way man.

I know it's easier said than done, but try and just appreciate the experiences you had with her. The memories and things learned should be enough to make you content, even with how everything ended up.

You said you did all the right things? Then great, be happy and proud that you gave the relationship and her your all. You doing everything right only means one thing, the problem was her not you, so be content with that thought. Appreciate that you had the chance to express yourself like that to another individual, and you two sharing a connection, even if brief and not lasting. And that's all you should think about and take out of it.

Move on to a worthier woman.
 
Originally Posted by PleasurePhD

Originally Posted by SunDOOBIE

I have learned painfully from past relationships, it doesn't matter how much in love you are with any said female... nothing lasts forever that's why you should always and I mean always have a backup female.

Plus the least you invest emotionally to one female, the better you are. I jump into relationships all the time, but in my mind I always prepare myself mentally for the end. Some dudes jump in head first without a damb, me? I jump in looking at all angles.

Wise up Gents.
I 100% disagree.

That is a selfish and cowardly move, and way of thinking. "Oh I don't want to get my feewings hurt so I'll just cheat, and not invest into a relationship" REALLY? and you really expect any of your relationship to go anywhere with that mentality? You wonder why you keep getting left or cheated on LOL?

ME, I jump in looking at all angles and even if some are bad, if I truly care about said female I still invest in her because you're being honest with yourself, and that is the ONLY true way to find out if you're compatible. How you ever gonna find out if someone loves you for you without being honest about your feelings, and giving them all of you? Worried about getting used or getting your heart broken? Crap happens, grow a pair, and be a man about it. Enjoy the experiences and move on to a more worthy female.

And, mofos wonder why relationships don't workout. LOL
Where did I say I cheat in relationships?  Having a list of single female friends readily available to date is considered cheating?  To me it's called a backup plan. Things don't work out with shorty, well peace time to move on.  
How am I gonna find out if a female loves me for me without being honest about my feelings and giving her all of me?

Serious? 

This whole relationship thing is a GAME.  Obviously to get a woman to love you, you have to invest time/feelings and say/do all the right things.  A lot of it is learning how to brain wash the girl so she knows I am in it 100% even though to me it's only 50%. It's all about control.    

Worried about getting my heart broken? Well yeah, why wouldn't I be worried?  I am not trying to be like OP listening to love songs and being in depression.  Is that your definition of what a man should be about?  Sorry I don't want to cry and be in pain over some female when there are plenty of fishes out there willing to be with me.  You go on and listen to K-Ci and JoJo at home crying yourself to sleep, I'll be at the club grinding on a new skeez. Cool? 

SMH.  And, Mofos wonder why NTers make relationship threads. 
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Originally Posted by SunDOOBIE

Originally Posted by PleasurePhD

Originally Posted by SunDOOBIE

I have learned painfully from past relationships, it doesn't matter how much in love you are with any said female... nothing lasts forever that's why you should always and I mean always have a backup female.

Plus the least you invest emotionally to one female, the better you are. I jump into relationships all the time, but in my mind I always prepare myself mentally for the end. Some dudes jump in head first without a damb, me? I jump in looking at all angles.

Wise up Gents.
I 100% disagree.

That is a selfish and cowardly move, and way of thinking. "Oh I don't want to get my feewings hurt so I'll just cheat, and not invest into a relationship" REALLY? and you really expect any of your relationship to go anywhere with that mentality? You wonder why you keep getting left or cheated on LOL?

ME, I jump in looking at all angles and even if some are bad, if I truly care about said female I still invest in her because you're being honest with yourself, and that is the ONLY true way to find out if you're compatible. How you ever gonna find out if someone loves you for you without being honest about your feelings, and giving them all of you? Worried about getting used or getting your heart broken? Crap happens, grow a pair, and be a man about it. Enjoy the experiences and move on to a more worthy female.

And, mofos wonder why relationships don't workout. LOL
Where did I say I cheat in relationships?  Having a list of single female friends readily available to date is considered cheating?  To me it's called a backup plan. Things don't work out with shorty, well peace time to move on.  
How am I gonna find out if a female loves me for me without being honest about my feelings and giving her all of me?

Serious? 

This whole relationship thing is a GAME.  Obviously to get a woman to love you, you have to invest time/feelings and say/do all the right things.  A lot of it is learning how to brain wash the girl so she knows I am in it 100% even though to me it's only 50%. It's all about control.    

Worried about getting my heart broken? Well yeah, why wouldn't I be worried?  I am not trying to be like OP listening to love songs and being in depression.  Is that your definition of what a man should be about?  Sorry I don't want to cry and be in pain over some female when there are plenty of fishes out there willing to be with me.  You go on and listen to K-Ci and JoJo at home crying yourself to sleep, I'll be at the club grinding on a new skeez. Cool? 

SMH.  And, Mofos wonder why NTers make relationship threads. 
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GAME LOL. So funny that you bring that up. I just made some posts in the insecurities thread about how most relationships fail because IDIOTS think they have to play games, instead of being straight forward. THAT IS WHY YOU CAN'T FIND A WOMAN THAT WOULD HOLD YOU DOWN FOR LIFE. YOU THINK A RELATIONSHIP IS A GAME.

If a woman ever tried to play games with me I was on to the next one cause I knew I could find so many more beautiful worthy women, that don't act like kids and find the need to play games.

No offense most people do think it's a game they find the need to play games. And that is why MOST relationships fail.

Depressed and listening to love song LOL. When did I ever say to do that? Didn't I say BE A MAN and grow a pair and move on? Also, so you would rather just not invest in a relationship so that you wont get hurt? Again, that is cowardly.

LOL actually I'll go home to the beautiful woman I love, and you go and grind on a JO. The fact that you think you're cool for "grinding" on skeezoids is so...
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You really think you doing it huh? LOL Alpha male? LMAO. Like it's hard to pull JOs at a club. Try getting a beautiful (physically, mentally, and spiritually) woman to fall head over heads for you and STAY that way.

Did I hurt your feelings? LOL all this crap talking from the same guy who said he has been hurt in the past LOL. Remember who is faking it, you're the one that said you loved women in past relationships who left you, you said it, and now YOU ARE admitting you're too scared to be hurt again so you don't invest. Cowardly.

I will admit I was wrong about you cheating, but the fact that you are consciously think these women are back ups, is disrespectful to your current woman, and to the BACK UPS. Shoot, what woman wants to hear that, "oh ya baby my other woman left me so now I want to be with you, you always been my #2, my back up, forever and a day"
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The difference between you and I is that if I was 50% I'm telling her I'm 50%, if I am 100% I'm telling her I'm 100%, If she wants some control and I think that's okay I give it to her, If I want some control I tell her and take control. Take it or leave it, don't like that I'm 50% okay coo bounce, don't like that I'm 100% okay cool then bounce. It's all about honesty to yourself and to her. NO GAMES.

A man like me would put his hand through fire, risk being burned, knowing that there could be diamonds on the other side. A man like you is always just gonna sit back, scared of the fire, continuing to play with his cubic zirconia.
 
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