If your girl had a bad day at work how you cheer them up? Vol.

[MakeNTGreatAgain]

Ur girl had a bad day at work

how do yall cheer them up?

for the NT’rs who r in relationship with men.
Ur man had a bad day at work how you cheer them up?

if you had a bad day at work how do you like to be cheered up

 

[Upptempo]

Let them vent about their day. That's really all you need to do if you have good communication within the relationship. Just listen to what they have to say without trying to give advice and the reassurance that you support them will be enough most times.

 

[cragmatic]

Whatever you do , do NOT tell them they complain about their job too much

 

[Upptempo]

Whatever you do , do NOT tell them they complain about their job too much

or try to give advice lol. Guys don't realize how much most women don't wanna hear what they should do differently and every dude thinks he's Dr Phil

 

[para bellum]

Whatever you do , do NOT tell them they complain about their job too much

Or point out that they were actually in the wrong

 

[stuntman mike]

happened today actually. the solution differs depending on the situation. last time i bought her flowers so this time i bought her these s’mores things from a fancy chocolate store. when i got home, i just let her tell me what happened then gave her a hug.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Yea, just shutup and listen. Ask questions that makes them talk more about whatever they want to vent about.

 

[Smokecitykicks]

You don’t

 

[aepps20]

I serenade her with da art of the deal Chapter 2. Works everytime

 

[Bert.]

Listen, neck rub

maybe sex

 

[blackintellect]

Whip it out

 

[$tacy]

Cheer her up for what? It’s life.

 

[the coolness]

I used to let her vent while giving her a foot rub on the couch. I got pretty good after a while too. Had this one move where I took two knuckles and worked them up the arch towards the toes. That one was basically light foreplay everytime.

 

[eracism]

Hit her with that toxic positivity

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

 

[davinelulinvega]

Ur girl had a bad day at work

how do yall cheer them up?

for the NT’rs who r in relationship with men.
Ur man had a bad day at work how you cheer them up?

if you had a bad day at work how do you like to be cheered up

When I was in couple I was just listening, nothing more simple, sometimes making a comment but tended to restrain my chatty side because in those cases people just need to get rid of it. Then, when it's done, you can talk about it.

 

[calibeebee]

Ur girl had a bad day at work

how do yall cheer them up?

for the NT’rs who r in relationship with men.
Ur man had a bad day at work how you cheer them up?

if you had a bad day at work how do you like to be cheered up

I don’t like it when people try to cheer me up. It’s fake and annoying. Just give me space and let me calmly cool off. Hardest part about a relationship for me is having a long difficult day at work, and getting talked to as soon as I walk through the door.

lemme go eat some food. Lemme think about what went wrong that day, maybe sip a beer or something. I don’t need her to try to tickle me or crack jokes to get me to fake smile.

 

[finessence]

IDC. Work harder. I don’t coddle people

 

[blastercombo]

Tell the other girl to leave out the back door

 

[jape]

cook dinner or pick something up
food always works

 

[blastercombo]

I serenade her with da art of the deal Chapter 2. Works everytime

Tell her to pick herself up by her boot straps

 

[davinelulinvega]

Complain more than her :

" oh you think you had a bad day, let me tell you what a bad day is "

Edit : also works with :

" as your day already s*****, I'm telling you : I'm leaving you "

 

[harlemtothebronx]

I dunno, I got 17 other things to do. She be aight.

What she doing to cheer me up?

 

[dropten]

IDC. Work harder. I don’t coddle people

I'm with you on this one. A bad day a few times a year is OK. But when it's too many, I don't entertain it. My philosophy is don't complain about it, do something about it. Sometimes they complain so much, their minds become negative over time and affects the other person in the relationship, which is extremley selfish and damaging.

 

[tr1ll]

Bust out the oils and get my massage on, and we know how 90% of massages end.