I'm 21 and never had a girlfriend.

[h1n1proof]

Maybe try getting a boyfriend

 

[finallyfamous]

These replies are right, tho.

I'm 21 as well.. Have had girlfriends before but nothing that crazy (19 months longest)

Honestly you have to work on yourself first and be happy with who you are. If you're getting girls then you'll be fine.

 

[Meangene45]

Have a gay birthday homie.

 

[djprestige21]

[COLOR=#red]You don't need one, you aren't missing anything other than the appreciation of how amazing it is to be single.[/COLOR]

 

[odog24]

disregard females and aquire currency

 

[jordan novice]

I am living with my folks going to school full time along with two of my other siblings. I also have a part time job in retail, other people would like this job, I don't much care for it. Can't really complain about it though, since a job is a job. Also, I'm a virgin. I don't think I could've just let it happen with anyone. I put myself in this predicament I suppose. I sometimes wish I would've lost it early on in middle school, just to not make such a big deal of it now. Would rather not go get an escort |I

 

[loveofthegame916]

Happy Birthday homes

Really though, stop looking and trying so hard. She'll find you when its your time.

 

[Pathos]

the yuku avatar looks soooo much better than the NT defaults.

 

[b20 eg8]

I am living with my folks going to school full time along with two of my other siblings. I also have a part time job in retail, other people would like this job, I don't much care for it. Can't really complain about it though, since a job is a job. Also, I'm a virgin. I don't think I could've just let it happen with anyone. I put myself in this predicament I suppose. I sometimes wish I would've lost it early on in middle school, just to not make such a big deal of it now. Would rather not go get an escort |I

You need to get all that GF Talk out of here.. it's all BS!

Find yourself a Best Friend that's a female... You get all the benefits of being a relationship minus the sex....BUUUUUUUUT sometimes you get that too.
- Good Looking = Usually having Good Looking Friends.
- She can't like you more than a friend.. If she does she's gonna be you're #1 Hater when it comes to getting at those good looking friends/any girl.

You shouldn't even be thinking about getting an escort unless you're paraplegic or look like the elephant man. ( No Disrespect To Either Kind)
There is plenty of free Vag waiting for you... GO GET IT!

Last word of advice..... The ugly/not so good looking girls do things that the pretty girls wont!

 

[charles schwag]

Are you unattractive? Why didn't you get girls in high school? Why are you not getting laid in college?

How do you go through a 21 year dry spell? You would go the olympics if they had a master vader competition!

Word of advice....try spending less time on on the computer, message boards and forums. i see you have 4,000 posts.

Those 4,000 minutes could of been used gaming up a chick or spending time with a girl....and getting some yambs? Yet you chose to spend 4,000 posts and 4,000 minutes on a forum/message board with people yo dont know..

Be more sociable, be more outgoing, hang out with friends, go to parties, go to clubs and lounges, lose weight, get hair cut, fix your self physically...and stop being a p...and ask a girl out...take initiative and charge...take control....ask a girl out or take a girl on a date...they like assertive and confident men..

I don't know how you can get girls...I seen ugly and fat dudes with dimes....all it takes is the mouthpiece, the g and some schwag...


If you are virgin...your penis must hate you...and you suck at life..

You and that dude that made that thread "I'm going to college and going to lose my virginity at 25" are poor representation of men...you are beta males..

I don't know how dudes go through high school and college and not get ***.....those chicks are so easy..


if all else fails get a call girl and escort...pay for gfe.....most likely you will have to be paying for sex....and paying for women...

Be very careful...because...being "21 and never had a girlfriend" can easily turn into "i'm 30/40 years old and living in my mother's basement".....correct it immediately.

 

[jbpkickz]

Lucky you.

I wish I never had a girlfriend, .

 

[Humbled]

Son.

How in the hell is that possible? You must look like Sam Cassell. Post your pic. No ****.

 

[jordan3cement]

Have a gay birthday homie.

 

[airthompson]

I dnt have anything witty to say OP

Just real talk . . . get some confidence. Ask all the girls you know out, and youll get a yes.

 

[niquefreak94]

ummm. i disagree w/ a lot of y'all in here. first and foremost, if you're smashing then whatever, if you don't want a gf don't get one. but to tell him that gfs are bad in your early 20s is a bit of a generalization. no one wants to be lonely and what not and sometimes you find that person you'll end up with forever early on. just like you shouldn't try really hard to get a gf at this stage, don't listen to the dudes sayin to not get serious w/ any girl at all. if the feelings are there, let it take you wherever it may. just go where the universe takes you man. screw NT advice...except the advice i'm giving.

 

[lil black jean jacket]

**** b***hes get money.

there's still a lot for you to go through but I kind of get it, most on here will get to tell their story to you but it's not going to make a difference on your life nor help you get a girlfriend. You're gonna have to take this one day at a time & reevaluate what means the world to you. Good luck OP

 

[Ofc.Phan]

Have a gay birthday homie.

well damn

 

[h1n1proof]

The only way you'll boost your confidence is by talking to girls. Guaranteed 1 out of 10 will be interested. Don't be scared of rejections and don't assume that every girl that talks to you likes you. Just act as if you don't care

 

[pepperjackchees]

Son.
How in the hell is that possible? You must look like Sam Cassell. Post your pic. No ****.

You sound really immature. How is posting a picture going to accomplish anything? Just because he doesn't have a gf doesn't mean he's ugly. There's lots of people who are too shy to take risks or have other problems in their lives, and that's something that they just have to mentally overcome. 

 

[championboyz7]

I havent gotten yambs nor had a gf since 9th grade and about to start college.im focused on stacking $$$ and let the yambs come to me.**** it

 

[Humbled]

You sound really immature. How is posting a picture going to accomplish anything? Just because he doesn't have a gf doesn't mean he's ugly. There's lots of people who are too shy to take risks or have other problems in their lives, and that's something that they just have to mentally overcome. 

id bet more that hes ugly tho.

 

[jhova718]

Op, first you get the money, then you get the power, then comes the girls.

true strory

 

[jordan novice]

Happy birthday..

Thanks.
Throughout my school years, I was a bit shy. Also, I was somewhat overweight as well growing up, nothing crazy though. Guess that took a toll on me throughout the years. I never thought of myself to be ugly though, I thought I looked decent.

 

[the nomad]

Hi NT. Today is my 21st birthday and I did some thinking. Am I doing something wrong? I don't know how to feel about this.

You actually WANT a girl friend at on your 21st birthday? You're not living right or enough...

 

[the nomad]

Hi NT. Today is my 21st birthday and I did some thinking. Am I doing something wrong? I don't know how to feel about this.

You actually WANT a girlfriend at on your 21st birthday? You're not living right or enough...