I'm about to snap

[T Lo Sweater]

I'm sayin kinfolk, talk to your moms. All that "puttin hands" on people and gangsta **** sound good, but at the end of the day it's still your MOMS husband. Your mom is grown as hell, she can make her own decisions(no matter how bad they might be) and you have to respect it. You don't have to stand for it, but you do have to respect it.

I kinda didn't want to say this but you might have to give her that ultimatum, you or him. If she picks him....sometimes you gotta let leaky boats sink, even the one that got you here. I'm sure, with all you got going on and knowing what going on at home, someone will let you stay with them until you finish school.

I'm about to talk to her in a bit. I think I read it beforehand somewhere here but yeah I'll say that. I got a few family around me so if anythin I could have a place to stay til I finish school that isn't a problem

 

[meek meals]

son...he's already touching you and your family by:
-violating you and your mom in your own house
-treating your mom like a *****.
-not giving a **** about her feelings or well being
-bit giving a **** about yours
-endangering your lives as well as his own

This ***** ain't **** for multiple reasons and you and your mother condone it.

Period.

Both of you are stupid. I hate to say it but I gotta be blunt. Maybe it'll make u wake up.

You're so concerned about your education and career but this ***** is trying his hardest to **** it up and you, YOU SON are allowing him to.

Don't continue to be weak. Ppl like that prey on the weak, hence him wifing your mom.

#fact

You really need to set your mom straight. But not before u beat that ****** ***.

smh in disgust.

Ok and how do I condone it? If I condone it like you say then I wouldn't have said I word to anyone. But is that the case?

If anyone my mom condones it not I. My mom never said A single word to dude until I said something. So if I wasn't in the picture he would continue to do stuff


Like I said already. I went to the guy and told him what needs to be done. If he doesn't comply with that then I will hurt the guy. But I'm not and repeat not going to **** the guy up now. I told him my demands and so far they seem to be met. If he crosses the line then ill retaliate

Call me soft or whatever but that's how I handle this situation and every situation before hand and I never had to beat someone's face in because the person wouldn't cross the line after that

So are you satisfied with the situation you are in at this very moment?

He stopped wearing you beanies and stopped making you call him papi?

 

[lver of jordan]

 

[430AM]

Late as hell to this thread but... I CAN'T BREATHE...

 

[T Lo Sweater]

So are you satisfied with the situation you are in at this very moment?​

He stopped wearing you beanies and stopped making you call him papi?​

No I'm not satisfied I'm still living in a small place with 3 other people. I won't be until we move or until I can get out of here and get my own room somewhere

and you seem to misunderstand what I said. I'm makin dinner in the kitchen and I'm on the phone with someone. He was in there with my mom and as I was leaving he says to my mom that's my son there

 

[debso]

In at work right now but I'll respond when I get home OP. u definitely are allowing the situation to happen. U and your mother.

I know it's hard but u have to stand up and not allow your mother and yourself to live like this. Or at least put up a real effort.

U really need to talk to your mom. Your family should step in IMO. I'll talk about all this a little later.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

I'm in the car with moms and still talking to her but she said she didn't know he was having the **** delivered here. It wasn't until I told her the first time that she got mad. She went to him and told him to stop

When he did it again and I told her she got pissed and called him then he called me and spoke to me. Like I said a few pages back my moms working all day and the guy takes advantage of that. Since she isn't home she doesn't know what he's doing

Moms also said she's on my side here and after I brought it to her attention she went to the guy and told him to stop with it or else he has to get out the house. "Just cause you don't see or hear me talk to him doesn't mean I don't. I didn't know he was doing it and I'm shocked you think you think I'd allow it. Give me more credit than that you know I don't tolerate that stuff in the house."

I told her that since we both spoke to him and if he doesn't listen then I'm punching him in the face and she was cool about it. She said that my complaints are legit and that she would understand if it did because she's just as upset as I am

she even called him and told him again not to do it or else he would have to leave the house

I asked her why she would marry such a young dude she said just to help him out. I don't follow her on that note but the other stuff yeah

 

[sir charles]

Marrying dude just to help him out? That's borderline prostitution is he getting half or what? You could have thrown him a few bucks to help him out. This isn't the 1800s man, you gotta start following your moms

Anyway, use your phones video camera to film him selling and smoking weed. She'll have to believe you and he will be defenseless.

 

[ihavemyownopinion]

Baby Boy was the first thing I thought of when I read OP's story so these references have me dying

 

[T Lo Sweater]

Marrying dude just to help him out? That's borderline prostitution is he getting half or what? You could have thrown him a few bucks to help him out. This isn't the 1800s man, you gotta start following your moms

Anyway, use your phones video camera to film him selling and smoking weed. She'll have to believe you and he will be defenseless.

She does believe me I used my camera to expose him before. Even if I didn't use my phone and just had my word she would believe me anyways. But I don't understand marrying him to "help out" at all

 

[jchambers]

Marrying dude just to help him out? That's borderline prostitution is he getting half or what? You could have thrown him a few bucks to help him out. This isn't the 1800s man, you gotta start following your moms

Anyway, use your phones video camera to film him selling and smoking weed. She'll have to believe you and he will be defenseless.

She does believe me I used my camera to expose him before. Even if I didn't use my phone and just had my word she would believe me anyways. But I don't understand marrying him to "help out" at all

Post the video.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

Post the video.

It was a pic

 

[jchambers]

Post the video.

It was a pic

Post it.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

Just checked dont have it anymore

Just a pic of the box anywats

 

[jchambers]

Just checked dont have it anymore

Just a pic of the box anywats

What did you have a pic of? The postman handing him a box?

 

[T Lo Sweater]

The address label on the box and how it has a fake name. Anthony Johnson or some **** like that. There's no person with that name that lives in my house

 

[thunderchunk69]

The address label on the box and how it has a fake name. Anthony Johnson or some **** like that. There's no person with that name that lives in my house

check the closet

 

[jones23me]

Op it's safe to say that you and your brother are MITCHES..... Im jus sayin, you still online talkin about it and you havent made a move. I wouldnt have even came to a social network with this so called issue. Woulda checked buddy from day 1 or atleast got an understanding b4 he even decided to feel cool enuff to get busy in moms crib.. either way ur a MITCH..

 

[tr1ll]

Op it's safe to say that you and your brother are MITCHES..... Im jus sayin, you still online talkin about it and you havent made a move. I wouldnt have even came to a social network with this so called issue. Woulda checked buddy from day 1 or atleast got an understanding b4 he even decided to feel cool enuff to get busy in moms crib.. either way ur a MITCH..

So your moms let you tell her how to live?

Tell me more.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

Op it's safe to say that you and your brother are MITCHES..... Im jus sayin, you still online talkin about it and you havent made a move. I wouldnt have even came to a social network with this so called issue. Woulda checked buddy from day 1 or atleast got an understanding b4 he even decided to feel cool enuff to get busy in moms crib.. either way ur a MITCH..

Ok and that's how YOU would handle it. Am I you? Cause I don't handle it how you would handle it I'm a "Mitch"

Cause I didn't fight dude from the jump I'm a Mitch

K

 

[jones23me]

noi i didnt say anything about fightn nobody.. i said put it to rest already, take action fam. talk to dude and moms and if they aint hearin it bounce period..

 

[T Lo Sweater]

noi i didnt say anything about fightn nobody.. i said put it to rest already, take action fam. talk to dude and moms and if they aint hearin it bounce period..

I already did. I posted how I spoke to dude. Just posted when I spoke to moms

Read

 

[jones23me]

calm down Op, you new NT'ers sre so sensitive.. i possibly missed that post ill go back read and if i dont like what i read then the title stands. MITCH

 

[T Lo Sweater]

I am calm. You need to chill out and stop assuming stuff when you don't even know the whole story when everything is right in your face. MITCH

 

[jchambers]

I am calm. You need to chill out and stop assuming stuff when you don't even know the whole story when everything is right in your face. MITCH

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