Intervention?

Originally Posted by tmukg21

Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

Originally Posted by StangzNkickz50

lol what? So, I smoke weed; I must be an addict because I have no self control???
I smoke weed just about everyday. I work 40 hours a week and attain a 3.6 GPA while taking 5 classes a semester majoring in Criminal Justice..... I guess I've got pretty good self control to be able to keep my priorities in check while still smoking a natural herb that supposedly is "addictive".
Marijuana is not a drug one becomes addicted to. Their is nothing in marijuana that causes addiction to it.

You could say that you're mentally addicted to it because you have found yourself in the same routines because of it. aka: NO SELF CONTROL.
the first step is admitting it......

you may function better in society but you still an addict


Yeah man...Like totally... I must be addicted to brushin my teeth too cuz I, like, do it everyday man!!! wow! I never thought of that, but, I'm atoothpaste addict!! damn!
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come on now.
 
Originally Posted by StangzNkickz50

I was just trying to answer the OP's question.

X100!!! An intervention for WEED!?!?!? Your boy needs a good wake up call/slap across the face! He's got no self control, and considering he's 27 years old, jobless and living at home with his mom, I take it she supports his $%!... She needs to give him an ultimatum. Get your life on track or ****!!

Dude's life ruined cuz of weed?
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BTW. I know what you're going through cuz I have a buddy that sits at home alll day every day smokin weed and playing video games/gambling poker online. Smartest kid we went to high school with. Had a free ride to UMASS Amherst... Blew it all away. Now all he thinks about is XBOX and Poker while smokin weed all day.... LAZY PEICE OF %%!$ is what I tell him he is.... He tells me he knows he is.

It's all up to the person to get their priorities straight.


All you did was

a) laugh at my friend
b) admit you have a friend who is in the same situation
c) give the most generic and obvious advice one can give on the matter
 
Originally Posted by justhotkicks


MarleysProtege

Didn't you say that you've seen people go in the opposite direction? So how can you say it isn't addicting?
the issue at hand is self control ... not addiction ... if these same people were given 1 million to stop smoking today they would and do iteasily ... if you did that to an "addict" they would try but couldnt without serious help ...
 
Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

Originally Posted by justhotkicks


MarleysProtege

Didn't you say that you've seen people go in the opposite direction? So how can you say it isn't addicting?
the issue at hand is self control ... not addiction ... if these same people were given 1 million to stop smoking today they would and do it easily ... if you did that to an "addict" they would try but couldnt without serious help ...




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Someone's on the right page... And he's smoked...wow.
 
Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

Originally Posted by justhotkicks


MarleysProtege

Didn't you say that you've seen people go in the opposite direction? So how can you say it isn't addicting?
the issue at hand is self control ... not addiction ... if these same people were given 1 million to stop smoking today they would and do it easily ... if you did that to an "addict" they would try but couldnt without serious help ...



I get what you're saying but

a) not all weedheads are the same

and

b) your scenario is unrealistic

It might be obvious that one would give up weed for a million bucks, but that simply does not happen. I can't intervene with a million dollar reward. Ifanything, he had a GREAT life...90k job, a LOT of savings, lived at home (not because he couldn't afford it, but for other noble reasons), his girlfriendwas cool with him living at home. He had the "million dollars", and slowly threw it away.

Also, he has no SELF CONTROL because he's ADDICTED. That's basically it. You can't expect everyone else to operate on your level.
 
with the name Marley as ur SN.. i know u smoke alot of weed... ^..

OFFTOPIC: going to JAMAICA dis SPRING :DDD
 
So, Justhotkicks.... what are you going to do to help your friend ? i assume you already talk to him about his MJ probelm...
 
Originally Posted by LAzianBoi

So, Justhotkicks.... what are you going to do to help your friend ? i assume you already talk to him about his MJ probelm...
I, my friends, his now ex-girlfriend, and mother have all attempted to snap him out of it. It hasn't worked, and he's been like this forover a year. Maybe he's depressed, maybe he needs hypno-therapy, who knows. Without question, he needs help.
 
Theres a deeper rooted problem thats making him smoke weed in the first place. Weed like any other drug is used to escape so really talk use some mind gamesand get him to break down about what really the problem is.
 
Dude MUST be on something else on top of MJ if he's defecating himself. Are you positive he doesn't do any other drugs?

I've never met a "MJ addict", but it sounds pathetic and sad.
 
Originally Posted by justhotkicks

I get what you're saying but

a) not all weedheads are the same

and

b) your scenario is unrealistic

It might be obvious that one would give up weed for a million bucks, but that simply does not happen. I can't intervene with a million dollar reward. If anything, he had a GREAT life...90k job, a LOT of savings, lived at home (not because he couldn't afford it, but for other noble reasons), his girlfriend was cool with him living at home. He had the "million dollars", and slowly threw it away.

Also, he has no SELF CONTROL because he's ADDICTED. That's basically it. You can't expect everyone else to operate on your level.
a) of course not, but thats an entirely different issue altogether ... you have to look at the deeper issue at hand ... why did he feel it was OKto give everything up? maybe its because he has the luxury of an affluent family? maybe the same reason why he is able to keep up with his"addiction" now?

b) million bucks = something they value ... not in a literal sense ... dude may have had "everything in the world" according to you, but not to him... he was looking for something more ...

why cant i expect a relatively intelligent human being to make a conscience decision to stop smoking weed? hes not addicted to weed you cant be addicted toweed ... im telling you you just cant ... you may be able to smoke it everyday because something/someone allows you to, but your friend can put it downtomorrow with no ill effects and go about his day ...

now if this was cocaine or heroin etc... etc... then things would be different ... but if its only weed then this mental "addiction" is simply amatter of him making hi smind up to stop/someone cutting off his source
 
Originally Posted by justhotkicks

Originally Posted by LAzianBoi

So, Justhotkicks.... what are you going to do to help your friend ? i assume you already talk to him about his MJ probelm...
I, my friends, his now ex-girlfriend, and mother have all attempted to snap him out of it. It hasn't worked, and he's been like this for over a year. Maybe he's depressed, maybe he needs hypno-therapy, who knows. Without question, he needs help.
no omo

all i got to say is, i dont know you or anything about you, but my man, you are a good friend. Just the fact that this been happening little bit over a yearnow and you still havent given up on your friend... thats just wow. Most people would of drop him already from there lives. Hope you get him back were he was,dont give up!

in my personal experience... when i had a friend that was an addict.. (wasnt MJ) i cut him off my life.. but thats a long story. Hope urs have happier ending.
 
Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

hes not addicted to weed you cant be addicted to weed ... im telling you you just cant ...
Physically? No. Psychologically? Yes. YOU may be able to go about a day without using, but he can't, and not because of a physical need.I'm not talking about users as a whole, nor is this a legal vs. illegal debate. My friend is at the center of the discussion, so speaking in general termsis of no use.

b) million bucks = something they value ... not in a literal sense ... dude may have had "everything in the world" according to you, but not to him ... he was looking for something more ...

Isn't that what an intervention is?
 
Originally Posted by justhotkicks


This Friday, he called me around 11:30 PM while I was out, saying "dude...I need your help bro..." and started giggling. I was concerned, so I went to his house, and saw him sitting in his room, in his boxers. He defecated and urinated in his pants, and he was so baked that he didn't even know how to clean himself up.
That doesn't sound like weed bruh

Coke or Heroin. Most likely coke.

Maybe somebody laced his weed.
 
Originally Posted by justhotkicks

Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

hes not addicted to weed you cant be addicted to weed ... im telling you you just cant ...
Physically? No. Psychologically? Yes. YOU may be able to go about a day without using, but he can't, and not because of a physical need. I'm not talking about users as a whole, nor is this a legal vs. illegal debate. My friend is at the center of the discussion, so speaking in general terms is of no use.
The dude sounds depressed more than anything... Normal people dont just wanna sit home ALL DAY and smoke weed. Ive only seen/heard that aboutcokeheads.
 
Originally Posted by justhotkicks

Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

hes not addicted to weed you cant be addicted to weed ... im telling you you just cant ...
Physically? No. Psychologically? Yes. YOU may be able to go about a day without using, but he can't, and not because of a physical need. I'm not talking about users as a whole, nor is this a legal vs. illegal debate. My friend is at the center of the discussion, so speaking in general terms is of no use.

b) million bucks = something they value ... not in a literal sense ... dude may have had "everything in the world" according to you, but not to him ... he was looking for something more ...

Isn't that what an intervention is?
youre completely missing my point ... if you snatched your friend up tomorrow, kidnapped and locked him in your room for a day ... hed be fineaside from the "%!+" aspect of it ... if your friend was "addicted" to coke, and you did the same, he wouldnt last without proper care andquite possibly could committ suicide ...

im focusing on the ABILITY of the individual to stop ... alcoholics, heroin addicts. coke addicts etc... all need outside help, they cant just cold turkey itand expect to get better ... your friend needs nothing but a kick in the *** and a want to
 
Still cant over the fact that he *+!* his pants because he smoked too much weed. Something else is going on here.
 
Wow, this is the worst mj related case I've ever heard of. Check your boy man. You might wanna talk to a professional about the best way to help him out.He could be mentally unstable and on a lot of other substances.
 
yo i got the same problem homies....i been an average smoker since turning 18...did it heavely for my 18 19 years and toned it down when i turned 20 to 21started smoking heavel again when i was 22...during that time i had gained 60 pounds and was losing myself in it again...but this new years 09 i flat out andquit im 1 month and 3 days sober...started hitting the gym up again 5 days a week and im feeling great again...one of my close friends that ive know for about10 years is still doing it i been telling him that he needs to quit and he was doing good for about a week...one of my homeboys birthday came up and they askedme to come tru i was like nah gotta rest up and such the next day he tells me that he smoked a blunt, that they kept telling him to smoke it...i was like dog ufailed me i told yo !%% to not smoke." you dont wanna go the same rout that i went on" his responces was that if i was there and i denied the hits hewould have stoped too this is ridiculus
 
Originally Posted by LAzianBoi

with the name Marley as ur SN.. i know u smoke alot of weed... ^..
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i dislike you very much...i hate this assumption

at any rate mj is not addicitive, i used to be a daily smoker toker for awhile, my best way to describe itis its a routine. i carry own my day like anyone else, but i have a few smoke breaks throughout the day. ive also decided to go cold turkey and quit for amonth of so to save some money, as so far so good. im not fiendin at all...but like everyone has said, mj is different for everyone
 
since i knew that i was gunna quit on 09 new years i smoked about 2 blunts all of december by new years i was toe up man i had sum severe weed withdrawels forabout 3 to 4 weeks but i replaced that addiction with running man i run about 3 miles err day that i hit the steam room and im feeling great all that stress irelease it at the gym. all i can say is that i aint never gunna smoke again i know what it does to me and im happy that part of my life is gone
 
Originally Posted by chokeonsmoke

yo i got the same problem homies....i been an average smoker since turning 18...did it heavely for my 18 19 years and toned it down when i turned 20 to 21 started smoking heavel again when i was 22...during that time i had gained 60 pounds and was losing myself in it again...but this new years 09 i flat out and quit im 1 month and 3 days sober...started hitting the gym up again 5 days a week and im feeling great again...one of my close friends that ive know for about 10 years is still doing it i been telling him that he needs to quit and he was doing good for about a week...one of my homeboys birthday came up and they asked me to come tru i was like nah gotta rest up and such the next day he tells me that he smoked a blunt, that they kept telling him to smoke it...i was like dog u failed me i told yo !%% to not smoke." you dont wanna go the same rout that i went on" his responces was that if i was there and i denied the hits he would have stoped too this is ridiculus
You need a new screen name.
 
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