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I think people arguing over the blame game have to think about this for one second. If she doesn't say a word to Belcher, are they both alive today?
The point is, she could have said some ****** up **** to dude. If you read through this thread I was bashing Belcher worse than anyone. Then I started to hear about the type of women that he was dealing with and took a step back.
You come home hungover (your fault), get mad at your girl for being out late (your fault), argue in front of your daughter (both at fault), get told something like "you have a little wiener and i wish Trey Songz got me pregnant instead of you," (her fault), kill her (your fault), kill yourself (your fault).
Obviously, people shouldnt expect someone to kill them over words, but words carry a lot of weight in this world for some reason. If some white dude called a black guy the n-word and the black dude snapped and killed him, some people may see the reason why.
Again, I'm not saying either situation is justified, but I "see the reason why" dude may have snapped. Doesn't change the fact I think he had a uterus for a reproductive organ.
This is so warped to me.
Words.
Gunshots.
I know, "I said neither situation is justified" and "people shouldnt expect someone to kill them over words" but unless it comes out that she threatened his life physically, ALL of the blame is on him. There's no reason why.
By all accounts, dude snapped and went to a place you can't return from by killing her, shooting her MULTIPLE times. That's not some getting heated beyond belief and pulling the trigger without fully thinking. That's a killer, I'm making sure you're dead type action. No way you can convince me otherwise and there's no excuse, justification or thing she could've said unless his or his family's life was truly in danger that matters.
If it was a woman killing a man, it'd be the same way. Shooting someone is serious ******g business and if you can do that without it being absolutely necessary, kill or be killed, that's something inside your head. What she said has nothing to do with it.
I wouldn't give the dude a high five but if he snaps and punches her out of anger instead, that's one thing. Getting a gun and repeatedly firing is next next level.