Let's Talk About Attraction

[kellyrep]

Don't  care for ultra skinny either. When I did online, I felt bad about not responding to men who looked either or. I could never do it though. At least if I was in a relationship and for whatever extreme reason my SO went up or down, I'd love the guy. But upon meeting someone, I cannot.

 

[atlndn]

Personality, I think it holds more weight than almost any other attribute aside from attitude. As long as someone is at the very least decent looking everything else takes a back seat. I just couldn't imagine being in a relationship with a "dime" but she is a total b****. Life is too short. But if it was a "smash and dash" cool.

Its the dimes that always feel like they are entitled to everything. 

 

[blastercombo]

Its the dimes that always feel like they are entitled to everything. 

No its not. It's the new thing to act as if you're too good to be around mere mortals. The whole social scene is full of people that act like fake celeberaties. It's sad

 

[georgescorewell]

Size?

That **** don't mean nothing if his pipe game weak. Just like a dime chick with no sex drive, or sex appeal.

At my age I'm more concerned with women who look reasonably healthy, and also understand the importance of sex in making it work out.

 

[1c3m4m]

Do you like tall dark and handsome, if so im your guy

 

[johnnyredstorm]

pipe print b

 

[georgescorewell]

pipe print b

 

[Sir San Diego]

The whole social scene is full of people that act like fake celeberaties. It's sad

Size?

That **** don't mean nothing if his pipe game weak. Just like a dime chick with no sex drive, or sex appeal.

At my age I'm more concerned with women who look reasonable healthy, and also understand the importance of sex in making it work out.

Repped.

People have lost touch with reality and everything is for likes or the approval of an online audience.

**** all that.

Chicks getting with the "perfect guy" but calling up Mr. Regular with that pipe game because her "impress her friends" man ain't really cutting it.

Lost in the sauce. Gucci Mane speak on it.

 

[SC kid]

"Mr. Regular"

Lol

 

[art vandelay]

Repped.

People have lost touch with reality and everything is for likes or the approval of an online audience.

**** all that.

Chicks getting with the "perfect guy" but calling up Mr. Regular with that pipe game because her "impress her friends" man ain't really cutting it.

Lost in the sauce. Gucci Mane speak on it.

Repped. Sad part about what you said is the girl is trying to impress her friends, and 9 times out of 10 her friends aren't s***. If anything they scheming and plotting on her "perfect guy" while she is getting her back slammed smooth out (Uncle Zel-ism) by "Mr. Regular"

 

[atlndn]

preach

 

[blastercombo]

Repped.

People have lost touch with reality and everything is for likes or the approval of an online audience.

**** all that.

Chicks getting with the "perfect guy" but calling up Mr. Regular with that pipe game because her "impress her friends" man ain't really cutting it.

Lost in the sauce. Gucci Mane speak on it.

Tell people all the time, you can't **** a girl with your wallet and no matter how nice your car is you leave it outside.

 

[tr1ll]

Women steady trying to have their cake and eat it too.

Its like their test in life...

 

[art vandelay]

Tell people all the time, you can't **** a girl with your wallet and no matter house nice your car is you leave it outside.

Bruh said **** a girl with your wallet. Insert Weebay. gif.

 

[blastercombo]

Repped. Sad part about what you said is the girl is trying to impress her friends, and 9 times out of 10 her friends aren't s***. If anything they scheming and plotting on her "perfect guy" while she is getting her back slammed smooth out (Uncle Zel-ism) by "Mr. Regular"

Girls like this smile in public and cry themselves to sleep at night. Pathetically hilarious. Warped their whole lives to fit the mold, rush into a relationship with the guy with money and end up beyond depressed

 

[atlndn]

social media messed women up in the worst way 

 

[flyny]

Kelly what is your race?
If you from NOVA I think it's safe to assume that you a black female that's into white guys? The interracial couples out there are very prominent. Last summer I was down there with my mans taking a trip to Bush Gardens and it seemed that the shorties over there wasn't into brothas

 

[blastercombo]

social media messed women up in the worst way 

Before all of it there were time periods between social events that they at least could cool down and just relax, now it's a constant 24/7 burst of "gotta impress, gotta impress, gotta impress.....". their minds literally can't take it. Not saying all females, just the ones that fall into the category

 

[truballa101]

I see nothing wrong with wanting a partner that values his physique/fitness and just a generally healthy lifestyle.

I feel the same way about chicks that I date.

 

[Mark Antony]

Who is an example of a dad bod?

When I read the description dude posted, I thought Dad bod was like Chuck Liddel range. That's just sloppy.

 

[kellyrep]

Kelly what is your race?
If you from NOVA I think it's safe to assume that you a black female that's into white guys? The interracial couples out there are very prominent. Last summer I was down there with my mans taking a trip to Bush Gardens and it seemed that the shorties over there wasn't into brothas

No. Can I ask why would you assume that?  I don't know who those girls were but based off of my crowd, we actually never meet black men. Even online , I mostly saw white , Spanish, and Asian in the area and those were 98% of my inbox.  Oh, I ended up not feeling attracted to any of them enough to take it anywhere.

I don't care about race. I want to feel chemistry. If I don't feel motivated enough to go see a person , I don't even bother.  So I guess, I haven't found the right personality for me either.

 It could be a number of things. They could have already had boyfriends. You shouldn't assume things like that unless they tell you. If they did , it's pretty ignorant.

 

[Chiron]

 
Maybe you've heard the recent jokes and comedic essays about "Dad" Bod. As I get older I'm more willing to settle before my looks fade.

I'm in my 20s with absolutely no ambition (and no pics). I will be on my own and when the time comes buy my own home. So I care about money. This hasn't changed about any woman. As far as income and education, I don't correlate that to intelligence or making a good income (I know too many naturally smart men without a degree who make bank) . I used to date anyone until I got more self esteem, and the type of men I am attracted to. Culture is still a big deal and so is fitness like everyone else.

I know it's super shallow because even if he owns a successful business, no baggage, my age, and nice , there ends up being no spark because I can't look past his size. I end up having zero attraction meaning zero interest in sex.

I used to think it was mostly men who objectified women but I'm one of those women who needs to objectify as well. This only works if you are going to be honest. I honestly just need some good D.

Fix'd

 

 

[flyny]

No. Can I ask why would you assume that?  I don't know who those girls were but based off of my crowd, we actually never meet black men. Even online , I mostly saw white , Spanish, and Asian in the area and those were 98% of my inbox.  Oh, I ended up not feeling attracted to any of them enough to take it anywhere.

I don't care about race. I want to feel chemistry. If I don't feel motivated enough to go see a person , I don't even bother.  So I guess, I haven't found the right personality for me either.


 It could be a number of things. They could have already had boyfriends. You shouldn't assume things like that unless they tell you. If they did , it's pretty ignorant.

Not talking about online though, talking about real life. I know nothing about online dating. I'm more of a "in the physical form" person.

I actually spoke to 2 black females from NOVA (casual convo) and they said that the white guys in the area are more "appealing to them than the Black guys in the area". you could tell they were raised a certain way though

 

[Mark Antony]

No. Can I ask why would you assume that?  I don't know who those girls were but based off of my crowd, we actually never meet black men. Even online , I mostly saw white , Spanish, and Asian in the area and those were 98% of my inbox.  Oh, I ended up not feeling attracted to any of them enough to take it anywhere.

I don't care about race. I want to feel chemistry. If I don't feel motivated enough to go see a person , I don't even bother.  So I guess, I haven't found the right personality for me either.


 It could be a number of things. They could have already had boyfriends. You shouldn't assume things like that unless they tell you. If they did , it's pretty ignorant.

Not talking about online though, talking about real life. I know nothing about online dating. I'm more of a "in the physical form" person.

I actually spoke to 2 black females from NOVA (casual convo) and they said that the white guys in the area are more "appealing to them than the Black guys in the area". you could tell they were raised a certain way though

NOVA raised black guys tend to be lame as **** unless they're from certain parts like Alexandria, nawmean? there's a certain swagger missing whereas a white dude from that area is all about it. The black chicks are real preppy though.

 

[kellyrep]

 
Fix'd

 

Question.

Do you have a "Dad" bod and is this why you are offended?

I have two friends and one guy trying to get with one of them.  The one he was pursuing can't stand him. The other likes him but she probably has too much baggage for him to reciprocate (divorcing, one kid). The first hates his body, feels he's out of shape. He tried to join her exercise class and she made fun of how little endurance he has. She goes to the gym 4 to 5 times a week. It's her release. It's important to her.

The girl who actually likes him could care less about the gym. She has a nice physique but  doesn't care about classes and  working out etc. She actually likes his body because she says bigger men are better in bed, softer to cuddle with...she just likes it.

Why does either woman have to be wrong? Which, if that is your interpretation , that I think body type of wrong, that isn't what I'm saying. A fit person turns me on more. I enjoy being out and doing things.  I like running and climbing walls. If I'm intimate with an athletic person, I like it more. I prefer that than to say..."I am with my boyfriend despite his size/ weight."