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Originally Posted by megatron
Use money from the joint account, tell her to deal with it. There is NO REASON why you should have to use your own money in this situation.
megatron wrote:
Use money from the joint account, tell her to deal with it. There is NO REASON why you should have to use your own money in this situation.
now i get the meaning of nb4megatronon another note Op do what megatron said
Originally Posted by 4wrestling
Your relationship sounds extremely superficial and materialistic.
Originally Posted by ironman78
I am married with 1 Kid. My wife and I have our own jobs and the income goes to our joint account. Last year my wife gave me an Ipad2 for my birthday. She took the money out of OUR account. Don't get me wrong I loved the gift, though of course it made me cringe a bit because after all, it was taken from OUR account. Remind you guys, we're not rich, we just have regular paying jobs. For me, a shirt or shoes the most.. I am more than happy.
Here's the issue.. Her Birthday is coming up. Being a guy who grew up poor, I learned how to make money from the little stuff like buy and sell, ebay, fixing computers.. so my wife knows I make money sometimes on the side. So as I have said her birthday is coming up.. SHE NOW EXPECTS ME, to equal if not exceed the value of her gift to me last year. And add THIS.. I cannot take any money from our account because she WANTS me to get if from the money I make on the side.. Which definitely cannot afford that. Can you enlighten me guys on how to handle this?! And if I come up with a horrible gift.. Well, If you are married.. you know what happens.
Originally Posted by ATLien Seeko
Sounds like a preexisting problem. She doesnt respect you.
Originally Posted by horchata kid
Repackage the ipad, give it to her
Can you enlighten me guys on how to handle this?!
Man put your foot down champ. Your the MAN in the relationship, remember that. If she doesn't like that then tell her that's too bad. You have to and a long time ago SHOULD have put her in her place and taken more control in your relationship and marriage. Now's the time to correct these problems and issues.