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Just wrote up this whole post and yuku deleted it on me. Let's try this again.
Alright... here is my situation.
I'm single, uncommitted, and work out of town - two weeks out, one week in.
When I'm home for that one week I want to see my friends, enjoy my free time, and of course get it in a few times.
There is this one girl. We've been talking for about four months now... but have only kicked it about seven times.
Each time was awesome. She's an incredible person - and if I was looking for a girlfriend, she'd be a great candidate.
But I'm not looking for a girl friend, and I've told her this numerous times. The issue here is that females think they can sway a man, It's not going to happen - I enjoy my freedom.
So, despite telling her like it is, I feel as though I may be indirectly leading her on. I'm not looking to break any hearts here..... I just want to hang out with a female, smash, enjoy eachothers company, have good conversation, etc.
During my current days off we decided to hang out on Monday (today). We were probably gonna go for dinner, go for a walk, and then smash all night. That would have been ideal.
Then she throws this my way.
What do?
She KNOWS I'm not looking for a relationship.... so why am I meeting the famb?
I've met a few of her friends, because I'm a social dude... but this is another step in the wrong direction.
Am I digging myself a hole here? Should I just stop kicking it all together? Should I just tell her I dont want to meet her dad and remind her what the deal is?
CLIFFS:
-Dont want a relationship
-Hanging with awesome chick
-She wants me to meet her dad/family
-I'm worried things are getting too far
-Not looking to be a heart breaker
-Seems like she put a ring on herself and wrote from brettthejett
Alright... here is my situation.
I'm single, uncommitted, and work out of town - two weeks out, one week in.
When I'm home for that one week I want to see my friends, enjoy my free time, and of course get it in a few times.
There is this one girl. We've been talking for about four months now... but have only kicked it about seven times.
Each time was awesome. She's an incredible person - and if I was looking for a girlfriend, she'd be a great candidate.
But I'm not looking for a girl friend, and I've told her this numerous times. The issue here is that females think they can sway a man, It's not going to happen - I enjoy my freedom.
So, despite telling her like it is, I feel as though I may be indirectly leading her on. I'm not looking to break any hearts here..... I just want to hang out with a female, smash, enjoy eachothers company, have good conversation, etc.
During my current days off we decided to hang out on Monday (today). We were probably gonna go for dinner, go for a walk, and then smash all night. That would have been ideal.
Then she throws this my way.
My dad is here from out of town and wants to get together this week. If you're up for it I'd like for him to meet you! We cna meet him for dinner tonight or tomorrow. If you don't want to it's cool.
What do?
She KNOWS I'm not looking for a relationship.... so why am I meeting the famb?
I've met a few of her friends, because I'm a social dude... but this is another step in the wrong direction.
Am I digging myself a hole here? Should I just stop kicking it all together? Should I just tell her I dont want to meet her dad and remind her what the deal is?
CLIFFS:
-Dont want a relationship
-Hanging with awesome chick
-She wants me to meet her dad/family
-I'm worried things are getting too far
-Not looking to be a heart breaker
-Seems like she put a ring on herself and wrote from brettthejett