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Originally Posted by Chosen One
I lol'd that it had a spiky area for the backside.Originally Posted by Retro23J
those belts
"Spikes...oh aight well lets just flip you and..
my daughter starts HS tomorrow, anybody else in my shoes... vol. chastity belt .....
"Spikes...oh aight well lets just flip you and..
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Originally Posted by scshift
Originally Posted by whyhellothere
Originally Posted by onewearz
u obviously don't have kids. talk to me when your daughter is 14 and let me know if you cool with just laying back and not stressing that someones gonna " smash " that . lmk how easy it is to hand her over some condoms
i hear what your saying and believe me if it happens i pray shes smart enough to protect herself buit right now i can deal with the though, i'm actually breathing heavy writing this
my man scshift is one of the hs dudes you should be watching out for
I'm still a virgin, forgot?I'm like the anti-thesis to OP's entire post
As for your point, OP... one, weren't you in high school also? I'm sure at one point you've wanted to smash some girls... might have even felt like it was awesome, and now you can see the change in mindset. I'm not saying this is you, but most men try to smash a bunch of females at some point in their life, so you should be able to emphasize with these said high schoolers.
And you missed the point of my post. She is going to lose her virginity sooner or later and really you're stressing over something you shouldn't be. Don't let something that will happen make you unhappy. Instead of fearing that she let's someone smash, trust her in that she's smart enough to wait until she's comfortable and she is responsible. Are you really expecting that she'll stay a virgin throughout high school? In the unlikely event that any girl does, what's going to happen when she goes to college?
And you're right, I don't have kids, and I don't want any. I'm only in high school, and no, I'm not thirsty at all.
I hear u on all that but trust me there ain't one dad on here that understanding with their daughter
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She dropping them panties real soon, beleeeee dat
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shes done. just let her be. accept reality.
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Originally Posted by whyhellothere
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Damn man, I cant even imagine.
Good luck fam.
Good luck fam.
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No, man.
Those girls were the easiest to smash in HS
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Good luck, and God Bless I'ma throw a prayer for all you fathers in this predicament
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Funny cause my daughter wanted to go to mt st Ursula and the first thing that popped in my head was that sex tape
Deaded that @!#$ real quick
Deaded that @!#$ real quick
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Tell her all guys are nothing but horny creatures that are only after one thing, then proceed to show her examples of all the threads on NT.
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Be extra vigilant about mood changes or anything like that. Like someone mentioned earlier, they are with their friends or at school for a lot more than they're with you. And you'll have to resign yourself to the fact that you can't police every part of their life.
Just as a small anecdote, I was having a discussion with my 11th graders concerning The Crucible. I asked them to raise their hands if one of their friends has cheated on someone or been cheated on. 95% of the class raised their hand. I asked if one of their close friends have had their relationship/sex life put on blast on the internet. about 60% raised their hands. I teach at a decent public school in Daly City, CA, so I'd hate to think of what it could be like with a student body that isn't as chill.
Just equip your daughter with common sense and attention. Ask her how life is treating her. I'm sure you've already done a great job leading up to this point.
Just as a small anecdote, I was having a discussion with my 11th graders concerning The Crucible. I asked them to raise their hands if one of their friends has cheated on someone or been cheated on. 95% of the class raised their hand. I asked if one of their close friends have had their relationship/sex life put on blast on the internet. about 60% raised their hands. I teach at a decent public school in Daly City, CA, so I'd hate to think of what it could be like with a student body that isn't as chill.
Just equip your daughter with common sense and attention. Ask her how life is treating her. I'm sure you've already done a great job leading up to this point.
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^You wouldnt happen to teach at Jefferson High would you? That's the only Daly City school I can think of...
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^ close. WHS.
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yea i feel ur pain had a boy follow/walk her from school. i bout flipped, but i suggest get her a cell, and pepper spray, plus it doesnt hurt my girl has close to 10 yrs exp. in taekwondoe.
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Good luck bro. Having a daughter is my worst nightmare.
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you could be telling your son to bag OP's daughter.
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that is the problem. It shouldn't be awkward at all.Originally Posted by onewearz
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
she'll be alright
if you been a positive presence in her life i'm sure you raised her to respect herself
she will have sex at some point in her life and you can't control that but if you did your job she'll be straight
day before i started HS my dad sat me down and was like "don't do drugs, don't hop into the car w/anyone, and don't listen to any boys cuz they just wanna get in your pants"
that was the closest thing to a sex talk he ever had w/me
oh man i tried having that talk with her the other night and we both couldn't stop laughing at how awkward it was , %%@% was rough
i swear i can see my goatee getting grayer by the minute
Just educate her and tell her to use protection, its bound to happen.
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that is the problem. It shouldn't be awkward at all.
Just educate her and tell her to use protection, its bound to happen.
why would it not be awkward dude?
how old are you?
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Originally Posted by scshift
Originally Posted by whyhellothere
Originally Posted by onewearz
u obviously don't have kids. talk to me when your daughter is 14 and let me know if you cool with just laying back and not stressing that someones gonna " smash " that . lmk how easy it is to hand her over some condoms
i hear what your saying and believe me if it happens i pray shes smart enough to protect herself buit right now i can deal with the though, i'm actually breathing heavy writing this
my man scshift is one of the hs dudes you should be watching out for
I'm still a virgin, forgot?I'm like the anti-thesis to OP's entire post
As for your point, OP... one, weren't you in high school also? I'm sure at one point you've wanted to smash some girls... might have even felt like it was awesome, and now you can see the change in mindset. I'm not saying this is you, but most men try to smash a bunch of females at some point in their life, so you should be able to emphasize with these said high schoolers.
And you missed the point of my post. She is going to lose her virginity sooner or later and really you're stressing over something you shouldn't be. Don't let something that will happen make you unhappy. Instead of fearing that she let's someone smash, trust her in that she's smart enough to wait until she's comfortable and she is responsible. Are you really expecting that she'll stay a virgin throughout high school? In the unlikely event that any girl does, what's going to happen when she goes to college?
And you're right, I don't have kids, and I don't want any. I'm only in high school, and no, I'm not thirsty at all.
why would it not be awkward dude?
how old are you?
16 if it matters. It shouldn't be awkward at any age. I give OP props for talking to her.
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You should just get her on birth control now
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It def matters. You and schift shouldn't be giving someone 20 years your senior advice.
And you're really showing your naivete with 'it shouldn't be awkward at any age.'
How the hell would you know?
You guys are showing your teen - ness by looking at it from your point of view. Look at it from the father's.
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But OP, just talk to her about it.
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Originally Posted by Retro23J
Originally Posted by Chosen One
I lol'd that it had a spiky area for the backside.Originally Posted by Retro23J
those beltsword in case a dude gets that far and desperate.
"Spikes...oh aight well lets just flip you and.."