weekz
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- May 27, 2011
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^^^^^^^^^^^^
thanks for the support
thanks for the support
- Jun 1, 2009
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Who knows, maybe those white chicks just dont like brothers. Just keep your head up and be straight forward with what you want.
- Jun 1, 2009
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Who knows, maybe those white chicks just dont like brothers. Just keep your head up and be straight forward with what you want.
- May 25, 2008
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Be yourself, be considerate. Listen, say what your thinking. When you get past that point and get some digits, don't be pushy, text and call sporadically, look for and listen for signs that she's interested. Take her out, treat her like a lady.
Once your past all that, come back to us.
Once your past all that, come back to us.
- May 25, 2008
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Be yourself, be considerate. Listen, say what your thinking. When you get past that point and get some digits, don't be pushy, text and call sporadically, look for and listen for signs that she's interested. Take her out, treat her like a lady.
Once your past all that, come back to us.
Once your past all that, come back to us.
- Feb 5, 2011
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My dude, are you glasses shaded?
- Feb 5, 2011
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My dude, are you glasses shaded?
- Apr 21, 2004
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- Apr 21, 2004
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- Jul 31, 2007
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have a decent clothing style.
go to the gym or get yourself a home gym set to work out more, it does build confidence and you'll feel less shy to talk to girls.
also if you're into drama or acting, try joining a quick improv course. i read that it helps you with communication skills and thinking of stuff to talk about, and females like a guy that can be funny on the spot.
talk to many girls, ugly or decent to get better at talking to them in general.
stay unattached to them, dont feel hasty or panic if she doesn't hit you back with a text right away or it seems she dropped you. have the "oh well she aint feeling me, moving on" attitude at all times. you'll save yourself unnecessary depression.
make yourself someone worth liking, like be the different guy who reaches out and helps the community a bit (volunteer and help others out often stuff). females like altruism and it gives them the sense that you have your own life to live. they'll be more interested to find out more about you and bring up subjects to talk about.
go to the gym or get yourself a home gym set to work out more, it does build confidence and you'll feel less shy to talk to girls.
also if you're into drama or acting, try joining a quick improv course. i read that it helps you with communication skills and thinking of stuff to talk about, and females like a guy that can be funny on the spot.
talk to many girls, ugly or decent to get better at talking to them in general.
stay unattached to them, dont feel hasty or panic if she doesn't hit you back with a text right away or it seems she dropped you. have the "oh well she aint feeling me, moving on" attitude at all times. you'll save yourself unnecessary depression.
make yourself someone worth liking, like be the different guy who reaches out and helps the community a bit (volunteer and help others out often stuff). females like altruism and it gives them the sense that you have your own life to live. they'll be more interested to find out more about you and bring up subjects to talk about.
- Jul 31, 2007
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have a decent clothing style.
go to the gym or get yourself a home gym set to work out more, it does build confidence and you'll feel less shy to talk to girls.
also if you're into drama or acting, try joining a quick improv course. i read that it helps you with communication skills and thinking of stuff to talk about, and females like a guy that can be funny on the spot.
talk to many girls, ugly or decent to get better at talking to them in general.
stay unattached to them, dont feel hasty or panic if she doesn't hit you back with a text right away or it seems she dropped you. have the "oh well she aint feeling me, moving on" attitude at all times. you'll save yourself unnecessary depression.
make yourself someone worth liking, like be the different guy who reaches out and helps the community a bit (volunteer and help others out often stuff). females like altruism and it gives them the sense that you have your own life to live. they'll be more interested to find out more about you and bring up subjects to talk about.
go to the gym or get yourself a home gym set to work out more, it does build confidence and you'll feel less shy to talk to girls.
also if you're into drama or acting, try joining a quick improv course. i read that it helps you with communication skills and thinking of stuff to talk about, and females like a guy that can be funny on the spot.
talk to many girls, ugly or decent to get better at talking to them in general.
stay unattached to them, dont feel hasty or panic if she doesn't hit you back with a text right away or it seems she dropped you. have the "oh well she aint feeling me, moving on" attitude at all times. you'll save yourself unnecessary depression.
make yourself someone worth liking, like be the different guy who reaches out and helps the community a bit (volunteer and help others out often stuff). females like altruism and it gives them the sense that you have your own life to live. they'll be more interested to find out more about you and bring up subjects to talk about.
heatpinoyboy
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- Aug 7, 2008
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I like the suggestion to work out more, it definitely builds confidence which should turn into charisma. Just don't turn into an egotistical maniac
Try and play it cool the worst thing that can happen is a "no" and that really is nothing to sweat over; keep it moving. Confidence plays a huge role when talk to broads and you should always avoid being timid.
heatpinoyboy
Supporter
- Aug 7, 2008
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I like the suggestion to work out more, it definitely builds confidence which should turn into charisma. Just don't turn into an egotistical maniac
Try and play it cool the worst thing that can happen is a "no" and that really is nothing to sweat over; keep it moving. Confidence plays a huge role when talk to broads and you should always avoid being timid.
- Aug 24, 2009
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Originally Posted by Capricorn1229
I want to know this as well.
Those are sunglasses. Reflective ones kinda like Matrix style
- Aug 24, 2009
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Originally Posted by Capricorn1229
I want to know this as well.
Those are sunglasses. Reflective ones kinda like Matrix style
- Apr 4, 2008
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Confidence is all you need, everything else just follows. Seriously.
This is what I want you to do, sit down on the floor in your room, backyard, wherever it's quiet and relaxing and just look back on why you got friendzoned so many times (there's always a recurring theme) and then take that reason and say @*+! it, I'm never letting that happen again. Next, start realizing that you're that dude and no matter what happens to you or what someone says, it doesn't mean !#+% unless it's positive (if it is negative, though, look at it as a student and think about how you could flip it so no $#*+@@%*@@%! could ever say that to you again). Thirdly, walk around with your back straight (good posture and body language is 1a, real talk) and your chest out and rock that grin slash smirk that says "yeah, I'm that dude."
Once you got all that situated and you're only thinking positively (remove all negative and frivolous thoughts from your mind--if you catch yourself thinking about something negatively, no matter how futile, stop yourself and say chill and flip it into something positive (see the positivity and beauty in everything, including death and rejection since that gives you a better idea on what girls you should go after and how you should do it)) go up to a girl and just say "hey, cute blank" (you wanna mention something simple that most dudes would overlook like nail polish, shoes, earrings, eyelashes--in the case of eyelashes tell her she has lovely ones) and keep it moving if she gives you a brief response, however, you're gonna have to walk past her and gently touch her arm (when you're ready and in a better environment this'll be a light lovehandle squeeze), and while you're walking away turn back to see if she turns to look at you and if she does either smile or wink with that swag grin that you're gonna have.
Now, when talking to girls always remember this, being concise and cute is all you need. Don't try and pull the conversation your way, keep it to about her and include little bits of your personal self in there that play off the things she says so that way she gets a sense of what you're about. Also, speak and text confidently, don't say things like I think or maybe we could hang out; put yourself in charge when it comes to stuff like that and be assertive but not demanding, ie: we should hang out, you should come over, etc.
There's probably some more I could say, but right now you don't need to have your mind blown. Just focus on getting your confidence and swag up and approaching girls with little tidbits that have potential of spawning some beastly conversation.
Oh yeah and if you're hanging out with a girl you like, make a move early in the relationship so she knows you're interested in her. That move doesn't have to be kissing her the first time you're together, but maintain simple physical contact (I forgot to mention this before, but always always always look into a girl's eyes when you're talking and occasionally glance away at the sky or just to the right or left of her and dart your attention back to those globes). If she's sitting down in front of you, run your fingers slowly along the side of her calves (don't venture higher than two inches above the knees unless you've had a really good hook up), rub your thumbs gently along the inside of her knees, etc. When greeting girls from now on give them the light lovehandle squeeze and hugging always place your hands on her lower back (when walking past girls in semi-crowded areas, place your hand on her lower back and you could look back to the do the smile slash wink if you want, but don't do it every time, only with those girls that have really lovely smiles).
Get it in, bro.
One last thing, never ever ever ask a girl for her name. Always introduce yourself first (just say I'm blank btw) and she'll tell you hers.
This is what I want you to do, sit down on the floor in your room, backyard, wherever it's quiet and relaxing and just look back on why you got friendzoned so many times (there's always a recurring theme) and then take that reason and say @*+! it, I'm never letting that happen again. Next, start realizing that you're that dude and no matter what happens to you or what someone says, it doesn't mean !#+% unless it's positive (if it is negative, though, look at it as a student and think about how you could flip it so no $#*+@@%*@@%! could ever say that to you again). Thirdly, walk around with your back straight (good posture and body language is 1a, real talk) and your chest out and rock that grin slash smirk that says "yeah, I'm that dude."
Once you got all that situated and you're only thinking positively (remove all negative and frivolous thoughts from your mind--if you catch yourself thinking about something negatively, no matter how futile, stop yourself and say chill and flip it into something positive (see the positivity and beauty in everything, including death and rejection since that gives you a better idea on what girls you should go after and how you should do it)) go up to a girl and just say "hey, cute blank" (you wanna mention something simple that most dudes would overlook like nail polish, shoes, earrings, eyelashes--in the case of eyelashes tell her she has lovely ones) and keep it moving if she gives you a brief response, however, you're gonna have to walk past her and gently touch her arm (when you're ready and in a better environment this'll be a light lovehandle squeeze), and while you're walking away turn back to see if she turns to look at you and if she does either smile or wink with that swag grin that you're gonna have.
Now, when talking to girls always remember this, being concise and cute is all you need. Don't try and pull the conversation your way, keep it to about her and include little bits of your personal self in there that play off the things she says so that way she gets a sense of what you're about. Also, speak and text confidently, don't say things like I think or maybe we could hang out; put yourself in charge when it comes to stuff like that and be assertive but not demanding, ie: we should hang out, you should come over, etc.
There's probably some more I could say, but right now you don't need to have your mind blown. Just focus on getting your confidence and swag up and approaching girls with little tidbits that have potential of spawning some beastly conversation.
Oh yeah and if you're hanging out with a girl you like, make a move early in the relationship so she knows you're interested in her. That move doesn't have to be kissing her the first time you're together, but maintain simple physical contact (I forgot to mention this before, but always always always look into a girl's eyes when you're talking and occasionally glance away at the sky or just to the right or left of her and dart your attention back to those globes). If she's sitting down in front of you, run your fingers slowly along the side of her calves (don't venture higher than two inches above the knees unless you've had a really good hook up), rub your thumbs gently along the inside of her knees, etc. When greeting girls from now on give them the light lovehandle squeeze and hugging always place your hands on her lower back (when walking past girls in semi-crowded areas, place your hand on her lower back and you could look back to the do the smile slash wink if you want, but don't do it every time, only with those girls that have really lovely smiles).
Get it in, bro.
One last thing, never ever ever ask a girl for her name. Always introduce yourself first (just say I'm blank btw) and she'll tell you hers.
- Apr 4, 2008
- 75,477
- 24,918
Confidence is all you need, everything else just follows. Seriously.
This is what I want you to do, sit down on the floor in your room, backyard, wherever it's quiet and relaxing and just look back on why you got friendzoned so many times (there's always a recurring theme) and then take that reason and say @*+! it, I'm never letting that happen again. Next, start realizing that you're that dude and no matter what happens to you or what someone says, it doesn't mean !#+% unless it's positive (if it is negative, though, look at it as a student and think about how you could flip it so no $#*+@@%*@@%! could ever say that to you again). Thirdly, walk around with your back straight (good posture and body language is 1a, real talk) and your chest out and rock that grin slash smirk that says "yeah, I'm that dude."
Once you got all that situated and you're only thinking positively (remove all negative and frivolous thoughts from your mind--if you catch yourself thinking about something negatively, no matter how futile, stop yourself and say chill and flip it into something positive (see the positivity and beauty in everything, including death and rejection since that gives you a better idea on what girls you should go after and how you should do it)) go up to a girl and just say "hey, cute blank" (you wanna mention something simple that most dudes would overlook like nail polish, shoes, earrings, eyelashes--in the case of eyelashes tell her she has lovely ones) and keep it moving if she gives you a brief response, however, you're gonna have to walk past her and gently touch her arm (when you're ready and in a better environment this'll be a light lovehandle squeeze), and while you're walking away turn back to see if she turns to look at you and if she does either smile or wink with that swag grin that you're gonna have.
Now, when talking to girls always remember this, being concise and cute is all you need. Don't try and pull the conversation your way, keep it to about her and include little bits of your personal self in there that play off the things she says so that way she gets a sense of what you're about. Also, speak and text confidently, don't say things like I think or maybe we could hang out; put yourself in charge when it comes to stuff like that and be assertive but not demanding, ie: we should hang out, you should come over, etc.
There's probably some more I could say, but right now you don't need to have your mind blown. Just focus on getting your confidence and swag up and approaching girls with little tidbits that have potential of spawning some beastly conversation.
Oh yeah and if you're hanging out with a girl you like, make a move early in the relationship so she knows you're interested in her. That move doesn't have to be kissing her the first time you're together, but maintain simple physical contact (I forgot to mention this before, but always always always look into a girl's eyes when you're talking and occasionally glance away at the sky or just to the right or left of her and dart your attention back to those globes). If she's sitting down in front of you, run your fingers slowly along the side of her calves (don't venture higher than two inches above the knees unless you've had a really good hook up), rub your thumbs gently along the inside of her knees, etc. When greeting girls from now on give them the light lovehandle squeeze and hugging always place your hands on her lower back (when walking past girls in semi-crowded areas, place your hand on her lower back and you could look back to the do the smile slash wink if you want, but don't do it every time, only with those girls that have really lovely smiles).
Get it in, bro.
One last thing, never ever ever ask a girl for her name. Always introduce yourself first (just say I'm blank btw) and she'll tell you hers.
This is what I want you to do, sit down on the floor in your room, backyard, wherever it's quiet and relaxing and just look back on why you got friendzoned so many times (there's always a recurring theme) and then take that reason and say @*+! it, I'm never letting that happen again. Next, start realizing that you're that dude and no matter what happens to you or what someone says, it doesn't mean !#+% unless it's positive (if it is negative, though, look at it as a student and think about how you could flip it so no $#*+@@%*@@%! could ever say that to you again). Thirdly, walk around with your back straight (good posture and body language is 1a, real talk) and your chest out and rock that grin slash smirk that says "yeah, I'm that dude."
Once you got all that situated and you're only thinking positively (remove all negative and frivolous thoughts from your mind--if you catch yourself thinking about something negatively, no matter how futile, stop yourself and say chill and flip it into something positive (see the positivity and beauty in everything, including death and rejection since that gives you a better idea on what girls you should go after and how you should do it)) go up to a girl and just say "hey, cute blank" (you wanna mention something simple that most dudes would overlook like nail polish, shoes, earrings, eyelashes--in the case of eyelashes tell her she has lovely ones) and keep it moving if she gives you a brief response, however, you're gonna have to walk past her and gently touch her arm (when you're ready and in a better environment this'll be a light lovehandle squeeze), and while you're walking away turn back to see if she turns to look at you and if she does either smile or wink with that swag grin that you're gonna have.
Now, when talking to girls always remember this, being concise and cute is all you need. Don't try and pull the conversation your way, keep it to about her and include little bits of your personal self in there that play off the things she says so that way she gets a sense of what you're about. Also, speak and text confidently, don't say things like I think or maybe we could hang out; put yourself in charge when it comes to stuff like that and be assertive but not demanding, ie: we should hang out, you should come over, etc.
There's probably some more I could say, but right now you don't need to have your mind blown. Just focus on getting your confidence and swag up and approaching girls with little tidbits that have potential of spawning some beastly conversation.
Oh yeah and if you're hanging out with a girl you like, make a move early in the relationship so she knows you're interested in her. That move doesn't have to be kissing her the first time you're together, but maintain simple physical contact (I forgot to mention this before, but always always always look into a girl's eyes when you're talking and occasionally glance away at the sky or just to the right or left of her and dart your attention back to those globes). If she's sitting down in front of you, run your fingers slowly along the side of her calves (don't venture higher than two inches above the knees unless you've had a really good hook up), rub your thumbs gently along the inside of her knees, etc. When greeting girls from now on give them the light lovehandle squeeze and hugging always place your hands on her lower back (when walking past girls in semi-crowded areas, place your hand on her lower back and you could look back to the do the smile slash wink if you want, but don't do it every time, only with those girls that have really lovely smiles).
Get it in, bro.
One last thing, never ever ever ask a girl for her name. Always introduce yourself first (just say I'm blank btw) and she'll tell you hers.
- Oct 23, 2003
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just hit em w/ something that'll make em smile/laugh.. that makes em more comfortable around you.. really its no trick, be who u are and dont approach em so seriously,.. most girls are easy going and down to chat but to some that arent,, well u just gotta keep it movin.. not erry1 will b ^&*& you, you know.. lol
- Oct 23, 2003
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just hit em w/ something that'll make em smile/laugh.. that makes em more comfortable around you.. really its no trick, be who u are and dont approach em so seriously,.. most girls are easy going and down to chat but to some that arent,, well u just gotta keep it movin.. not erry1 will b ^&*& you, you know.. lol
- Apr 23, 2007
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You just gotta man up and talk, once you pull the first Jumpoff the confidence will grow.
- Apr 23, 2007
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You just gotta man up and talk, once you pull the first Jumpoff the confidence will grow.
- Oct 6, 2009
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Originally Posted by Weekz
The other day i saw the Post Your Girl thread. And started thinking.. when am i gonna get my +*#! together and find me gf at least a JO.
Im still in high school, 17, still young n all but to be honest I have nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo skills. none. i can talk to girls that i kno (thus already in the friendzone) but at parties or places where there are good lookin girls my age, i cant chat up even the ugliest girl(i also am really bad when doing things under the gaze of others)
help? how do i boost my confidence enought to talk to the biddies?
Dude just be you and let things flow. Your thinking/rationalizing/over anylizing things to much. Trueness and sincerity will always prevail. dont try any games lame come on lines. Cofidence just has to ellude and ooze out of your pours.
- Oct 6, 2009
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Originally Posted by Weekz
The other day i saw the Post Your Girl thread. And started thinking.. when am i gonna get my +*#! together and find me gf at least a JO.
Im still in high school, 17, still young n all but to be honest I have nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo skills. none. i can talk to girls that i kno (thus already in the friendzone) but at parties or places where there are good lookin girls my age, i cant chat up even the ugliest girl(i also am really bad when doing things under the gaze of others)
help? how do i boost my confidence enought to talk to the biddies?
Dude just be you and let things flow. Your thinking/rationalizing/over anylizing things to much. Trueness and sincerity will always prevail. dont try any games lame come on lines. Cofidence just has to ellude and ooze out of your pours.
- Oct 6, 2009
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Originally Posted by freshKRN
Originally Posted by Weekz
cant even believe im doin this......Originally Posted by kilojules64
*facepalm*
Pics of you and then I'll let you know from there
jp!
If thats you no offense or nuttin but you posture overall look displays lack of confidence, meekness, and timidness. I mean your mannerism which are subtle and for most unrecognizable to most give the impression like you feel self loathing and and unconfident.
- Oct 6, 2009
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Originally Posted by freshKRN
Originally Posted by Weekz
cant even believe im doin this......Originally Posted by kilojules64
*facepalm*
Pics of you and then I'll let you know from there
jp!
If thats you no offense or nuttin but you posture overall look displays lack of confidence, meekness, and timidness. I mean your mannerism which are subtle and for most unrecognizable to most give the impression like you feel self loathing and and unconfident.
