NT, I feel like i am doing it wrong.. *Pics* Vol. EDIT

Originally Posted by youngwill500

NT i come to you with a vent this fall afternoon, sitting down on my lunch break I am starting to evaluate my life as a 22 year old kid from a black middle class family, with an awesome younger brother and being blessed with both of my parents. I have an ok car (06 vw passat). i work 2 part time jobs, and go to school part time at my local comm college. Studying liberal Arts, but willing to switch my major at the drop of a dime if i know i can get a job i like with great pay (I know, stupid.. and not likely these days). I met a girl, who's father took a liking to me from the instant we started talking over a beer.. She is a great girl, but i cant see myself with her.. she is feeling me hard body, good morning text, cooks me breakfast, ask if she would like for me to come over or her to come over and make dinner for me and my family. This girl is all around Perfect. and i hate that.. cause im not perfect. I work, school, 
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, duty and hang out with the team once a week. I only want to be with her because her dad said he could get me a job working as a support specialist at the Pentagon, starting in the spring. he just keeps calling me "son" and blah blah. I feel that i am doing it wrong because I shouldve been graduated school, moved out of my parents house, settle down and i guess live life.. thats how most of my friends at my age are at.. some of there lives look pretty enjoyable.. others i feel bad for..

What?
So let me get this straight.  This chick looks good, likes you, cooks for you, her dad likes you, and he'll hook you up with a job at the Pentagon?  What's the problem?
 
Doing it wrong? Nah bro you're all set, you just need to figure out you and what you want. Seems like your livin a good life, take the time to appreciate it.. Shes bad btw
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She's cute. Wanna change places?
I'm 21 and should graduate this spring, I live with 2 dudes, I have 1 job, and I have 0 girls...
 
OP - that sounds like a pretty good problem fam.
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Don't stress... I'm 28 and still a kid in some ways. Just take in stride, appreciate what you do have, and live, b. Stop worrying so much.

Sidenote - never understood people who smoke dro and STILL stressed out about life. Maybe it's not for you.
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Be your own man, first. Don't worry about everyone settling whether their happy or miserable, do what makes you intrinsically happy at the end of the day.
 
OP.

If you let this slip through your fingers so help you (whatever god you believe in, if any) I will flame you using what ever e-thuggery I have available.
Shes beautiful man...

But if you dont like her then I can't make you. 
 
Originally Posted by sillyputty

OP.

If you let this slip through your fingers so help you (whatever god you believe in, if any) I will flame you using what ever e-thuggery I have available.


E-cred = 0Nothing to worry about here OP
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Dude you wanna trade? You seem to have it good. Keep her man. I'm smashing these girls and I wanna settle down, but I ain't seeing that potential. Hell id love to have a girl that has my back like your girl seems too. I'm 26 and im not gonna rush it. Do what works for you though man. You know what you want, but just make sure that the decision is the right one and made with all options weighed.
 
Originally Posted by goDie

OP, you had all the major parts of a story except for CONFLICT.

This. I swear OP is part of what's wrong with the younger generation. Take everything for granted.
 
You doing good. Keep using ppl for your own goals. Just cut that settling down in your early 20s out RIGHT NOW, there's no place for such thoughts my man.

If you get this 3rd job I'm sure you'll have enough money to get an apt or atleast a situation where you can get roommates.

Be warned that some salty NTers will try their hardest to sabotage you. They will. Contacting that girl and showing her the thread will mess up you smashing that and getting that job.
 
Originally Posted by goDie

OP, you had all the major parts of a story except for CONFLICT.

She's either cheating on him behind his back with on e of his boys, but he wants the job before he breaks up with her or she was born with male and female reproductive organs.  Which one is it OP?
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