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Just go with the flow dont push women away because you think you suck and even if you do suck the female might think otherwise so just go with the flow op
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Everyone you know might be on another level, but don't feel like you're at the bottom. You're not, because there are many other people with nothing even close to what you have. Take a look around and realize you are very fortunate to have a house, a family, a car, food, friends, education and a job. I said in my previous post that you're already better off than I am: you have a college education, a car, a job, I don't have any of that.Originally Posted by Trent Ferris
Yea I guess alot of it is my mindset. It's tough to get out of it, though.
Real talk the OP was kind of a question aimed at myself more than anything.
It's just really hard to not care about this stuff, when everyone I know is living life on another level.
Plus, everyday I wake up in a house that I hate living in, driving a car that i hate having. It's really hard for me to let go of material possession as a basis for one's self worth, and I honestly have no idea how to go about doing that.
I think it really comes down to me thinking too much and not just letting good things unfold, but I simply can't see how to let go/relax/stop thinking, when deep down I feel like this feeling of being less-than and needing to come up is what drives me to be a successful person. Like people tell me that I could have everything and still wouldn't be happy, and i kind of see that as a good thing because that means that I'll have that hunger that dies in alot of people after they feel they've made it.
Everyone you know might be on another level, but don't feel like you're at the bottom. You're not, because there are many other people with nothing even close to what you have. Take a look around and realize you are very fortunate to have a house, a family, a car, food, friends, education and a job. I said in my previous post that you're already better off than I am: you have a college education, a car, a job, I don't have any of that.Originally Posted by Trent Ferris
Yea I guess alot of it is my mindset. It's tough to get out of it, though.
Real talk the OP was kind of a question aimed at myself more than anything.
It's just really hard to not care about this stuff, when everyone I know is living life on another level.
Plus, everyday I wake up in a house that I hate living in, driving a car that i hate having. It's really hard for me to let go of material possession as a basis for one's self worth, and I honestly have no idea how to go about doing that.
I think it really comes down to me thinking too much and not just letting good things unfold, but I simply can't see how to let go/relax/stop thinking, when deep down I feel like this feeling of being less-than and needing to come up is what drives me to be a successful person. Like people tell me that I could have everything and still wouldn't be happy, and i kind of see that as a good thing because that means that I'll have that hunger that dies in alot of people after they feel they've made it.
Not there yet, but I'd assume it sucks. But what can you do about it? I get you though.Originally Posted by CaBron James 23
this should be written in the bible. Ive went through the hard times by myself and now I'm semi-established. Feel like I can never really love a chick because she was never there for the rough times and now reaps all the benefits. How y'all feel about this?Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
If a chick won't mess with you because of the color of your room or because you drive a 98 Protege, thats not the type of chick you want to be with anyway. If you find a girl who see's your vision, is willing to stand by you through the tough times, and helps you achieve your goals... hold on to her. I would rather get with a woman like that then a woman who potentially wants to go along for the ride AFTER I've already gotten established.
Not there yet, but I'd assume it sucks. But what can you do about it? I get you though.Originally Posted by CaBron James 23
this should be written in the bible. Ive went through the hard times by myself and now I'm semi-established. Feel like I can never really love a chick because she was never there for the rough times and now reaps all the benefits. How y'all feel about this?Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
If a chick won't mess with you because of the color of your room or because you drive a 98 Protege, thats not the type of chick you want to be with anyway. If you find a girl who see's your vision, is willing to stand by you through the tough times, and helps you achieve your goals... hold on to her. I would rather get with a woman like that then a woman who potentially wants to go along for the ride AFTER I've already gotten established.
i have a feeling this is gonna happen to me...i have no help right nowOriginally Posted by CaBron James 23
this should be written in the bible. Ive went through the hard times by myself and now I'm semi-established. Feel like I can never really love a chick because she was never there for the rough times and now reaps all the benefits. How y'all feel about this?Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
If a chick won't mess with you because of the color of your room or because you drive a 98 Protege, thats not the type of chick you want to be with anyway. If you find a girl who see's your vision, is willing to stand by you through the tough times, and helps you achieve your goals... hold on to her. I would rather get with a woman like that then a woman who potentially wants to go along for the ride AFTER I've already gotten established.
i have a feeling this is gonna happen to me...i have no help right nowOriginally Posted by CaBron James 23
this should be written in the bible. Ive went through the hard times by myself and now I'm semi-established. Feel like I can never really love a chick because she was never there for the rough times and now reaps all the benefits. How y'all feel about this?Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
If a chick won't mess with you because of the color of your room or because you drive a 98 Protege, thats not the type of chick you want to be with anyway. If you find a girl who see's your vision, is willing to stand by you through the tough times, and helps you achieve your goals... hold on to her. I would rather get with a woman like that then a woman who potentially wants to go along for the ride AFTER I've already gotten established.
Originally Posted by Trent Ferris
Quick run down:
I live at home in a room the size of a walk in closet with two sisters brothers
Originally Posted by Trent Ferris
Quick run down:
I live at home in a room the size of a walk in closet with two sisters brothers