NT: you a cheater?

[yeah]

Ahh we aren't dogs; that's a cop out IMO

Hit the history books, my man. Before Abrahamic religions rose in popularity, polygamy was common practice.

How modern relationships manifest themselves is heavily influenced by religion. One man, one woman marriage is relatively new when you consider humanity's recorded history.

That said, I've cheated before. Wouldn't do it again, but I don't necessarily regret doing it. Each occasion has taught me a valuable lesson, and the consequences were worth what I've learned.

@ getting at girls with men makes you beta. You sleeping with a girl with a man doesn't mean you can't control yourself, it means that woman can't control herself. Half the time girls are lying about being single too word to the ring on the nightstand.

 

[stillin729]

History books

it freakin 2014; don't give me that nonsense

 

[putting in work]

 

in DR wit the homies, yup, i cheated. it happens. i hit a few married chic as well, ish happens. i dont look for it tho. i never pursue other woman but when paths cross ish happens. been wit my girl almost 7 years. 

how many times has she cheated on you that you know of?

none that i know of. maybe she has, maybe she hasnt. i had a feeling once that maybe she did, but came to the conclusion of no with a little work. i can never trust a woman, no matter what im doing. just me. just how i was raised by my pops. 

Same here I don't know if I'll ever fully trust a woman even though I've been with mine 11 years now and even though I dig I can't seem to find **** so I assume she's good at hiding it lol even though I haven't had a reason to so far.

I haven't been the best myself but the worst is when I didn't mess around she accuses me of it and that is the worst

 

[yeah]

History books

it freakin 2014; don't give me that nonsense

I mean, you said we aren't dogs as if humans are meant to be with one person. For the rest of their life. My purpose was to bring up the fact that its matter of conditioning more so than us "being human" and "not dogs."

 

[rustlenomics]

im in a relationship but i still look at girls, i dont think id take it any further than that because its not as easy as whipping it out and taking care of business.

you never know what these girls are thinking, they will show up to your work, your house, your girls work.

key your girls car, and worst tell their boyfriends..

a couple of years back i was talking to some girl at party and she was boring, after she left i wiped her number from my arm and was making jokes with my boys.

this girl that was there told her for some reason, then the airhead had the nerve to tell her EX that i didnt like her..

until this day i see dude and he dogs the hell out of me and im sure he still wants to fight me.

i banged my bestfriends girl, she kept him from talking to me for 3 years or so, they got into a fight and her and i drank and we just talked.

she ended up kissing me and things escalated, dont think your girl is safe from being a cheater.

i wasnt even thinking about her like that, nor did i ever..we actually hated each other.

 

[parada45]

My current GF never

I got a Stan on here who stalks me so I’ll just leave it at that

 

[12 million]

Ive never cheated. Never even thought about it.

I don't see whats the point of committing yourself to a chick/dude if all youre going to do sleep around with other people.

Save that person the heartache. That **** is seflish and inconsiderate

 

[frshstunna]

I already know i'll cheat so i just avoid relationships to save me the trouble and headaches

 

[miniojw]

I've been single for all of my 20s. One thing I have learnt is that (all) women are annoying. Now that I'm 30, I can't see myself dealing with more than one women. Polygamy sounds cool but in this day and age it just means mass child support, a bunch of drama, and necessary stress.

 

[stillin729]

dudes in here trying to justify cheating as human nature that are in relationships

when you committed to a relationship; did you let the girl know this? hell no you didn't

be real; I don't see the point in hurting someone just for my own selfish reasons, this is exactly why I stayed single for 3 years after a bad break up

 

[smokey]

Ive been cheated on and it ******* sucks, so ever since i was 15 my rule with every single one of my new girl friends is to cheat on them first just incase she ends up cheating on me. Yes their is that chance of the girl i cheated on being the one but in this day in age, these ******* aint loyal and you'll know when the right one shows up.

My goal in life other than going to school and getting a god job and making bank is to **** as many girls as i can so cheating might be one way to boost my count.

 

[truballa101]

I wouldn't cheat. If I really needed the P from other women then I would cut it off and not waste my main girls time.
I wouldn't want my girl wasting my time if she had other dudes giving her the D.

 

[harlemtothebronx]

If nothing else, this thread proves that we are all different. I don't fault anyone for their beliefs in here. Life is hard, and at times temptation can be a part of that. Some fight it, others don't. It's not right, but it is what it is.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

Ive been cheated on and it ******* sucks, so ever since i was 15 my rule with every single one of my new girl friends is to cheat on them first just incase she ends up cheating on me. Yes their is that chance of the girl i cheated on being the one but in this day in age, these ******* aint loyal and you'll know when the right one shows up.

My goal in life other than going to school and getting a god job and making bank is to **** as many girls as i can so cheating might be one way to boost my count.

Cant generalize the females man. Its not good. I been the same way except i would just dog them. Tell them **** just to keep em happy and emotionally distance myself

But they would think everything is cool. At the end of the day its just not worth it. The point of being with a chick is to give it ur best and vice versa

If she cheats then her loss. Dont mess up a chick feels for you. She could be head over heels for you and you would mess that up

 

[truballa101]

Ive been cheated on and it ******* sucks, so ever since i was 15 my rule with every single one of my new girl friends is to cheat on them first just incase she ends up cheating on me. Yes their is that chance of the girl i cheated on being the one but in this day in age, these ******* aint loyal and you'll know when the right one shows up.

My goal in life other than going to school and getting a god job and making bank is to **** as many girls as i can so cheating might be one way to boost my count.

So something that happened to you when you were 15 is gonna dictate how you move forward in new relationships?
I'm gonna tell you straight up. You're thinking more emotionally than logically (which is what females do).

No doubt, you should have your guard up but automatically cheating on a girl so you don't get your feelings hurt first is female ish.

But if you wanna have that mindset then continue to do what you do.

 

[da r entertainment]

How you are with females is a reflection of how you were raised, the type of household you grew up in, and how your father treated your mother.

Drops mic

There's some validity in this, but at the same time when you reach adulthood you're responsible for your own actions. Have I cheated in the past, yeah I have, but it was definitely a learning experience. I have a great woman now and I wouldn't want to risk that for a few minutes of pleasure.

 

[suberzat1]

i dont wanna talk about this

Say it ain't so Audi.

I never cheated and don't plan on it. Feel that some dudes fear being lonely so they get in relationships but still cheat.

 

[mister friendly]

I don't cheat anymore basically because its not worth it but its a constant fight not to cheat

I also think dudes who make it seem like cheating is totally unnatural are betas

Cheating is natural but it doesn't mean its right

 

[KOTA's Friend]

and all this above, is simply an excuse to condone that type of behavior.

I think it's a well agreed upon fact that cheating on a spouse is wrong. Thus, simply saying "oh im human I make mistakes" is a BS crutch and proves you do not have the control or desire to remain faithful.

It's black and white.

Well forgive me for not being perfect and again, all mighty, like you mr. lyrix. I guess being truthful is now viewed as "BS" in today's society then. I said, "we make mistakes." Not that us was right, not that it was okay, not that it's a pass, but MISTAKES. It's the truth. I am not using this as a crutch, bcuz I'm not trying to defend my actions. I owned up to my mistake, on NT and with my lady. Maybe I need to work on my control.......................................................................................but maybe you need to work on your condescension.

 

[cedric ceballos]

When I was younger I did. Back then I was just trying to get my nut off with whoever and could care less about cheating.

Now, I wouldn't want to play with someone's feelings and emotions by being in a relationship with them and cheating so I just stay single so I can smash whoever.

Regarding other people's relationships, I used to operate on the mindset that id respect her relationship as much as she respects it. If she'll let me beat then that's her mans problem.

Ill fall back now for the most part and won't knowingly smash a woman in a relationship. not necessairly because I respect that mans relationship but more so because I don't want potential problems.

Some women will eventually either feel guilty and confess to him, tell him she cheated during the heat of an argument to spite him, and some will try and spin it around like I made them cheat and its all my fault and I corrupted them and I got some crazy pissed off dude trying to press me defending his cheating girlfriends honor.

Some dudes wife up garden tools and deserve to be cheated on for ignoring the warning signs though, I just don't want the problems of some dude trying to start stuff with me because of his bad decision choices in a girlfriend.

 

[yeah]

dudes in here trying to justify cheating as human nature that are in relationships

when you committed to a relationship; did you let the girl know this? hell no you didn't

be real; I don't see the point in hurting someone just for my own selfish reasons, this is exactly why I stayed single for 3 years after a bad break up

Actually, the first girl I ever cheated on was my ex from freshman year of college. I told her I was going to cheat before I did. She was a virgin, and from the jump I told her "I know you're a virgin and I respect that, so just be honest if you want to wait for marriage so I can save us both a headache." She said she just needed a "Little time."

Well, one semester went by and it was cool. Learned a lot about being romantic and a loooooot about women. But I was tired of waiting and I told her "Are we going to make it to *that* stage anytime soon?" She said she didn't know, I told her she better figure it out before I found someone who was with it. We got in a big argument over it, I made good, and we split ways. Her main gripe? Not that I cheated, but that her friends had found out.

I don't think anyone is trying to justify cheating. We're just being honest with the realities of life. Some people can't help it when they find themselves in the candy aisle, some people can't help it when they find themselves in the candy shop. It doesn't mean anyone is inherently evil or out to intentionally hurt anyone. People simply operate in a way that works for them. *shrug*

 

[stillin729]

ironic this situation was posted...

my friend just hit me up and told me a buddy off mine who is engaged to be married next year and in the process of building a house has been trying to get in those panties

man I don't even know what to do about this; I always had reservations about him because he makes it like you would never know he even was dating someone

 

[fourtyeight48]

No.

I'm a loyal person.

I wouldn't be in a relationship if I wanted to smash more than one chick.

I'm not in one. But when I am, I am.

 

[triple homicide]

Nah I dont do the cheating.

Don't have them kinda bones in my body.

 

[you go boy]

i only been in 3 relationships which was like a decade ago and each only last 3 months so never had enough time to do anything including cheat