NT: you a cheater?

[willie mcfly22]

Man there jus so much that can b discussed on here bout this subject. So many layers to this it could go on forever. There's infidelity that goes on where you would never guess. The world is a effed up place. I jus try and sift thru and stay sane...

 

[flyny]

But I was tired of waiting and I told her "Are we going to make it to *that* stage anytime soon?" She said she didn't know, I told her she better figure it out before I found someone who was with it. *

You can't expect anything to go well in your relationship after saying something like that, pa

 

[legendairy stinson]

I've been single for all of my 20s. One thing I have learnt is that (all) women are annoying. Now that I'm 30, I can't see myself dealing with more than one women. Polygamy sounds cool but in this day and age it just means mass child support, a bunch of drama, and necessary stress.

Brah I was single for only 2, 3 years of my 20s and I found that out immediately.

 

[legendairy stinson]

I don't cheat anymore basically because its not worth it but its a constant fight not to cheat

I also think dudes who make it seem like cheating is totally unnatural are betas

Cheating is natural but it doesn't mean its right

No. Dudes that argue that cheating is natural are the real betas. They're insecure about themselves and fear being alone.

It's fine when you're young, everyone has to make mistakes and learn from them but there's a point when you have to grow up and try to achieve your own "alphaness". It's impossible to focus on bettering yourself when you're too busy trying to impress multiple women and still keep a relationship with one intact.

 

[wayniac211]

Man there jus so much that can b discussed on here bout this subject. So many layers to this it could go on forever. There's infidelity that goes on where you would never guess. The world is a effed up place. I jus try and sift thru and stay sane...

When you have kids involved, it's the worst...

 

[am1x90xnike]

Cheating...it's a choice. It doesn't make you a better person because you don't cheat. Of course, I know guys who cheat and are pretty good people, then I know dudes who don't cheat who I think are jerks...like jerks.

I say, it's a broken promise, but when you are in a relationship it's unrealistic to think you're never break their promise, or break a women's heart. You don't have to sleep with another girl to break your womens heart, you can just generally be a scumbag to her. "I hit her in the face, but I never cheated on her" " I made her sleep outside, but I didn't cheat on her" "I crashed three of her cars, but I didn't cheat on her" " I got her locked up, but I didn't cheat on her."

Then, there are some girls who wouldn't even mind. If my wife cheated, one night stand, nothing brought back, I would care a lot less than if she was constantly hanging out with some dude, talking ish behind my back, eating, having the dude around my kids even though they are not sleeping together...there are much worse things in life than my wife cheating...it's all about perspective it's not a pass, but if a one night stand every few years is her only drawback (which includes she never bringing anything back, because that is a completely different problem, so don't go there) then I'd have to say, Id be ok.

 

[putting in work]

What if you're a nypho and just like sex and enjoy *******...

I like looking at girls I don't know why so much it's to the point like I eye **** then and wonder what they look like under their clothes.

I try not to make it noticeable but sometimes I think in my mind it is.

 

[Coromanti]

I wouldn't cheat if I was in a relationship.

If a girl was in a relationship BUT was coming after me, I'd maybe pursue....so long as she wasn't looking to make me her new dude..

Married women...nah...husbands arent rational enough to let that go...would rather get arrested for it.  Not for me.

 

[$tacy]

I will not snitch on myself but hey... It is what it is. Never smashed married woman in my life tho... I use to see a ring and not even attempt. But if its threw at me **** it not my problem

 

[stillin729]

Last thing you need is a heated husband/fiancé/boyfriend doing something stupid

Can't comeback from a fit of rage

 

[youngdoc]

I've cheated on several gf's but I never considered them to be wife material

Hopefully my next serious gf ends up being my wife and I definitely don't want to cheat on her

I would never actively pursue a married woman. If a married chick is coming onto me I'd do my best to resist.

I'd back off a chick with a bf but if she throws herself at me I'm smashing

 

[$tatus $ymbol]

In what world does being attracted to a woman that isn't your s/o = fear of being alone

I can only equate the "everybody that cheats is beta" responses to genuine insecurity, you don't want anyone else smashing your woman so desperately that you hop on your moral high horse & dudes that do so are completely wrong

My position on it is, I'm over my cheating days or at least I think. I wouldn't go out of my way to smash a broad that's already in a situation but if I'm attracted enough and she's pursuing me, there's a chance I might hit that. Just keeping it 100. = I will say though married women are completely off limits regardless. Now if the next man chooses to smash a broad in a relationship & throwing herself at him, then who I am to say that man is wrong?

 

[yeah]

You can't expect anything to go well in your relationship after saying something like that, pa

I was 17 at the time, and I was very reckless. The cheating story was actually documented on NT (my old SN was SolTheMan)

 

[Chopper]

I've cheated on several gf's but I never considered them to be wife material

Hopefully my next serious gf ends up being my wife and I definitely don't want to cheat on her

I would never actively pursue a married woman. If a married chick is coming onto me I'd do my best to resist.

I'd back off a chick with a bf but if she throws herself at me I'm smashing

Really? Didn't we just have this conversation in TAY last week? Welcome to my line of thinking youngdoc 

 

[youngdoc]

I've cheated on several gf's but I never considered them to be wife material


Hopefully my next serious gf ends up being my wife and I definitely don't want to cheat on her

I would never actively pursue a married woman. If a married chick is coming onto me I'd do my best to resist.


I'd back off a chick with a bf but if she throws herself at me I'm smashing

Really? Didn't we just have this conversation in TAY last week? Welcome to my line of thinking youngdoc 

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Should have clarified. I meant knowingly pursuing.

If a chick with bf shows up at my crib with no panties and I smash I don't think that's desperate.

But putting any effort at all to smash is IMO if that makes any sense

 

[cels the younggod]

"I like being bad and then going home and being good." Boss Don

 

[heliumclinton]

I don't cheat anymore basically because its not worth it but its a constant fight not to cheat

I also think dudes who make it seem like cheating is totally unnatural are betas

Cheating is natural but it doesn't mean its right

Umm no cheating isnt natural, sex is natural

 

[youngdoc]

I don't cheat anymore basically because its not worth it but its a constant fight not to cheat

I also think dudes who make it seem like cheating is totally unnatural are betas

Cheating is natural but it doesn't mean its right

Umm no cheating isnt natural, sex is natural

Monogamy isn't natural for males

 

[heliumclinton]

I don't cheat anymore basically because its not worth it but its a constant fight not to cheat

I also think dudes who make it seem like cheating is totally unnatural are betas

Cheating is natural but it doesn't mean its right

Umm no cheating isnt natural, sex is natural

Monogamy isn't natural for males

Word, only males naturally want to have sex with different people right?

 

[stillin729]

Monogamy isn't natural for males

dumb statement of the day

 

[youngdoc]

Monogamy isn't natural for males

dumb statement of the day

It's in our genetic best interest to have as much progeny as possible

 

[legendairy stinson]

What if you're a nypho and just like sex and enjoy *******...

I like looking at girls I don't know why so much it's to the point like I eye **** then and wonder what they look like under their clothes.

I try not to make it noticeable but sometimes I think in my mind it is.

Nothing wrong with that as long as you're not in a relationship

 

[willie mcfly22]

What if you're a nypho and just like sex and enjoy *******...

I like looking at girls I don't know why so much it's to the point like I eye **** then and wonder what they look like under their clothes.

I try not to make it noticeable but sometimes I think in my mind it is.

Nothing wrong with that as long as you're not in a relationship

Can't look and think about other girls if in a relationship??! Sheesh y'all must up ya girls *** somthin fierce...

 

[sneakaprince]

I use to be a good guy but man over the last couple years or so all I've done is cheat. Had some great girls too.

Hope I get it together soon

 

[URAVGFL]

Use to be. But it sucks when it actually happens to you. I learned from it though & am glad that the karma came at me rather than some scum treat my daughters like that in the future.