Ok my fellow members of NT.....first date ideas....Im drawing a blank :-\

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  1. freddypee

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    Ok so I'm going to be hanging out with this girl tonight. Im usual very good at first date ideas...but heres the problem....its freezing out and she doesntget off work til 10..so I will see her round 10:30....

    we were supposed to get coffee but it will be too late so I figured we can chill in the car at this spot in my city where you have a cool view... and I wouldpick up two coffees ahead of time and have them in the whip like on some we couldnt go so lets have coffee here [​IMG]

    what yall think?? Im in NYC by the way if you know a chill spot to sit and talk.
     
  2. rko2004

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    I like your idea. I would take her to a movie then out to eat. But you can save that for a second date.
     
  3. shannonscrooks

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    You under 21 I am assuming? If it werent so cold just go the Thurgood Jenkins route.
     
  4. wraith aka invincible

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    just go to a restuaruant
     
  5. mr monday niight

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    movies is probably the worst place to go if you wanna get to know her
     
  6. inspektahdeck

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    soho park silverspurs are pretty cool they're both in soho

    if your in brooklyn and over 21 buffalo wild wings in atlantic mall is the perfect place for u two
     
  7. freddypee

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    word....

    and Im 20 if it counts....so cant hit the 21 spots yet


    but the point of not going to a movie or something is because I want to actually speak to her and just feel each other out..... restaraunt would be cool...butat almost 11 at night? not a good idea....
     
  8. rko2004

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    Thats why you chill before like at a park or something, chat it up, go to the movie, then after go get something to eat. The movie adds more tothe after convo if the conversation is off to a slow start.
     
  9. nktran001

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  10. goten21

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    midnight bowling
     
  11. datznasty

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    bowling
     
  12. inspektahdeck

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    in the park??? he lives in NYC its 26 degress right now
     
  13. rko2004

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    Make a fire and show her you can provide heat and comfort.








    [​IMG] But I was referring to what they said about the movies more so thenwhat He should do this time.
     
  14. shapeshiftah

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    my dude, i don't know if you been there recently, but that place is ridiculously loud. last time i went, they had like two dozen differenttv's playin a different sports channel, it seemed [​IMG][​IMG]

    if you are in brooklyn, try some of these spots that stay open pretty late:

    sea -- dope thai spot in williamsburg that stays open pretty late
    kitchen bar -- a cool bar/restaurant in park slope decorated with local artists' works. their food is pretty good, and they serve food until pretty late.
    chocolate room -- place is dope, located in park slope also. you can sit down, have some hot chocolate, and maybe share a dessert [​IMG][​IMG]
    sidecar -- another cool bar/restaurant in park slope.
    red bamboo -- dope vegetarian soul food spot in ft. greene (across the street from my childhood apt [​IMG]), HIGHLY recommended.
     
  15. inspektahdeck

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    a diner........cheap food+good convo= smashing in too weeks
     
  16. blackmagnus514

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    Bowling. you'll see how competitive she *+$ and it's not that expensive

    dont spend too much on her cuz (1) she might have a man and (2) she might be a psycho
     
  17. ohstyles

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    Movies are the worst first date activities.
     
  18. freddypee

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    lmao yeah she might be crazy


    and for the record im not trying to smash too quick...im actually feelin her....smashing will come later....

    where is there bowling around?

    I live in Riverdale if that helps.... thanks for advice....so far im still shooting for my idea and or possibly bowling....

    and whats good...anyone know a nice quiet non bummy diner?
     
  19. alchemist iq

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  20. djaward

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    SOUNDS LIKE YOU GOT GOOD PLAN. [​IMG]
     
  21. theabove

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    Feel each other out. Good call.

    I've struck out asking a girl for a coffee in advance. Timing is everything.
     
  22. blackmagnus514

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    Chelsea Piers on 23rd
    Lucky Strike on 42nd
     
  23. ill w1lliam

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    First place I took my girl.
     
  24. shapeshiftah

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    i like bowlmor in manhattan, near union square, but i usually go to melody lanes in sunset park brooklyn (my neighborhood). try bowlmore. alsoheard that chelsea piers was official.

    for a cool diner, try relish in williamsburg. there will be a ton of hipsters obviously, but the food is good, and they stay open until 1am on the weekends.

    also, brooklyn diner on 57th street in manhattan (go figure [​IMG]) is awesome. the diner on 9th ave and tick tock diner on 8th ave are also pretty good -- bothof these are 24 hour spots.

    if you want good burgers and fries, go to 7A cafe in the east village. this place is open until like 7am. [​IMG]
     
  25. kingofny04

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    Bowling is a no go seeing as your 21, everywhere Ive tried in the city wont allow under 21 after 9:30-10, but maybe theres a spot I havent tried[​IMG], anyways my best bet would definitely something regular, scoop her up from workand drive somewhere, dont be cheesy and park somewhere dark, or even somewhere with a nice view it seems to cliche or that what I was told when I didit[​IMG]. But if worse comes to worse take her to a diner/restaurant, seeingas your from riverdale, the Riverdale diner on 231st(behind the mcdonalds, cant confirm the street number for you but its behind broadway) has decent food andits a very mellow and chilled diner for you to just talk.