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Ok, so i'll be as concise as possible. I can flesh out more as we move along if requested.
So my shortie used to work with this cat, they would talk at work of course.. text and email occasionally.. I know all of this, because she tells me. She's relatively transparent, she's pretty easy to read, and i'm straightup about my dealings with the opposite sex(you already know..).
Anyways, so he ends up leaving the job first, and continues to hit her up on the grounds of whats going on at the office, and trending into whatever else im sure.. then she leaves the job a month later.
He stills hit her pretty regularly, but now he's dropping hints about where he lives, his preferred methods of contact etc etc. Again, shortie keeps me abreast.
I dont trip because for a few reasons: If she's gonna slipup and stepout.. much rather she do that when she's my girl, rather than my preg. girl or my wife--fewer encumberances in your way of moving on. 2. She's going to get hit on and pressured.. she needs to go through this training camp and buildup that "nah #%@+*' resolve. And 3. You gotta keep bullets in the chamber for your own potential f*up's. And so I generally just sit back and monitor.. letting her deal.
Ok so the cat is really casual, and not really assertive at all.. but a few weeks ago, he starts asking my shortie if they can jog together, can he scoop her from work(it was raining out).. So she's like, next time he calls.. im gonna dead it.. and im like yep.. this niqqa overstepping bounds like a mf.
So he calls, and she deads the sht.. "yo we cant talk, youre trying to jeopardize my sit. etc etc"... He gives some bs rebuttles, but finally is like iight I respect that, bye.. But that lasted only a few days.. this mf calls is like yo, its !*%$#%#* that we cant be cool, its not that serious etc etc.. she would initially text the cat back and try and explain, but now she she just ignores it totally. But he still calls randomly.. like once every few weeks.
I think I know the answer.. but WWNTD? I havent taken it to that level since H.S., but this is beyond disrespectful at this point. Apprise me folks.
So my shortie used to work with this cat, they would talk at work of course.. text and email occasionally.. I know all of this, because she tells me. She's relatively transparent, she's pretty easy to read, and i'm straightup about my dealings with the opposite sex(you already know..).
Anyways, so he ends up leaving the job first, and continues to hit her up on the grounds of whats going on at the office, and trending into whatever else im sure.. then she leaves the job a month later.
He stills hit her pretty regularly, but now he's dropping hints about where he lives, his preferred methods of contact etc etc. Again, shortie keeps me abreast.
I dont trip because for a few reasons: If she's gonna slipup and stepout.. much rather she do that when she's my girl, rather than my preg. girl or my wife--fewer encumberances in your way of moving on. 2. She's going to get hit on and pressured.. she needs to go through this training camp and buildup that "nah #%@+*' resolve. And 3. You gotta keep bullets in the chamber for your own potential f*up's. And so I generally just sit back and monitor.. letting her deal.
Ok so the cat is really casual, and not really assertive at all.. but a few weeks ago, he starts asking my shortie if they can jog together, can he scoop her from work(it was raining out).. So she's like, next time he calls.. im gonna dead it.. and im like yep.. this niqqa overstepping bounds like a mf.
So he calls, and she deads the sht.. "yo we cant talk, youre trying to jeopardize my sit. etc etc"... He gives some bs rebuttles, but finally is like iight I respect that, bye.. But that lasted only a few days.. this mf calls is like yo, its !*%$#%#* that we cant be cool, its not that serious etc etc.. she would initially text the cat back and try and explain, but now she she just ignores it totally. But he still calls randomly.. like once every few weeks.
I think I know the answer.. but WWNTD? I havent taken it to that level since H.S., but this is beyond disrespectful at this point. Apprise me folks.
