SEXTING DISCUSSION w/ Cliffs

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  1. octobersfinest

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    (CNN) -- Nearly one-sixth of teens who own cell phones have received nude or nearly nude images via text message from someone they know,according to a new survey on "sexting" from the Pew Internet & American Life Project.

    The national telephone survey confirms parent and teacher worries that young people are using cell phones to send out and receive sexually explicit imagesof themselves and of romantic partners.

    The 800-person survey, released Tuesday by the nonprofit research group, found 15 percent of cell-phone-owning teens ages 12 to 17 had received nude ornearly nude photos by phone. Four percent of the teens said they had sent out sexually explicit photos or videos of themselves.

    Older teens were more likely to send sexual images through text messages than younger teens. Four percent of 12-year-olds reported sending sexually suggestive images by text message, while 8percent of 17-year-olds reported texting nude or partially nude photos.

    The Pew survey suggests teens who pay their own cell phone bills and who have unlimited text messaging plans are more likely to engage in sexting than thosewho use phones owned by their parents or have restrictions placed on how frequently they can text.

    However, teens whose parents searched through their cell phones were no more or less likely to send and receive sexually explicit text messages than thosewhose phones were kept private, the report says.

    Boys and girls surveyed were equally likely to say they engage in sexting.

    The survey results were paired with focus-group interviews of 74 teens in three cities to create Tuesday's report, titled "Teens and Sexting."The report is not the first to try to quantify teenage sexting, a practice that is still so new and little understood that it's difficult to say if it ison the rise or decline among teens.

    Teenage sexting usually is done as part of a relationship or would-be relationship between teens, the Pew focus groups found.

    Some teens send sexts only to people with whom they are in a relationship; but those messages often are forwarded to people outside the relationship,especially after a breakup, according to the interviews.

    "It doesn't take that many people creating these images for a lot of people to see them," said Amanda Lenhart, a senior research specialist atthe Pew Internet & American Life Project andauthor of the sexting report.

    Lenhart said the focus groups highlighted the fact that teens look at sexting in a range of ways. Some teens interviewed by Pew said sexting was no causefor concern.

    "I only do it [sexting] with my girlfriend b/c we have already been sexually active with each other. It's not really a big deal," one highschool boy wrote in a Pew focus group.

    Others said sexting is part of teenage culture -- partly because it can be more convenient or less intimidating than traditional dating.

    "Most people are too shy to have sex," another high school boy told Pew. "Sexting is not as bad."

    Still others quoted in the report acknowledge the dangers of sexting -- including the fact that recipients of naked pictures can easily forward them tofriends or post them on the Internet to fuel a grudge.

    "This girl sent pictures to her boyfriend. Then they broke up and he sent them to his friend, who sent them to like everyone in my school. ... Itruined high school for her," one older high school boy wrote in the survey.

    Bill Albert, spokesman for the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, said it's that fine line between private and public that'sleast understood, but should be of the most concern for teens and their parents.

    "Things go from private to global in a nanosecond in this world," he said.

    Albert's group published asurvey in 2008 that found 20 percent of teens age 13 to 19 said they had texted or posted online sexy photos or videos of themselves.

    The number of kids who are sexting should concern parents enough to make them talk to their kids about the dangers of sexting, but should not cause them topanic, he said. Any behavior, including sexting, that contributes to a culture of casual sexual encounters should be of concern to parents, he said.

    He urged parents not to blame cell phones forthe trend.

    "To me, blaming the technology is like blaming an automobile for drunk driving," he said. "It is not the product, it is not the technologythat is the problem. It is the judgment of the people using the technology."

    The prevalence of sexting coincides with greater cell phone use among teens in general. In a 2004 PewInternet survey, 18 percent of 12-year-olds said they owned a cell phone; in a 2009 follow-up, 58 percent of kids age 12 reported having their ownmobile device.

    The Pew report on sexting also underscores the complicated legal climate surrounding teenage sexting.

    Teens in some states, like Florida and Pennsylvania, have been prosecuted or threatened with prosecution on child pornography laws because they sent outnude images through text messages, the Pew report says. Ohio is considering legislation to criminalize sexting between minors; Vermont and Utah have downgradedpenalties for first-time sexters, the report says.

    Parents should concentrate on making their kids aware of the potential legal and emotional ramifications of sexting, Albert said.

    Avery Murphy, an 18-year-old member of the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy's youth leadership group, said the increasingpopularity of phones with cameras seems to be behind the sexting trend as much as anything.

    She suggested parents talk to their teens about appropriate cell phone use when their kids first get cell phones. But don't overdo it, she said, becauseteens generally understand the dangers of sexting.

    "Parents think it's happening more than it actually is," she said. "It's not seen as very normal byteenagers."

    Cliffs:
    • Survey also finds 4 percent of teens have sent sexual photos or videos of themselves
    • "Most people are too shy to have sex. Sexting is not as bad," student says
    • Pew Internet & American Life Project conducted the survey of 800 people
    • Interviews find some teens think sexting is no big deal; others say lives ruined
    Long read, but you know the gist. These stories have been popping up for months now. I'm out of college already but when I was in hs yeah I def had picsof my gf or some chick who wanted to see but I don't know about being 12 years old? Kids are gettin in real trouble, not to mention girls are offingthemselves because of the heckling they get after their pics get distributed. Maybe only the young dudes can chime in but is this really gettin that crazy/hasit changed from like 8 or 9 years ago? Or is it just a media craze now. Edit: any opinions from parents of daughters out there?
     
  2. metallicnitro

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    I remember being in HS and getting pics over IM... however you have to keep in mind that if you're caught with them and depending on the state you live in,you can get hit with child porn charges. Luckily (or unluckily) for me I ended up frying my old hard drive and lost the pics these girls had sent me.
     
  3. edz one

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    OP's sig says it all
     
  4. whateversclever

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    Can you still get charged with child pornography if you are say 15 also? Back in HS, sidekick + tmail = infinite nudes.
     
  5. metallicnitro

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    yeah, depending on your state laws. There have been cases of both the chick and the guy getting charged with porn laws and sometimes just the guy. What sucksis that those kids had to register as sex offenders.
     
  6. mytmouse76

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    there was a case where i kid put up naked pics of his ex on myspace...i think he was hit with child porn charges
     
  7. jabawokee

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  10. thesouthside

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    I love sexting

    its sooo easy gettin pics from 14-23 yr olds. So easy. Sometimes i feel like im on henzos level
     
  11. calypso chanta

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    "C'monnn, you know im not showin 'em to anyone else."



















    once i get them pics....

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  12. ninjahood

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    sidekick 2 blew da barn doors off this years ago......
     
  13. needsomejays

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    how old can you possibly be where your ranging in girls that are 11 years apart
     
  14. octobersfinest

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    Was this a joke?
     
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  16. ninjahood

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    16-17, cuz u can lie to a old broad if u look old enuff, and you still legal to smash da tender pootangz
     
  17. thesouthside

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    pretty much. Also my high school is right down the streat from TCU [​IMG]
     
  18. mytmouse76

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    some stripper sent me pics last week and he won't stop calling me...

    i never even asked for them...
     
  19. jthagreat

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    i had some back in Hs. got a few, but they be ones ive taken. always erase them tho.

    I work in a youth center and one of my co workers found a kids phone and looked through the pics to try and find out who it belong to....lol shame on the boylol
     
  20. octobersfinest

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    So you try and get pics from 14-16 year old girls??
     
  21. shaze804

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    smh
     
  22. kyrac2

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    [​IMG] yuku
     
  23. mcflyyy

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    can't front like my email/phone isn't filled with em. no complaints here.
     
  24. kyrac2

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    so how'd he get ya #? you gave it to him right, then you were asking for it [​IMG]
     
  25. primavera vills

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    12 y/o? Wow....that's crazy. I used to get emails of naked girls back in 9th-11th [didn't have a nice phone back then]. When I got a decent phone, allI had to do was ask and 9/10 I would get a few pics. I sent out a few boner shots too tho, but I got more in return.