Small deal-breakers in a relationship

[frshstunna]

-Chicks that be in the club/on the scene every weekend
-Lazy
-Doing too much in social media
-always wanna talk on the phone but got nothing to talk about

 

[nawghtyhare]

I never understood this notion of wanting a wife who is basically a robot who is not allowed to express how she feels 24/7 to her life partner without holding back. It's ridiculous.

no where in my post did i say that
are u challenged, mentally???

 

[nawghtyhare]

Times have changed.
Expectations have changed.
Women working has changed.
We are disposable (In the eyes if some women)

Just a different day

i agree
which is why this world has gone to hell
and so many "relationships"
and marriages fail

 

[Chiron]

Even though I made my list extra long for the lulz ....aside from drug use, zodiac signs and Kardashian/ beyonce most of it is not mainstream. I dont think it really sounds crazy.

Most semi nerdy undergrads could fit the bill easily. Plus you don't find that stuff out on the first night anyway... so until the dealbreaker comes up. We negotiating.
#artofthedeal

 

[shotsrangout]

Honestly if you cheat why should your partner stay with you

 

[Nereyda Vuelve Por Dios]

Hair in certain places.

My latin women tend to have hair darker than thier skin complexion. So essentially no stache, no *** afro, etc.

Ive told a chick or two. Yo you have bleach and laser that *******. Its only right.

 

[shotsrangout]

Times have changed.
Expectations have changed.
Women working has changed.
We are disposable (In the eyes if some women)

Just a different day

its a better time imo

men need to do better

 

[DCAllAfrican]

its a better time imo

men need to do better

It is different.

In someways things are better .
In someways things aren't .

Depends on your perspective .

Yes, men need to do better

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Honestly if you cheat why should your partner stay with you

Not that simple.

It depends on what else the cheater brings to the table

 

[shotsrangout]

It is different.

In someways things are better .
In someways things aren't .

Depends on your perspective .

Yes, men need to do better

if you agree that men need to do better then yes it is a better time

its not the end of the world to agree with someone

 

[nawghtyhare]

Honestly if you cheat why should your partner stay with you

depends
on how
or why u cheated
did u cheat because u fell in love with someone else
did u cheat because u been feeling unappreciated by ur significant other
did u cheat because ur husband/wife is never around or there to support u
bunch of different factors
cheating isnt so cut and dry
i know folks like to act like it is
but relationships arent as simple
as folks expect them to be
VERY nuanced

 

[shotsrangout]

Why cheat though.... if you fall in love with someone else, feel underappreciated, or your significant other doesn't support you

just break up with them.. this is such an easy solution.. you guys are making this way more complicated

 

[nawghtyhare]

Yes, men need to do better

i dislike this narrative
seems we are in a time where everyone bashes men

 

[nawghtyhare]

Why cheat though.... if you fall in love with someone else, feel underappreciated, or your significant other doesn't support you

just break up with them.. this is such an easy solution.. you guys are making this way more complicated

i just made a post saying how nuanced a relationhip is
and u gonna hit me with the "why cheat"
im not even responding to u anymore
on this subject
cause u clearly dont wanna listen
and/or just wanna play devils advocate just cause
also lets me know u def aint in a relationship relationship

 

[shotsrangout]

There's literally no good reason for cheating. Defend it if you want but it's silly.

 

[lamekilla]

Honestly if you cheat why should your partner stay with you

Because...

 

[Dubby]

If she burns Cigs....

Edit: But other than that. Hygiene and keeping up with me fashion wise. And just dont play games with me. .

 

[brogods]

6+ bodies is a no go for wifey

 

[nawghtyhare]

6+ bodies is a no go for wifey

depends on her age

 

[lamekilla]

6+ bodies is a no go for wifey

You better marry her under the age of 21 then

 

[nawghtyhare]

You better marry her under the age of 21 then

yeah 6 aint even bad
unless she like 21

 

[stuntman mike]

Yall be naming some common sense stuff man

Bad breath
Unclean
Stupid

and yet there are guys that are with women who have all three of those traits

 

[Comparison Ford]

6+ bodies is a no go for wifey

Best of luck with junior prom.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

if you agree that men need to do better then yes it is a better time

its not the end of the world to agree with someone

But there are other aspects of man/woman relationships that aren't better in 2019.

We weren't ONLY discussing men needing to do better.

Please keep up

 

[adobecs4]

6+ bodies is a no go for wifey