Soooo Why Do Couples Say "I Love You" Everytime there Absent....

[b0ssldy]

Originally Posted by Bastitch

Originally Posted by milbert

Originally Posted by milbert

Because I wuv her.

Talbert

Because I LOVE you, wubbzy.
michelle

Get a damn room.

, and they share an account, how cute!

then again, I feel bad for you son.

 

[milbert]

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Talbert

 

[heliumclinton]

dude got 11 posts and already saving gifs

 

[visualmusic]

Originally Posted by Uptown Roamer

I always say it to my girl. My fam too.

Never know what might happen between then, and the time you think you'll see that person again...

Basically. I'm trying to understand how you didn't figure this out on your own.

 

[itsgettinhot]

Originally Posted by milbert

Originally Posted by milbert

Because I wuv her.

Talbert

Because I LOVE you, wubbzy.
michelle

Ya'll make me sick.

 

[jose cansec0]

Originally Posted by jawnyquest

Never know if it's the last thing I'll get to say to her.

basically...

 

[kuprelli]

Originally Posted by Bastitch

Originally Posted by KUPRELLI

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

Originally Posted by KUPRELLI

I just can't except that most people do it for the reason stated (because what if its the last time U see them)....Damn thats so sappy! Like R u people that insecure that u need to be told something over and over again just to make it thru the day....Is the daily reassurrance that necessary??? Like really, I realize it's just a simple thing to say, but I'm not a fan of saying things just because it sounds good!


*EDIT* I'm talking about people in relationships, NOT family.

so i take it your girl got on you for not saying it/not saying it enough? Cuz if not...what difference does it make? It's better than saying "I hate you #%+%+"...at least it's something nice to say to the one you love.

Naw this doesn't have anything to do w/ me and my relationship status...I just wanted to see how everyone else felt about it, thats it! And based off the majority of people that posted...It's done out of "Fear" hmmmm....I guess! Thats kinda weak, but I'm not surprised though seeing as how people do most things because they're afraid...but Thanks for all th replies guys. Keep'em coming!

That's ridiculous rationale that it's done out of fear.

You don't pay your electricity bill because you're scared they're going to turn it off. You pay your bill because you like watching TV, and playing video games, and charging your cell phones and mp3 players.

You don't tell somebody you love them just because you're scared they won't know you love them when if they die. You tell them you love them because you love knowing how it makes them feel when you say it explicitly. You tell them because you get satisfaction out of the security it provides another person. You tell them because you want to express your true appreciation for the relationship. That is true for a spouse, a child, a mother, a father, and a true friend.

That's corny? That's "weak"?

I mean, I can't force you to evaluate this if you don't have the rationale of a mature adult. So, if that's how you feel, that's how you feel.

But it's a damn shame you're so cynical.

It is...thats funny cuz it seems to be what everybody keeps saying in this thread. Im strictly going off of whatpeople say, Im not saying that it's what I think. I posed the question because I wanted to know what everyone else thought...and the MAJORITY said "Ido it cause U never know if you'll ever see that person again!" So forgive me if Im wrong but that sounds like "Fear" to me...People do itbecause they're afraid that possibly it could be the last time they'll see their loved one and they want those to be the last words! Fine...I getit....I really do! Enough people have said it for that to be the expected answer, but U calling me cynical isn't right...Im simply going by what the peoplesay!

 

[ev209]

you never know whats gonna happen to that person next.
also why not?
its like giving someone a nice smile or a nice gesture it just makes you feel good when you do say and actually mean it

 

[dirtylicious]

Originally Posted by ikari XD

Originally Posted by KUPRELLI

Seems like the last 5 people that posted do it out of fear....Fear that U may not see them again & U want that to be the last thing that was said between the two of U, ok I get it (thats corny, but I get it)...but shouldn't that already be understood that U "Love" them...why does it have to be said again and again....I think U guys are conditioned into being that way w/o even knowing it and now it just seems like the norm, when actually it's a lil bit obsessive!!!

it's obviously understood between the two people, but lets say that someone's significant other dies...it'd be nice for that person to know that the last thing they heard from their significant other was "i love you"

word

 

[bastitch]

Originally Posted by KUPRELLI

Originally Posted by Bastitch

Originally Posted by KUPRELLI

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

Originally Posted by KUPRELLI

I just can't except that most people do it for the reason stated (because what if its the last time U see them)....Damn thats so sappy! Like R u people that insecure that u need to be told something over and over again just to make it thru the day....Is the daily reassurrance that necessary??? Like really, I realize it's just a simple thing to say, but I'm not a fan of saying things just because it sounds good!


*EDIT* I'm talking about people in relationships, NOT family.

so i take it your girl got on you for not saying it/not saying it enough? Cuz if not...what difference does it make? It's better than saying "I hate you #%+%+"...at least it's something nice to say to the one you love.

Naw this doesn't have anything to do w/ me and my relationship status...I just wanted to see how everyone else felt about it, thats it! And based off the majority of people that posted...It's done out of "Fear" hmmmm....I guess! Thats kinda weak, but I'm not surprised though seeing as how people do most things because they're afraid...but Thanks for all th replies guys. Keep'em coming!

That's ridiculous rationale that it's done out of fear.

You don't pay your electricity bill because you're scared they're going to turn it off. You pay your bill because you like watching TV, and playing video games, and charging your cell phones and mp3 players.

You don't tell somebody you love them just because you're scared they won't know you love them when if they die. You tell them you love them because you love knowing how it makes them feel when you say it explicitly. You tell them because you get satisfaction out of the security it provides another person. You tell them because you want to express your true appreciation for the relationship. That is true for a spouse, a child, a mother, a father, and a true friend.

That's corny? That's "weak"?

I mean, I can't force you to evaluate this if you don't have the rationale of a mature adult. So, if that's how you feel, that's how you feel.

But it's a damn shame you're so cynical.

It is...thats funny cuz it seems to be what everybody keeps saying in this thread. Im strictly going off of what people say, Im not saying that it's what I think. I posed the question because I wanted to know what everyone else thought...and the MAJORITY said "I do it cause U never know if you'll ever see that person again!" So forgive me if Im wrong but that sounds like "Fear" to me...People do it because they're afraid that possibly it could be the last time they'll see their loved one and they want those to be the last words! Fine...I get it....I really do! Enough people have said it for that to be the expected answer, but U calling me cynical isn't right...Im simply going by what the people say!

You suck at statistical information gathering and forming logical hypothesis.

Niketalk isn't a representation of "everybody". Most of these users are under the age of 25. Most of these users are single. Most of theseusers are middle class.

That is a very specific demographic that is hardly a diverse enough sample to say "yeah, it's like this because that's what everybody issaying".