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Soooo Why Do Couples Say "I Love You" Everytime there Absent....
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Nothing really, I only mentioned it because someone posted about saying it before there grandfather died...but Itreally doesn't matter whether it's ya spouse or family!
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Chicks love hearing those three words. What's the big deal about giving her that little extra happiness everyday?
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Are you that miserable that you cannot understand why people say I love you?
Dude sounds bitter as $#*!.
It only loses it's "meaning" if you don't mean it. When I say it to my girl, it is heartfelt, and if I feel like conveying that feelingconstantly or if she feels like doing so as well, then it shouldn't be an issue.
Most of the dudes who give thewhen it is said are the dudes that aregetting no buns or haven't actually found "love" yet.
In fact, I'm just going to randomly call my girl right now and tell her that I love her and I am thinking of her,. It will make her day
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sirius lee handsome
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It's because they might actually have feelings for one another and express it. You never know
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its kinda an unspoken principle... I was thinking about this today... about 2 hours after
my girl and I got off the phone she called me back just to say I love you... crazy stuff but
nonetheless...
my girl and I got off the phone she called me back just to say I love you... crazy stuff but
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so i take it your girl got on you for not saying it/not saying it enough? Cuz if not...what difference does it make? It's better than saying"I hate you #%+%+"...at least it's something nice to say to the one you love.
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Exactly, I can be on the phone with my girl and say "babe listen im driving right now, ill call you when im home, i love you bye" *hangs up* then endup in a car accident and dead. see what am sayin?
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That's real talk.
If something happened to my girl, I would just want her to know that 'I Love You' was the last thing I said to her...
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Naw this doesn't have anything to do w/ me and my relationship status...I just wanted to see how everyone elsefelt about it, thats it! And based off the majority of people that posted...It's done out of "Fear" hmmmm....I guess! Thats kinda weak, butI'm not surprised though seeing as how people do most things because they're afraid...but Thanks for all th replies guys. Keep'em coming!
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I only say it to my girl when I mean it, it's not necessary to say it everytime you hang up the phone or break away, and vise versa for her.
That way, when she says it or I say it, I know she really means it, and it means much more.
That way, when she says it or I say it, I know she really means it, and it means much more.
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what other answer were you looking for?
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If I do, I will...but as you might remember I didnt so she is gone....
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I was expecting any type of answers, just a general topic I felt like asking about but I didn't know how manypeople would have the same motive behind their actions....Ehhh whatever
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ehhh i can say it without meaning it...
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i like to tell my wife i love her at least three times a week.
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That's ridiculous rationale that it's done out of fear.
You don't pay your electricity bill because you're scared they're going to turn it off. You pay your bill because you like watching TV, andplaying video games, and charging your cell phones and mp3 players.
You don't tell somebody you love them just because you're scared they won't know you love them when if they die. You tell them you love thembecause you love knowing how it makes them feel when you say it explicitly. You tell them because you get satisfaction out of the security it provides anotherperson. You tell them because you want to express your true appreciation for the relationship. That is true for a spouse, a child, a mother, a father, and atrue friend.
That's corny? That's "weak"?
I mean, I can't force you to evaluate this if you don't have the rationale of a mature adult. So, if that's how you feel, that's how you feel.
But it's a damn shame you're so cynical.
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I just say it because I feel the need to tell him..
Not as a reminder, but just to say it, because it's how I feel.
& It can be the last time I say it..
I know some cases where the last words
spoken to each other were "I love you."
Not as a reminder, but just to say it, because it's how I feel.
& It can be the last time I say it..
I know some cases where the last words
spoken to each other were "I love you."
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I guess cause you never know what could happen while you're away. accident maybe?
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Because I wuv her.
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Because I LOVE you, wubbzy.
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Get a damn room.
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I say it to avoid an arugment on why I didn't say it
