TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[EddieDoyers]

If I paid for a date and don't end up smashing and I was feeling her, I end up feeling some type of way.

That's where I feel like I should have got an escort instead if I dropped that much bills on a woman that didn't give me the box
but the emotional connect ain't the same
Dat after-smashing cuddle>>>>>>

 

[アミーゴ]

if I just wanna smash and I already know she's easy, I'm reluctant to pay for a broad. I'm very frugal with my hard earned money, the hell do I wanna pay for a bird.

If I'm actually feeling her it's a bit different. I wouldn't mind paying for her, but I would have to know if our feelings are mutual.

If I paid for a date and don't end up smashing and I was feeling her, I end up feeling some type of way.

Really? I'm the complete opposite. If we agree it's going somewhere and are making plans for another meetup, I'd rather not smash first night.

 

[rrlegend]

Talked on my break for an hour, after..

i haven't posted in here for a min ; why you getting caught up on a chick your probably never gonna meet? i can see if your using this as to step your convo game up with the females but its time to dead that and keep it pushing . 

 

[usabasketball08]

i haven't posted in here for a min ; why you getting caught up on a chick your probably never gonna meet? i can see if your using this as to step your convo game up with the females but its time to dead that and keep it pushing . 

We talked years ago for like two months. See back story a few pages back..

 

[アミーゴ]

Trying to clean up my act. It's time to finally grow up. Wish me luck fam

Go on

 

[rrlegend]

my apologies for being ignorant on all the facts ; but even still thats treadmill status . So lets say y'all do meet up than what ? 

 

[suberzat1]

 

Can we get pics at least? I need to put a face to this dialogue [emoji]128064[/emoji]

100% what this man said. now im intrigued if shes worth all this.

**** I just wanted to know if she was tall or not......wasnt even looking for a pic

But now I want one

 

Trying to clean up my act. It's time to finally grow up. Wish me luck fam

Go on

Son you about to pop the question soon.......

 

[equality]

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[tdogg2k]

Trying to clean up my act. It's time to finally grow up. Wish me luck fam

 

[suberzat1]

 

[youngdoc]

Naw not yet

That won't be until late this year or early next year

But since I know I do want to marry her I'm trying to get on that Dave Hollister tip. No more messing around. It has been definitely hurting our relationship.

 

[usabasketball08]

Definitely thought you were gonna say you're turning your playa card in and getting married.

 

[youngdoc]

Definitely thought you were gonna say you're turning your playa card in and getting married.

Naw. We've had some big fights recently (mostly my fault). I gotta mature a bit more before taking that step

 

[mugen81]

 
Got dumped by gf of 9 months 2 weeks ago.

Wanted to marry this girl (didn't even want to get married before meeting her). Talked about our plans, children etc. Paid for every single dollar whenever we went out since she was still only working part time. Her birthday's next month and I was planning to buy her tickets to Australia for her and her best friend as a surprise. Usually I ain't the type to do that unless I'm 100% sure of her, and I thought I was. Gave 100% to her and treated her the best I could.

Was never controlling or jealous in the relationship. Never asked who she's talking to, if anybody hit on her at work, none of that. Let her have as much freedom and privacy as she wanted and it's not like hse ever did anything to make me suspect foul play. Only had like 3 serious arguments our whole time together. Admitted what I did wrong every single time and legitimately improved myself. Never raised my voice, nothing.

Hit me with the "I'm not excited about this no more" line 2 weeks ago. 

Had to return something to her 1 week after break up. Told her I'm willing to work things through, but she didn't want to. Said all the nonsense meaningless "you're the best thing that's ever happened to me" stuff.

Had to rant to my NT bruhs.

i know this is going to be hard to listen to because your in the eye of the storm.

Move on and make a clean break. You did nothing wrong and it truly is her. When a woman can look you in the eye and say that exact line, she is seeing somebody else that see feels gives her a thrill. Everybody has been there and has heard that line. I know it feels like you are trying to conjur up everything you did wrong and you start questioning yourself.

Maybe if i did x,y,z or maybe if i had more of a back bone, or maybe i should have said i love you more.

Do not beat yourself up brethren, more then likely when this new high/thrill is gone, like clockwork she will be back.

Take care of yourself and take care of your loved ones. Do not be her security blanket. Im not saying she cant mature in the future and im not saying you two cant work it out but what im saying to you is i have seen this same situation and my homies have too and trust it made us better men and we all found women 10x better then what we think we had.

A lot of women(generally speaking) have the grass is greenier effect. You provided, took care of her needs, were attentive and pushed her to go for her dreams i bet.

But to her that became mundane and predictable and a new dude is giving her a challenge. Maybe is not as attentive or is a jerk and she sees that as a project, wants to throw the cape on and save him.

Its crucial, as much as it hurts, to step back and get right with yourself. Dont have any contact because i promise(i have been you, i said everything in your post) its like peeling a scab over and over and she will place your heart in a vice grip until she finds exactly what she is"looking"for. Take care of yourself, maintain your goals and paths and set your mind to something greater and dont block your blessings.

Sitting here worrying about her, is just that. promise this girl has not thought once about you.

You were someone before her and you will be someone after her. Dont let her drag your mental to hell because you will never have the sufficient answers. Yes you will have drawbacks or social media stalking moments(did that and that **** her like hell). But do your best to move on. Dont dwell on  past, trivial things. Take one day at a time and be thankful for the lessons and life you have ahead of you. Women will always be there, but your finances, family, mental health may not.

Keep your Head Up

Peace..

 

[equality]

 
i know this is going to be hard to listen to because your in the eye of the storm.

Move on and make a clean break. You did nothing wrong and it truly is her. When a woman can look you in the eye and say that exact line, she is seeing somebody else that see feels gives her a thrill. Everybody has been there and has heard that line. I know it feels like you are trying to conjur up everything you did wrong and you start questioning yourself.

Maybe if i did x,y,z or maybe if i had more of a back bone, or maybe i should have said i love you more.

Do not beat yourself up brethren, more then likely when this new high/thrill is gone, like clockwork she will be back.

Take care of yourself and take care of your loved ones. Do not be her security blanket. Im not saying she cant mature in the future and im not saying you two cant work it out but what im saying to you is i have seen this same situation and my homies have too and trust it made us better men and we all found women 10x better then what we think we had.

A lot of women(generally speaking) have the grass is greenier effect. You provided, took care of her needs, were attentive and pushed her to go for her dreams i bet.

But to her that became mundane and predictable and a new dude is giving her a challenge. Maybe is not as attentive or is a jerk and she sees that as a project, wants to throw the cape on and save him.

Its crucial, as much as it hurts, to step back and get right with yourself. Dont have any contact because i promise(i have been you, i said everything in your post) its like peeling a scab over and over and she will place your heart in a vice grip until she finds exactly what she is"looking"for. Take care of yourself, maintain your goals and paths and set your mind to something greater and dont block your blessings.

Sitting here worrying about her, is just that. promise this girl has not thought once about you.

You were someone before her and you will be someone after her. Dont let her drag your mental to hell because you will never have the sufficient answers. Yes you will have drawbacks or social media stalking moments(did that and that **** her like hell). But do your best to move on. Dont dwell on  past, trivial things. Take one day at a time and be thankful for the lessons and life you have ahead of you. Women will always be there, but your finances, family, mental health may not.

Keep your Head Up

Peace..

.

 

[tdogg2k]

Cosign on everything mugen said... been there.
Protect ya neck

 

[flacobey]

TAY FAM,!!!

sup yall, I was AFK all weekend.
1st shout out to
@Hennessy, mad cool dude. can't wait to hit a summit out with the fam! Don't retire yet bruh.

@FlacoBey - Come join the squad DMV Summit

Date Ideas for DMV http://www.insidenova.com/things_to_do/ This is where I find all my date ideas. cool stuff going on everywhere.

This weekend was disgustingly hot, if you're going to do hiking at billy goats trail go EARLY. I took a date there at 7 a.m. we hiked til about 9, had brunch /picnic til about 10, went to the mall, Told her I enjoyed this day so far and didn't want it to end this early, we agreed to shower up and meet back up... deal was sealed.

There are plenty of Plays/dramas going on. but I think the Nats game or hiking is better. as dude said do something you want to do. 1. you know you'll enjoy it. 2. you can make her enjoy it by the knowledge/ enthusiasm you show for doing it. Like if you're a baseball fan and say she knows it but not well, you can explain stuff to her.

That shows women you have patience and willing to work with them. If she is a fan even better she will def enjoy it.

@Ben Dover, we'll PM you our numbers while you're out here bro



@USAbasketball I was wrong myself, it's super weird she is talking to you.... she is either
A: just still super intrigued by you and wants to know what can be.
B: is spying on you to your girl
C: Hates your girl and gives no dambss



I met a tinder chick the other night myself i'll type later got some more work to do. but I see yall fam!!!
Anyone in the Arizona Area? I may be going out there next week.

DMV Summit?

 

[jjs]

girl about to pass out during intercourse

Damn! Sorry to hear that famb! Work more on your stroke game?

i was refering to the post about the guy wanting to pull a move on a girl doing ramadan.

girl will be so weak off not eating anything, she'd pass out during intercourse.


i was a joke. Welp |I

 

[davizzy]

Usually lurk the thread but I finally feel like sharing.

So decided to meet a yamb I met through OKC this past Saturday for some drinks.ive been talking to her for a bit and this is the first time actually meeting someone I've met online so I had low expectations. It was a bit awkward at the beginning but towards the end I start getting touchy feely and she is cool with it. As we are exiting the bar for the night I stop grab her face and go for the kiss. We arrive at my car and she leans on it(car) then proceed to make out. I notice she starts breathing heavily and moaning. I invite myself to her place and she denies me. She then turns around to leave, but looks back at me so I grab her hand then pick her up while I grab a hand full of booty meat. She again starts with the breathing and moaning. She then tells me she has to go and takes off to her car. We exchange a few texts after and last night asked me if I was drunk. Asked if I wasn't drinking if I would have kissed her. I replied no I wasn't drunk and I would have done the same thing regardless. I feel like she has some low self confidence.
Anyways I'm in a California drought here and thought it was going to be over on Saturday.

 

[rosegoldsluggs]

Met some chick at the club and got her number. Texted with her she seems cool and ima most likely set something up only thing is I dont remember what she looks like 

 

She could be in my face right now and I wouldnt know it was her lol.

I was kinda outta there that night but I remember her having a real pretty face.

What would yall do? 

I was kinda thinking just set something up and have her spot me, im kinda tall so it wouldn't be hard for her but idk

 

[suberzat1]

Just set up something to do tomorrow like coffee or happy hour that cheap so you can bounce if she not whats up

 

[stork]

just ask for the IG....

 

[omariwestafari]

Ok famb got a date with a chick i been out with two times before. She told me we gunna see jurassic world.

Im really trying to smash her this time since i havent the previous three

Gimme some tips that i can pull during the movie and tips in general to seduction

 

[cerebralarrow]

Met some chick at the club and got her number. Texted with her she seems cool and ima most likely set something up only thing is I dont remember what she looks like   
She could be in my face right now and I wouldnt know it was her lol.

I was kinda outta there that night but I remember her having a real pretty face.

What would yall do? 
I was kinda thinking just set something up and have her spot me, im kinda tall so it wouldn't be hard for her but idk

U gotta be done with her man. This is too much.

Plan it out. Put a line on a notepad. One for moogly,the other for pretty. The rest is on you brother.

 

[アミーゴ]

Plan it out. Put a line on a notepad. One for moogly,the other for pretty. The rest is on you brother.

Why'd u quote me lol?