TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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Second question: Is it immature to start ignoring the sexual desires of my girl cuz she knows that I'm typically always for "play time?"  I feel like she uses the fact that I'm almost always ready to go as a reason to not do stuff with me cuz she nkows she'll get it whenever she wants. I guess I'm trying to make her work for it .
Yeah it's immature. Nobody got time for making someone "work" for it while in a relationship, can't be srs.
Yea that's what I was thinking. I just notice she knows I'm always up for action and as a result kind of acts like my sexual desires don't really matter. So I figured if I create value through scarcity (shout out to economics class) then she just won't dismiss me when I wanna do stuff.

Naamean?

LDR + no fap is just tough.
Sometimes I get thoughts I don't wanna have.
son you just solved the matrix for me, this makes sense like crazy...I'm always 'ready to go' but feel like if I'm not smashing everyday, I'm being held out on. I'm about to try this.
 
 
 
Second question: Is it immature to start ignoring the sexual desires of my girl cuz she knows that I'm typically always for "play time?"  I feel like she uses the fact that I'm almost always ready to go as a reason to not do stuff with me cuz she nkows she'll get it whenever she wants. I guess I'm trying to make her work for it .


Yeah it's immature. Nobody got time for making someone "work" for it while in a relationship, can't be srs.


Yea that's what I was thinking. I just notice she knows I'm always up for action and as a result kind of acts like my sexual desires don't really matter. So I figured if I create value through scarcity (shout out to economics class) then she just won't dismiss me when I wanna do stuff.


Naamean?


LDR + no fap is just tough.

Sometimes I get thoughts I don't wanna have.
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son you just solved the matrix for me, this makes sense like crazy...I'm always 'ready to go' but feel like if I'm not smashing everyday, I'm being held out on. I'm about to try this.

You're just gonna end up having sex less and then both you and your girl are going to be frustrated :lol:

In a mature relationship you should be able to talk to your girl about concerns and desires and not play games to try to get what you want
 
 
 
 
 
Second question: Is it immature to start ignoring the sexual desires of my girl cuz she knows that I'm typically always for "play time?"  I feel like she uses the fact that I'm almost always ready to go as a reason to not do stuff with me cuz she nkows she'll get it whenever she wants. I guess I'm trying to make her work for it .

Yeah it's immature. Nobody got time for making someone "work" for it while in a relationship, can't be srs.

Yea that's what I was thinking. I just notice she knows I'm always up for action and as a result kind of acts like my sexual desires don't really matter. So I figured if I create value through scarcity (shout out to economics class) then she just won't dismiss me when I wanna do stuff.


Naamean?


LDR + no fap is just tough.

Sometimes I get thoughts I don't wanna have.


son you just solved the matrix for me, this makes sense like crazy...I'm always 'ready to go' but feel like if I'm not smashing everyday, I'm being held out on. I'm about to try this.
You're just gonna end up having sex less and then both you and your girl are going to be frustrated
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In a mature relationship you should be able to talk to your girl about concerns and desires and not play games to try to get what you want
We have talked about it believe me, I got the "I'm gonna do better at it", it happens for a bit, then right back to the same ****...and it's not even like that's all I care about, but going from doing it ALL the time, to having to schedule when SHE is ok with doing it, and it's never that same day, like what. I'm supposed to turn my mood off until tomorrow or whenever she's ready?...

I know, I KNOW it's expected, but I remember the first couple of times we smashed (before we dated), she kept saying that if she was around more (implying if we were together), she'd smash everyday and give endless BJ's...

boyyy did I walk into that blind as a ************
 
so my girl gets tired frequently (think she needs to see a doctor about this) and i end up accommodating her by putting off sex.  today i made it known that id like her to send a shot of her backside and she gave me some ******** excuse.  puts a really bad taste in my mouth and makes me feel resentful
 
Nothing worst when a chick want attention around the clock , I have school & work and the gym . FIrst time dealing with an older chick .
 
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Nothing worst when a chick want attention around the clock , I have school & work and the gym .
I think you doing it right though, you limiting your time to her so any time you do potentially give her, she's gonna try to make the most out of it.
 
^^ that's definetly true bro she is so used on having everything her way and at the time she wants , she just can't take "no" for an answer.
 
I've officially hit a new level of frienzone.

Girl's mom is paying for our hotel (suite) and parking for Disneyland. Trying to get her to pay for food, fuel, and park admissions while she's at it.
 
Mom dukes isn't going though.


Girl's reply to me asking for gas money
"Dude we might end up sleeping on the same bed, l'll give you gas."

Ha, I better be getting more than gas.
 
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Second question: Is it immature to start ignoring the sexual desires of my girl cuz she knows that I'm typically always for "play time?"  I feel like she uses the fact that I'm almost always ready to go as a reason to not do stuff with me cuz she nkows she'll get it whenever she wants. I guess I'm trying to make her work for it .

Sounds like something I would do...but then again I'm petty

I know how it feels though bro..when you want it, and she don't wanna give it and gives some lame excuse.. It's frustrating....I'm actually getting mad thinking about it.
 
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More power to you it is a very select few chicks I like in kicks....the rest I prefer in flats or along those lines
 
Hit a bad stripper chick last night. Got some pizza from the casino and she topped me off in the car on out way back to the crib.

Head was good...but I figured she be better at riding. Guess I was expecting too much based on her occupation.
 
Second question: Is it immature to start ignoring the sexual desires of my girl cuz she knows that I'm typically always for "play time?"  I feel like she uses the fact that I'm almost always ready to go as a reason to not do stuff with me cuz she nkows she'll get it whenever she wants. I guess I'm trying to make her work for it .

Yeah it's immature. Nobody got time for making someone "work" for it while in a relationship, can't be srs.

Yea that's what I was thinking. I just notice she knows I'm always up for action and as a result kind of acts like my sexual desires don't really matter. So I figured if I create value through scarcity (shout out to economics class) then she just won't dismiss me when I wanna do stuff.

Naamean?

LDR + no fap is just tough.
Sometimes I get thoughts I don't wanna have.
Better watch out before she goes to get some **** from some other dude :lol:
 
Hit a bad stripper chick last night. Got some pizza from the casino and she topped me off in the car on out way back to the crib.

all that glitters ain't gold pimp

Head was good...but I figured she be better at riding. Guess I was expecting too much based on her occupation.
 
TAY fam going through a break up of 1 year plus. sucks man did everything with this girl took her to prom, graduated with her really thought we had something good going for us. any advice you guys can give me to get out this funk.
 
TAY fam going through a break up of 1 year plus. sucks man did everything with this girl took her to prom, graduated with her really thought we had something good going for us. any advice you guys can give me to get out this funk.

Get in the gym. Go hard in preparation for summer and you will be winning.
 
Get in the gym. Go hard in preparation for summer and you will be winning.
we broke up last monday. and been hitting the gym every day after just to get my mind off things. but it just sucks man so much time and effort on trying to do good for this girl. feels like wasted time
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TAY fam going through a break up of 1 year plus. sucks man did everything with this girl took her to prom, graduated with her really thought we had something good going for us. any advice you guys can give me to get out this funk.
That's nothing. Try 6 years. Brush it off n get ready for the summer
 
Break-Up Survival Kit:
Delete her completely from your life(Facebook,Twitter,Etc..)
If you must talk to her, give yourself at least six months to a year. You will have gone through all your emotions and will be more level headed if an encounter happens.
Read, Read, Read. Obtain as much knowledge as you can.
Workout, Train, Play Videogames, Research New Hobbies..
Cry, get it out of your system. Give yourself time to grieve but don't harp on it/give a time limit to yourself.
Talk to somebody, if your patnas are not about that life, seek professional help.
Find your focus and path in life.
Study Life, Be Patient and Still..
Learn Meditation.
Listen to the most misogonistic music in the world or find a positive outlet for your anger.
Boxing worked for me.
Be angry but find resolve and L.I.G. IT
Date/Smash but don't rebound..
Last but not least, Do Not Beat Yoursel Up.
**** happens, People Change. Sometimes you have to let people go to become stronger and wiser.
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we broke up last monday. and been hitting the gym every day after just to get my mind off things. but it just sucks man so much time and effort on trying to do good for this girl. feels like wasted time :smh:

If you enjoyed the time you spent with her then it isn't wasted time.

Talk to a new chick and it will get your mind off of her.

Its going to suck but that's life. Sometimes things don't work out.
 
Being in a LDR especially when you and your girl aren't on the greatest terms is so tough man

Just wish it was Christmas already lmfao... oh do I have stories for you guys

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